Welcome to the prayer for marriage this is simply a tutorial i put together were allowed to pray for anyone within the sound of my voice about miracle prayer for marriage all I ask you to do is to agree with me as we seek our Heavenly Father together please continue to meditate on the spur for yourself speak it daily or listen to this tutorial over and over again about powerful prayer for marriage and all other water garden concerning marriage to reach deep into your spirit let us pray heavenly father we gather together your online.
Income into agreement in the wonderful and powerful name of jesus where two or more gathered there you shall surely be anything we agree upon is touching you will surely do the Bible says that if there’s any unforgiveness that should be dealt with before praying therefore we release any anger bad feelings resentment or any other wrong attitude before you now we laid at your feet and we release our forgive those who have wronged us I lift up those watching this prayer for our marriage.
Tutorial we come into agreement and lift up their marriage larger words says in Romans 55 that love is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit if you say that and that’s in there and then that settles it no matter what we feel father you are loved and you are inside us and therefore love is working in the marriage of the listener we declare that is expressed in its fullness in their relationship we pray that they will let all bitterness bad moods malice wrath.
Indignation rage bad tempers resentment brawling spite ill will clamor contention slander abuse evil speaking or blasphemous language be banished from their marriage we break the power of these things in Jesus name we declare that those listening and their spouse are becoming useful and helpful and kind to each other tender hearted compassionate understanding loving hearted forgiving.
One another readily lend freely as you lord through jesus have forgiven them we prayers for marriage bind your love around the marriage of those listening by your Holy Spirit help them to carry themselves as husband and wife honorably and properly in your site open their eyes to see the value of their marriage that it is precious in your site lord help them to live in harmony and in one accord with one another we speak.
Strength over them now in jesus name we declare that they are of the same mind and they are united in spirit we declare that they are compassionate kind tender humble and gentle with one another lord we ask that they recognize your piece which you have given them made that piece which surpasses understanding guard their hearts and minds in Jesus name.
They are areas together of the grace of god in jesus name help those listening to build their marriage on your word since they built their marriage on the rocks they will not be shaken when storms come we declare that they are rooted in love and founded securely on your love in Jesus name every day their marriage is getting stronger in Christ we declare that those listening and their spouse endure long and are patient and kind they are never.
Envious and never boil over with jealousy they’re not boastful their main prayer for marriage glorious and they do not display themselves haughtily they’re not rude in an early and do not act unbecoming Lee they do not insist on their own rights or their own way they’re not selfseeking touchy fretful resentful they take no account of the evil done to them and pay no attention to a suffered wrong they do not rejoice at injustice but they rejoice when right in truth.
Love and Marriage Husband and Wife Relationship Advice
Hi my name is john lund and i am the author of how to hug a porcupine and thats a book about toxic behaviors dealing with difficult to love people. And this is a very important concept and so what I want to do is give you a little background. Ive been a divorce mediator for fifteen years. Ive been a marriage and family educator for fortythree years. I was a family court commissioner for five years in the State of Washington determining where the children went and how the division of assets went in a relationship. Im coming.
From a position of being very, very practical. im not coming from an ivory tower or from a theoretical position and so we are going to talk about some behaviors that are critical in terms of helping a marriage stay together. What is it? There is a fundamental principle and lets see if we can go over that principle now. If I had two giant magnets here and these magnets were of course at opposite poles no matter how hard you tried youd find these magnets would be repelling and on the other hand if we were to invert those magnets and.
Push them yould find t hey would draw together and i use to have a couple of giant horseshoe magnets that were nearly impossible to pull part because they were so strong . The same is true of behaviors. There are behaviors that attract and there are behaviors that repel and we are going to be talking about a number of issues with toxic behaviors so let me define what a toxic behavior is. A toxic behavior is any behavior that detracts from you or some else becoming their highest and best self. Thats what a toxic behavior.
Is now that may sound kind of broad and well see if we cant bring it into something more positive but imagine people dont have a hard time loving each other do you realize that its the inability to deal with the negative that is the greatest issue that we have to look at and so when people adopt what I call toxic behaviors then it prevents them from being able to share the love that they have. There was a wonderful book written by John Gottman out of the University of Washington and it was called how or why relationships.
Succeed or fail and the irony of that was john gottman pointed out that unless you have five positives for every negative the relationship will eventually fail. Most of us dont even think about the positive things that are happening in terms of interactions but we need to look at toxic behaviors. So lets look at just a toxic behavior and later were going to talk about a toxic personality. Thats an individual that adopts toxic behaviors as a normal course of their communication and interaction. So for right.
Now lets take about a toxic behavior as any behavior that for example does not allow you to become your highest and best self. So as we look at that one of the first ones that may be the most obvious is going to be Criticism. Now Criticism is very, very interesting. We have grown up in a hyper critical society. Well have a lot to say about this as we go through the book at different times but for right now. I just want to point out that it is a habit that most of us have that we are not even aware of and I like to compare.
That to this. in china they have different kinds of teas that they brew and some of these recipes are literally thousands of years old. Well some of the teas they have now found as they analyze them have in them arsenic just a tiny tiny amount. Well that amount may not kill you but accumulative amount of that will indeed lead to death and thats toxic and thats poison and the same is true in relationships most relationships can survive ascertain amount of criticism. They can survive that the reality of that is however.