Juhi chawla: we have one question from the social media the face book (laughter). Amit Madan wants to know in this materialistic age the real feeling of love is disappearing from our life, most of the love we receive from others and express to others is superficial. How can we reinforce the real feeling of love.
In our own life and in others? Sadhguru: Forget about others. If you if you learn to be loving by your own nature not because of somebody else or something else.
I know the question is coming from facebook theres an enormous possibility (Laughter). You can even love those people who dont even exist (Laughter). So, Im saying its a tremendous possibility., So (Laughs) if you just become love,.
Not love somebody then you will know the nature of love. If you love somebody its a fickle happening because no human being will happen a hundred percent the way you want them. Every human being on this planet is going to disappoint you believe me.
Not because theyll do something wrong because nobody can fulfill the unrealistic expectation you have of them. Its simply not possible., Have you been able to fulfill anybodys expectation Im asking you entirely? Partially but never entirely, isnt it?.
So nobody else will be able to do it unless youre a still such a hopeless romantic youre still waiting that ideal person is going to come from somewhere No! Believe me whoever comes, I want you to know the ideal people whom you worship.
(questioner): sadhguru, what are your views on adultery? How does it affect one spiritually? (Sadhguru): If there is no love in your heart, you are anyway an adulteress. For convenience and comfort if you have given yourself to any aspect of life,.
Not necessarily a man or a woman for that matter. Without love in your heart, if you have given yourself to any aspect of life you are an adulterer, isn’t it? So, am I against adultery?.
Yes, in that sense yes, with every aspect. But if you are talking about what is considered socially as adultery, it is individual; and for every action that you perform there is a consequence.
Most people i know, they are not willing to face the consequences when they come; but without facing consequences they want to have situations that they enjoy. Then anybody who is not willing to joyfully accept.
The consequences that come to them for whatever actions they perform is just a fool. And a fool is somebody who is against himself in so many ways. Anybody who works against himself; anybody who turns himself against himself, or herself against herself,.
What should we say about them? So, with your actions, if you are turning yourself against yourself, because you do things senselessly; you are not doing things by choice.
You are doing things senselessly simply because you have given in to a certain aspect of your body or your emotion or something, then definitely its not ok because you will bring suffering to yourself. Anything that brings suffering to any human being,.
Especially to himself, is it ok? Anybody who simply goes about bringing suffering to themselves, for whatever reason they have, it doesnt make sense, isn’t it? I am not against or for anything.