5 signs your partner is cheating is having extramarital affair We are living in the age of Social Networking, Financial Freedom and Easy Availability. If your partner has a roving eye and does not mind instant gratification then your partner is more prone to having an affair or extramarital sex. So how do you know whether you are being cheated upon? Here is a list of some changes in behavior that could mean hes looking for love and.
Comfort elsewhere. No Eye Contact Eyes are the doors to the soul. If there is an element of guilt in your partners conscience because of the extramarital affair, he would avoid emotional and physical intimacy with you as he has betrayed your trust. Going further, you must check if your spouse.
Also avoids being alone with you. these signs confirm that he emotionally wants to cut his feelings of affection for you, as he is feeling guilty due to his proximity with the new partner. He has suddenly become inaccessible This stage is much more advanced stage Your spouse may suddenly make himself very unavailable. Whenever at home, he is busy on computer working on some project or report or an urgent presentation.
On holidays he doesnt stay at home because he is attending some training program or visiting a friend in . Similarly when you call him at his office, you are told by his Secretary or colleagues at he is in a meeting with the boss or is attending to the client. Did you ever wonder why he is perpetually busy? He could be spending more and more time away from home with another woman. This is your second clue to the ongoing extramarital.
Affair. Sudden changes in his appearance Just check if your husband has drastically changed his clothing style, hair do or appearance for no apparent need. He may be trying to impress the other woman. If your partner goes in for a makeover so that he can look younger or more energetic it may be more than a change of fashion sense, be warned.
Changes in his life style If your lazy spouse who is fond of football watching on TV has suddenly become a morning person and a regular to gym, please take it that it may not be you that hes trying to impress. He may be trying to look good to his new love interest especially if she is a much younger woman. Secretive Nature.
Did you notice that your spouse gets startled when you catch him unawares on computer or on mobile chatting or texting? Often you find him chatting in whispers over phone and on noticing you, he tells the other person Ill call you back and disconnects. It is because you are not part of his other world as he has been hiding it from you. This behavior can be characterized as secretive, unusual or unexplained. This should alert you about the possibility of your partner cheating on you.
Emotional Affairs Are a Slippery Slope to Cheating on Your Partner
The emotional affair, as opposed to the physical affair, is really just what it sounds like, which is being emotionally invested in someone other than your main partner. Where you are confiding in them usually intimate details that normally would be reserved for your partner and starting to invest in them that could be through flirtation that gives you a feeling of gratification that normally would come from your partner. The emotional energy that it takes to keep a stable longterm relationship going that becomes invested in somebody else.
Is essentially being siphoned off from your main partner. they often do turn into a physical affair. Theyre often just sort of the gateway on the way there. Youre not telling your partner what you feel about this other person. So it is a secret. It is a betrayal because you know that if your partner could see what you are doing with this other person they would be hurt. They would take it as a betrayal. Its healthy to at times have a thought about someone else. But this now becomes not just about thoughts.
This becomes about actions. so, you know, you are saying sure yeah lets have a drink after work or youre touching their arm or youre thinking Im going to wear this sexy outfit to work today because Im going to see so and so and really hoping that theyre going to notice and then, you know, were going to have a little flirtation and Im going to get some of that great feeling that I get when they have a response to me. So one of the more common stories for couples coming in to see me where something like this.
Has gone on is it started with i contacted or was contacted by an old boyfriend or girlfriend on Facebook. Super common. Seems like it should be innocent but its kind of cool. And then you get that little Oh, that feels nice! And you start interacting with them. And because its by computer you feel like its safe, right. Im not seeing them. Im not physically with them. But youre tossing a little something out. Theyre tossing a little something out and it becomes this slippery slope. Not that you can never talk to somebody who was.
Ever in your past before but if youre going to no flirting, no seduction, no complaining about your current relationship. That is hugely important. Stay away from alcohol with people that something might be a little bit starting with because when inhibitions come down thats when problems get started. Think about what you would be hurt by if your spouse were doing the same thing with somebody else. And then also think about is there something youre looking for that is drawing you to.