Top 3 Ways to Avoid Money Fights in Your Marriage
Hi. This is Andrea Travillian with TakeASmartStep. Today I want to talk a little bit about money and marriage. Money and marriage is a huge fighting ground. In fact it's one of the number one reasons for getting divorced. So I wanted to share some tips with you that my husband and I use to successfully manage our money together. We've been together for 16 years and to be honest, rarely fight about money. But it's because of these very key things that we have this success. The first one would be is that we share goals. We both have the same vision for our life.
We've set out our goals together and we're working to achieve them. So having a shared goal with your spouse is huge. If you're both fighting to get different things, obviously there's going to be arguments. So make sure that you set your goals together and that both of you want them. If you do have different goals, you need to make sure that they're somewhat in line and that they're not completely conflicting. So if one wants to work until 60 and one wants to work until 65, that's totally manageable. If one person.
Never ever wants to retire and the other person wants to retire at 40, you have more issues. But when you work on shared goals, you can at least address those issues. Now shared goals leads me to second tip I want to share with you and that's teamwork. In a marriage, everything is a team. My grandpa used to say that it wasn't 5050. It wasn't 100100. It's 106, 110 percent. Everybody has to give more than their all. So you set your goals. Now you need to work as a team to achieve those goals. If one person is working their.
Hiney off to achieve these goals, and the other person is blowing money on the side or just sitting around, lots of resentment and hostility will build up and it will destroy everything that you've worked for even if you have shared goals. So really focusing on teamwork is fantastic. Now the third tip that I want to share with you is communication. Now I understand completely life is hectic. There are kids' activities. Even if you don't have activities, just jobs alone and life at our current pace is very hectic. So you have to make communication.
A priority. Now we do this in a couple of different ways. One we always have at a bare minimum one date night a month. This gives us a really good opportunity to sit down, have a meal, relax and just talk about where we're going. Now in between, we make it a point to highlight things that are important and this never has to be always face to face. So it might be an email. My husband and I are on instant message with each other throughout the day. It might be dropping a note like that.
It might be I run a financial report, print it out and set it on his desk. The key is continual communication to keep each other on the same page. Now these are just three tips to really help you guys address money issues and money problems in your marriage. If you want more of what my husband and I do about keeping our money and our marriage semi fightfree, click the link below and head over to the article. I would also love to hear what you and your spouse do to make communication better. Have.
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SO YOU DON'T WANT TO SEE A CLOSEUP PICTURE OF MY ANUS 'CAUSE YOU HATE GUY MEN. NO. I DON'T WANT TO LOOK AT A CLOSEUP PICTURE OF ANYONE'S ANUS. HOMOPHOBE. HOMOPHOBE. THERE'S A HOMOPHOBE RIGHT HERE. HO blows whistle HOMOPHOBE ALERT! highpitched voice HOMOPHOBE! imitating siren wailing HEY. HEY, BABY. HOW'S IT GOING GOOD. READY TO GO TO LUNCH YEAH. UH, LATRELL, THIS IS GAVIN. GAVIN, THIS IS LATRELL. THIS IS MY BOYFRIEND. HOW YOU DOING I'MI'M I'M DOING VERY WELL. HOWHOW ARE YOU DOING, GAVINGAVIN.
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Zoe avoids the money problems that can destroy relationships MoneySmart AU
My name's Zoe. And I grew up on a farm near Wagga Wagga, and now I live in Sydney. I am in a bit of an interesting phase at the moment, my fiance and I have been integrating our finances and buying a property together. And so we've been doing things like downloading our bank statements and analyzing them and looking at reviewing our insurances and getting all our last few years' tax returns together to apply for a loan. We're having some really interesting conversations that we haven't had before.
I think it's really important that early on in your relationship as possible to have those conversations. And even if you come from different financial backgrounds with different habits and different management strategies I suppose. The earlier you talk and earlier you can set up a system together there's going to be no conflicts in the future. I mean generally women do take time off for caring or family responsibilities along the way. We find the MoneySmart site a really independent and user friendly place to start where ever you are. If you know how much you earn and spend each month and what you are.
I Went Out Without Telling Hub! So What! Christian Marriage Advice Dave Ramsey
Hi guys. Welcome to the YouTube page of Wedding Night Bliss. I'm Driana, The Blissful Wife. And today I'm gonna give you some marriage advice from Dave Ramsey. If you'd like to know how to purchase one these little gems, then stay tuned to the end of the tutorial, as well. While I'm at it, make sure that you subscribe to this channel, and like this tutorial. The second point in the article is that marriage is a partnership. So he talkabout not doing your bills separately. Like, you need to come together and talk about those together, and.
Come to a conclusion of how you guys are going to spend your money. But I'm going to take that to marriage advice in general, and say that, everything you do in marriage really needs to be discussed with your partner. Now I'm not talking about, Oh, I'm going to buy some milk, or, I'm going to stop at the bank before I get home from work. But big decisions, or even medium sized decisions really need to be talked about. Like, if I'm gonna go somewhere with my girlfriends. Well, I'm a mom, so I have to talk to my husband.
About going somewhere because we have a child and I need to make sure he's gonna be home to watch her, so it doesn't really work for me, but pretend if I'm gonna want to go out with my girlfriends, I'm not gonna just, you know, go without telling him. It's not a big deal for me to go have a meal at Applebee's, so that's not the problem. But maybe he was you know gonna surprise me when I got home, or maybe he was looking forward to watching Scandal with me on the couch, and me just going out and doing my own thing.
Is kind of like, you know, you're not really caring what the other person things. You know, he can't control you and you can't control your spouse, but it's nice to know someone cares about what you think. And especially, your life partner, your husband, your wife. You know, you want to feel like I'm included in your plans. And like I said, he cannot control you, but if he's like, Honey, I would really prefer that you go out with them another night, because I really miss you. Then wouldn't you drop those plans.
For him Just take him into consideration. And that's it. That's my Dave Ramsey marriage advice. I have a bunch of ways for you guys to stay in contact with me. One, sign up for my social media links. Two, sign up for my email list. Three, email me at Driana at Wedding Night Bliss dot com. All of the links are down below. Always, everything is always down below. From my family to yours, love to you. For unique gifts designed with the soon to be letter of your last name, or with Mr. and Mrs., or cute marriage quotes, click my gift.
Divorce Advice How Can You Avoid a Divorce
How can you avoid a train wreck How can you avoid a divorce This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, A boomer woman's guide to men and dating, and host of Ask Dr. Paul. How do you avoid a divorce Well, there are some strategies involved. All right, you have kids, and for the sake of the kids you don't want to get divorced, but maybe one spouse is bi and the other spouse has been cheating and is hetero, whatever. Sit down before you go to that attorney, before you become polarized, and you say we have to think of a strategy,.
Because number one it's going to cost us a great deal of money, number two we don't want to live with each other, and number three we have children here that we want to take care of because we both love them. All right, so one of the easiest ways to handle that is this, live in separate rooms and have an open marriage. Agree by law, go to the attorney, have it drawn up so that one can't ambush the other, and say you were cheating on me and I'm going to sue you for divorce for adultery. Get it in writing from your attorney saying.
That I can live my life and you can live your life, and we understand with each other that we're doing this for the kids. You live in one bedroom and I live in the other bedroom, and that's the way it works. That's one strategy involved in avoiding a divorce. There are other strategies as well. I mean, a lot of people do a lot of things, like having open marriage, being swingers there are a variety of ways to go. Before you go to that divorce, before you involve yourself with that make certain that you exhaust all of the options.
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