10 Tips for Happy Married Life These 10 suggestions might help you get tothe point where you want to work things out with your current spouse, or they will helpyou in your next relationship. 1. Make time to connect lovingly with yourspouse every day A couple can significantly improve their chancesof marital success by devoting as little as 15 minutes a day exclusively to each other.For instance, you could wake up a little earlier, and spend the extra time in bed cuddling,making love, and reaffirming your love for each other.
2:Compliment your spouse regularly Both in private and in front of others. Evenif your partner seems embarrassed or shrugs it off at first, the glow from sincere praiselasts a long time. 3: Love your spouse in the way he or she wantsto be loved We often make the mistake of assuming thatthe things that touch our hearts the most deeply will affect our partner in the sameway. For instance, you may think red roses are the perfect gift, but to your spouse,they represent a waste of money and an allergy attack. If you don’t already know, find outwhat your spouse yearns for, and then deliver
it with love . 4:Take care of your appearance Look your best for your spouse. Lose the rattysweat pants or frayed sweater he or she hates so much; you can find other comfortable clothesthat aren’t a complete turnoff for your partner. This also means taking care of your health including eating properly and exercising regularly. 5: Remain faithful Accept the fact that you are no longer single.keep in mind your love for your spouse and
the love your spouse has for you, your commitmentand your vows. 6: Do things together Another common factor of longterm happy marriagesis that the spouses regularly do things together that they find fun and exciting. Whether that’sballroom dancing, bowling, playing cards, SCUBA diving, or skiing, participate in atleast one activity that you both enjoy every week. If you have kids, make sure at leasthalf of these activities are for you and your spouse only. 7: Spend time apart
You take a pottery course while your spouseplays hockey; you play bridge and your partner collects stamps. You don’t have to love everythingyour partner loves, but you do have to allow him or her the freedom to pursue cherishedhobbies. An added bonus is that separate interests can generate interest between you. 8: Be friends with your partner The key to marital happiness and success isfriendship. Some of the most important aspects of this type of friendship are knowing eachother intimately, demonstrating affection and respect for each other on a daily basis,and genuinely enjoying each other’s company.
9: The Terms of Endearment Spell out the basics of the relationship ina yearly contract or at least to clarify them. Most disputes that break up marriagesare over sex and money. Don’t let surprises lead to trouble. Marriage is like any othercontract: its terms and conditions must be reviewed and updated. 10: Say quot;I love youquot; every day This is especially important when you’re notfeeling the sensation of love; at these times, you have to actively generate it. Saying thosethree little words, and performing loving
How to Save Your Marriage And Stop Divorce Complete Guide for 2015
Hey, it’s Brad Browning here and I’m amarriage and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. And in this tutorial, I’m going toteach you how to prevent separation or divorce and save your marriage. This is obviouslygoing to be a huge topic and I’m going to cover as much as I can in this tutorial. So sittight and be sure to watch this entire clip, because I’m going to teach you things thatmost couples will never know about building a loving marriage. First of all, let me tell you who this tutorialis for. This tutorial is for people whose husband or wife announced that they’re no longerhappy in their marriage. You may have heard
painful things like, â€œI’m just not happyanymoreâ€�, â€œI don’t love youâ€�, or â€œI’m leaving you.â€� Or, maybe they’ve alreadyleft you. No matter the case, I know how extremely difficult, stressful, and heartbreaking thissituation isâ€¦ and I know how hopeless you might feel at this very moment. So I’m goingto start off this long tutorial by telling you that there IS light at the end of this longtunnel. With the proper guidance, help, and attitude, it is possible to turn your marriagearound despite how adamant your spouse may be on divorce. I know this because I’veseen thousands of so called â€œhopelessâ€� couples turn it around â€“ and I know exactlyhow they did it.
With that being said, rebuilding a brokenmarriage is a rocky road. Sometimes, things can get a little worse before they get better,and it takes a lot of devotion on your part to make things better. However, I promiseyou that if you watch this whole tutorial and follow my advice very closely, you’ll havethe best chance possible of rebuilding that marriage you and your spouse deserve. But before I get into what TO do to save yourmarriage, I first need to tell you about what NOT to do. The vast majority of married couplesthat I coach commit almost all of these very damaging mistakes. And I know that some ofyou might be in a situation where your spouse
isn’t willing to work on the marriage, butin a minute, I’ll tell you why that’s okay, and why it’s even more important foryou to learn these common mistakes before you go down the road of rebuilding a newer,happier marriage. Some of this stuff you may already know, butit’s important to remember these mistakes before you cause any further damage to yourmarriage â€“ and these are tips that will have an immediate impact on your relationship. I like to call these mistakes my â€œBig MaritalMistakesâ€�. Big Marital Mistakes 1 â€“ Initiating needlessconflict with your spouse. When you’re trying
to fix a broken marriage and you’re feelingdesperate, chances are things can spiral out of control very easilyâ€¦ (and I think youknow what I’m talking about). You think that if you could just talk to your spouseabout all your problems and find common ground, your marriage will magically fix itself andget better. But usually, this isn’t the case. While communicating with your spouse is importantin rebuilding a marriage, what your marriage does NOT need right now is another argumentor fight. Even if your partner says something antagonizing or wants to bring up a touchysticky issue at the moment, do your best to
avoid conflict politely. Don’t ignore yourspouse or discount any of their concerns, but you need to ensure that the discussiondoesn’t end up in a screaming match. You can say something along the lines of, â€œIknow this is a real concern right now and I want to resolve this issue, but can we discussthis later?â€� Try and be as nonconfrontational as possibleâ€“ at least for now â€“ until you learn how you can manage how to handle your argumentslater. I’ll get to what I call my â€œDispute Defusing Systemâ€� later in this tutorial. Ifyou have any questions or concerns about this common mistake, please be sure to ask questionsin the comments section below. I’ll do my