Hey, its brad browning here and im a marriage and breakup expert from vancouver, Canada. And in this tutorial, Im going to teach you how to prevent separation or divorce and save your marriage. This is obviously going to be a huge topic and Im going to cover as much as I can in this tutorial. So sit tight and be sure to watch this entire clip, because Im going to teach you things that most couples will never know about building a loving marriage.
First of all, let me tell you who this tutorial is for. this tutorial is for people whose husband or wife announced that theyre no longer happy in their marriage. You may have heard painful things like, Im just not happy anymore, I dont love you, or Im leaving you. Or, maybe theyve already left you. No matter the case, I know how extremely difficult, stressful, and heartbreaking this situation is and I know how hopeless you might feel at this very moment. So Im going to start off this long tutorial by telling you.
That there is light at the end of this long tunnel. with the proper guidance, help, and attitude, it is possible to turn your marriage around despite how adamant your spouse may be on divorce. I know this because Ive seen thousands of so called hopeless couples turn it around and I know exactly how they did it. With that being said, rebuilding a broken marriage is a rocky road. Sometimes, things can get a little worse before they get better, and it takes a lot of devotion on your part.
To make things better. however, i promise you that if you watch this whole tutorial and follow my advice very closely, youll have the best chance possible of rebuilding that marriage you and your spouse deserve. But before I get into what TO do to save your marriage, I first need to tell you about what NOT to do. The vast majority of married couples that I coach commit almost all of these very damaging mistakes. And I know that some of you might be in a situation where your spouse.
Isnt willing to work on the marriage, but in a minute, ill tell you why thats okay, and why its even more important for you to learn these common mistakes before you go down the road of rebuilding a newer, happier marriage. Some of this stuff you may already know, but its important to remember these mistakes before you cause any further damage to your marriage and these are tips that will have an immediate impact on your relationship.
I like to call these mistakes my big marital mistakes. Big Marital Mistakes 1 Initiating needless conflict with your spouse. When youre trying to fix a broken marriage and youre feeling desperate, chances are things can spiral out of control very easily (and I think you know what Im talking about). You think that if you could just talk to your spouse about all your problems and find common ground, your marriage will magically fix itself and get better. But usually, this isnt the.
Case. While communicating with your spouse is important in rebuilding a marriage, what your marriage does NOT need right now is another argument or fight. Even if your partner says something antagonizing or wants to bring up a touchy sticky issue at the moment, do your best to avoid conflict politely. Dont ignore your spouse or discount any of their concerns, but you need to ensure that the discussion doesnt end up in a screaming match. You.
Can say something along the lines of, i know this is a real concern right now and I want to resolve this issue, but can we discuss this later? Try and be as nonconfrontational as possible at least for now until you learn how you can manage how to handle your arguments later. Ill get to what I call my Dispute Defusing System later in this tutorial. If you have any questions or concerns about this common mistake, please be sure to ask questions in the comments section below. Ill do my.
Dont Take Marriage Advice From Fox News
If a COUPLE HAS MARITAL PROBLEMS LET’S KEEP IT REAL, IT’S PROBABLY THE WIFE’S FAULT. BUT THAT MIGHT SEEM SUSPICIOUS FOR ME TO SAY THAT, A GUY. IF ONLY WE HAD A LITTLE BIT OF COVER.
I DON’T HAVE ONE, BUT FOX AND FRIENDS DOES AND WHAT MIGHT BE THE MOST SEXIST SEGMENT THEY HAVE HAD IN THEIR MANY YEARS OF BROADCASTING. YOU WILL SEE IT HERE WITH THE NIECE OF PHYLLIS TALKING ABOUT.
What it is that kills marriages. OUR NEXT GUEST SAYS THAT IT IS BECAUSE WOMEN ARE WILLING TO LEAD. WHAT WOMEN ARE STRUGGLING WITH, ESPECIALLY THE ALPHA WOMEN, OR THE TYPE A WOMEN, IS THAT THEY STRUGGLE GETTING IN TOUCH WITH THEIR FEMININE SIDE.
When men and women enter a relationship in the beginning THE MAN IS THE ALPHA AND THE WOMAN IS THE BETA. THAT IS HOW ALMOST ALL RELATIONSHIPS START. YOU AS A MAN MAKE THE PHONE CALL, PAY THE BILL, YOU EVEN ASK THE WOMAN TO MARRY YOU.
Unless it is sadie hawkins. A WOMAN IS MUCH MORE RECEPTIVE TO YOUR ENERGY, THEY ARE ON THE RECEIVING END. I THINK WHAT HAPPENS OVER TIME, ESPECIALLY ONCE KIDS COME IS THAT WOMEN GET INTO THIS MOTIVE MICROMANAGING EVERYTHING.
But if they don’t SWITCH OVER INTO WIFE MODE BACK WHERE THEY WERE, I THINK THE RELATIONSHIP BEGINS TO DETERIORATE. THAT IS NOT THE WORST. INITIAL IMPRESSION? SUZANNE HAS BEEN AROUND FOR A WHILE.
I remember a few years AGO I INTERVIEWED HER ON A SHOW THAT MEGAN MCCAIN WAS DOING. IT WAS DIFFICULT TO HOLD BACK BECAUSE I THINK SHE IS INSANE. BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY I THINK THAT SHE IS MAKING THE MISTAKE OF ASSUMING THAT ONE.
Relationship dynamic is the only RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC THAT WORKS. FIRST OF ALL, THE NOTION THAT A WOMAN WHO IS IN A TYPE PERSONALITY HAS A TOUGH TIME FINDING HER FEMININE SIDE IS RIDICULOUS.