Relationship Counseling Orange County, CA 949 4307198
What is so important to me about this work is the opportunity to help people find each other again. In our daily lives, we have so much going on with our stresses and our family and we lose each other sometimes. People come in here feeling hurt and broken. And we're so excited because we can help them walk out feeling connected and loved again. I enjoy helping people get back to things they enjoyed in the relationship. Being able to reconnect, being able to get back to loving each other as couples, being able to reconnect again.
As parents and kids. Just being able to help some of the problems that get in the way, get pushed to the side so that some of the love and connection can come back. I love to see people maximize their potential and really improve their relationships with each other. The therapeutic relationship is really special and unique in that its a different type of relationship than people have with their close family or friends, so it can have a greater impact, but still in a short period of time. When we work with people, whether.
It's an individual or couple, what we're looking for is what will make them happy. I believe that everyone has the expertness about their own lives, everyone has the wisdom about their own lives, it's my job to help that come back. It's my job to bring that out. So we welcome anyone who has a problem in their relationship, whether it's a couple, family, or just the relationship with yourself. Give us a call at the Relationship Center. We'll be here to help. We believe in loving clients into and through the therapy experience. When I.
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Orange County 410 Movie CLIP A Normal Loving Parent 2002 HD
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I'm not saying that. Mom, you know that money can't buy happiness. Oh, grow up. Yes, it can ! You and dad both have money, and you're both miserable. He's miserable Shaun, did he say that Mom, This is the most decisive day of my life. And all I am asking for is one hour. One hour wwith no big scenes, and no nervous breakdowns and no meryl streep impressions. Just one hour where you act like a normal, loving parent. Can you do this for me sighing oh, shaun.
Marriage Counseling How to Encourage Your Man to Share His Feelings
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today we're talking about our relationship skills. Specifically, how do we encourage our man to share his feelings Well just how do we get a man to share his feelings, because this is really difficult for a lot of guys to do. It really starts with a solid communication process. It means that you've got to have a free flow of information, of dialogue, between the man and the woman for this to happen. It needs to be full duplex back and forth. Nothing will be communicated unless both have.
Clear minds and have a full understanding of what's taking place, or what's not taking place. The first thing that you want to eliminate is the fact that perhaps it's because of you that he's not sharing his feelings. So, sit down and talk. Ask him the question. Why is it that you're having a hard time sharing your feelings Is is something that I'm doing Because maybe he might feel that you're actually not listening. So, you need to eliminate that perspective first. The thing that you can do is share your feelings. Make sure that.
He understands how it is with positive communication and being able to share feelings. So, do by example. If he won't volunteer, then ask. Say, let's start a pattern. Honey, how did you feel about this Or, this situation, what could we have done differently How do you feel about buying a house How do you feel about having another child How do you feel about moving here Or what do you think about this situation in my job Or, what did you feel about the situation in your job So, open up and have a dialogue, and explain to.
Him how you feel positively about him sharing his feelings. And when he does open up, say that it's a positive experience, and something that's very important and key to you. So, if you need to have this dialogue started with a positive aspect of communication, and then talk about things where there may be some improvementor some help could be used. There are workshops that can be attended, family resources, marriage education workshops and counseling, but it's important that you have a solid communication first before you can learn to encourage your man how to share his feelings. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources,.
Avoiding Divorce by Asking TOUGH Questions on Core Issues BEFORE Marriage
You brought up the church, the religious premarital counselling. And I know there's a lot of churches that offer that, and it seems like a really good service. But do they touch upon or hit upon these really difficult points. I don't know if you know what they go through or not. But it sounds like yours is very much inyourface and very direct about things. A lot of times counselling in various things, you're just trying to get you to, it seems like to me, talk about things, and either create problems or you don't get to the bulk of what the problem.
Really is. In your case, was this written by you Yes. And did you just take kind of these that I've chose from all your past clients. Because you could have seen in real life what it really is. Right. Because I have been practicing for a long time, and I've had just my mediation practice for almost 15 years now. So you can imagine, especially in the mediation, when I'm working with both parties, I get to see the dynamic on both sides regarding each issue that's kind of caused the breakdown of the.
Marriage. And they're usually related to religion, money, affairs so anything kind of sex related. And sometimes it's also the role in the relationship. Like they don't talk about, Are we going to both have careers when were married or When we have children, do we want one of us to stay home, does one of us even want to stay home, would we want to go parttime, can we afford to do this And those really aren't things that people necessarily talk about prior to getting married, because they feel like it's kind of jumping the gun. Or.
If they do, they talk about it very loosely. And I think it's really important to make sure when you're starting something like marriage together, that you're on the same page. Because that just makes you this power couple moving forward, instead of two individuals who could potentially have friction moving forward when issues come up. And again, we're not going to hit on everything that's going to come up, but there are some core issues that are the leading causes of divorce these days that I address. And you're right, it's a little.
Bit inyourface. And the purpose isn't to cause problems and convince the couple not to get married. Because what I'm trying to do is kind of salvage the potential for breakdown later in the marriage by addressing these beforehand. And so it usually doesn't incite problems with the couple because there's no hot topic that's readily apparent. We're actually just working through them before, and they probably think some of the stuff I ask them as sort of silly. But it's good, and the couples that I've done it with have come back and.
FAMILY MEDIATOR Explains Common Cause of DIVORCE
So number three becoming lost in the roles. Becoming lost in the roles can potentially be a three stage progression. So stage one would be when you first get married. Couples have a tendency to stop spending as much time, or spending less and less time with their single friends. Whether it's because, you know, you can't really relate to them, because they're out bar hopping, and that's not what you're doing anymore and it's not conducive to your lifestyle or your marriage. Or you just spend a lot of time together. Or you.
Spend a lot of time with only other married couples. So that's stage one in becoming lost in the roles. And stage two is when children come, and then you spend less and less time as a couple. So here, you've pulled away from all of your single friends that have been a part of your life when you first get married. Now you've had children, and your focus is on your children. Obviously, when they're young, they're completely dependent on you and they need your undivided attention. But you have to be careful that you're not forgetting.
About your spouse, and that does typically happen. And it's easy to have that happen, because it's start with a baby, and the baby needs you and is totally dependent, as you know. Women, I think she's talking to you right now. Hey, hey hey! But you're right. I have a six month old at home, and it absolutely gets difficult. What's the third stage Yes. So this is kind of the end of becoming lost in the roles. So you first get married, then you have children, and you kind of slowly.
But surely growing further and further apart as the initial couple that you were when you first exchanged your vows. Then the third stage is after children. And I see this a lot with the older couples that I've worked with to facilitate their divorce process. Many husbands and wives at this stage have grown so far apart over the years that once the children are out of the house, and it's back to being just the two of them, there's no connection any more. And they can't even remember why they got married in the first.
Place, because there's been such a huge gap that's been created. And this goes back to number one, the lack of individual identity. It's so important that you balance your own individual identity with being a couple. And having common interests as well as individual interests, because if you don't, once the kids are out of the house, you don't have any shared interests anymore, and what's going to reground you Yeah. I think you're absolutely right on that. I know when my dad retired, and was at the house all day long, all of a sudden for the first time in my life I saw my mom and dad.
How to Get a Marriage License in Marin County
Getting married soon The Marin County AssessorRecorderClerk's Office wants to make your marriage licensing and wedding ceremony memorable and easy. But remember, you can't walk down the aisle until you take the first step by getting your Marriage License. There are three ways to complete the Marriage License application You can apply in person at the County Clerk's office in Room 234 at the Marin County Civic Center or you can download an application to complete, or you can fill out an application online. Before you complete the application, there are a few decisions you will need to make. One is whether you want a.
Public or Confidential Marriage License. Some individuals, in order to preserve their privacy, often do not want a public record of their marriage and choose a Confidential Marriage License. Examples may include celebrities, public officials and law enforcement officers. Another important decision is what name you'll take. While this may seem obvious, some people choose the name of their partner, others a hyphenated name. This choice can be a difficult decision and could cost you valuable time during the licensing process. So please make this decision before applying for your Marriage License.
A marriage license cannot be changed at a later date without incurring an additional expense or by obtaining a court order. To apply for a Marriage License online, go to marincounty and click on I want to. Apply for a Marriage License. Then click on the Online Application link. After you've completed the online application and viewed it to make sure all of the information is accurate, click Submit. Please note that this is not a valid Marriage License until you appear before the Marin County Clerk. Whether the marriage application is completed online or in person, to obtain.
An official Marriage License, couples must appear together at the Marin County Clerk's office with their photo identification and the license fee. Marriage licenses are effective the same day they are issued and are valid for 90 days. Your license is a permit to get married. The last step is to present your marriage license to the person who will be performing your wedding ceremony. Remember, your marriage becomes official only after a wedding ceremony has been performed and your license has been registered with the County of Marin. For more information about obtaining your Marriage License,.
Counseling Laguna Hills 714 '01652 Relationship Rehab Forgiveness
Hello. Robyn D'Angelo here, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Relationship Specialist. And, I wanted to talk to you today about forgiveness. What is forgiveness It's everywhere. I feel like it walks into my office often. Couples coming in asking, How do we do this I feel like I should. I want to. I need to. What is it So, forgiveness is basically when we heal our own inner wounds that have been inflicted upon us by others' wrongs. Right That's forgiveness. And when we're thinking about forgiveness, there'sI'm sure there's a lot of emotions.
And thoughts and memories that come up with that. And when you're considering forgiveness, when you're considering forgiving someone, I want you to think about eight things I want the first thing you think aboutI want it to be, What makes forgiveness work The second thing I want you to consider is, Why do I want to forgive this person in the first place The third thing I want you to consider is, What should I and what should I not forgive based on whatever event has happened. The fourth thing I want you to think about is,.
How do I know when to forgive Think about the timing of everything. The fifth thing is, Do I resume the relationship once forgiveness has actually taken place Does it make sense to allow this person maybe back in our life The sixth thing is, Do I tell this person I have forgiven them once it has happened Kind of the pros and cons of that. The seventh thing is, How do you really know once you've forgiven What does that look like Most importantly, what does it feel like Right And the very last thing is, How in the heck.
Do I know if it worked How do I know if forgiveness has actually happened if it has occurred These are the eight things I want you thinking about. And, at a later time, I'll definitely be giving you tips and tools on how to answer these questions. But for now, think about those eight things the next time that you're considering forgiveness of any kind. And if this has been helpful for you, reach out to me. Let me know. You know, shoot me an email New Email! RobynCounselingLagunaHills or just leave a comment below. I'd love to hear from you,.
Introduction to Couples Counseling at CaPS
GtgtgtHi my name is Melinda and I'm a student here at Cal State East Bay. gtgtgtHi I'm Ryan and I'm a counselor here at CaPS. Melinda Um, I understand that CaPS offers couples counseling. Ryan We do offer couples counseling. Melinda Um, what types of issues do couples bring to counseling Ryan Couples bring all kinds of issues to counseling. Often time's people come around issues of conflict and fighting, not always. Sometimes people want to just really work on getting to an even better place. But often times it's around conflict and differences. Other things that bring people into couples.
Counseling are often times around family issues, cultural differences, or personal differences, and expectations, sexuality, anything that might come up in a relationship that might need to get to a better place. Melinda Ok um, what usually happens in couples counseling Ryan What happens is people come and meet with a couple's counselor for their first session which we call, A Couples Consultation. We get some history, we find out what you want to do, and get to in couples counseling what you want help with. And then we decide if you want to move forward. And then when.
You come back into couples sessions, the couples counselor helps your work on those issues, usually on things around reducing conflict, feeling more connected, resolving issues that may be left over. So that's, that's all of what happens. Melinda Ok um, what if my partner isn't a student here Ryan That's not a problem at all, only one person has to be a student at the university. And if one person is not a student there is a small fee for each session, except for the consultation which is always free. Melinda How can I get my partner to come.
In Ryan I think you have to talk with your partner and you know, see what they want as well. You can tell them about counseling and tell them what happens here. We have information on our website that can be really helpful. People can call in and ask questions, any questions they have. Um, you can also talk to them about that it's totally confidential. And that helps a lot and if the person, if your partner is a student of the university, they can come in and talk with an individual counselor and.
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