Marriage Relationship Advice How to Fix a Bad Relationship
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we are going to talk about how to fix a bad relationship. Best place to start on is to understand what the problem is. For instance, if there are constant fighting we have to understand what's underneath the fighting. There are four indicators of whether a marriage can really go on or a relationship is in trouble. One is if there is constant criticizing, if there is contempt, if there is defending, and if there is stonewalling. So we look at.
Weird Things All Couples Fight About
Cheery strings music play That's not how you fold the towels. It doesn't matter how you fold a towel. It does matter how you fold a towel. If you want it to fit in the closet, you have to roll it. loud crunch Oh my God could you chew any louder louder crunch This goes on here. It takes two seconds. Well.Then the next person who comes in will do it. That's not the point. Hey did you throw away my left overs No. I coulda swo ohh you bitch. What did you call me.
Nothing. The toilet paper goes over. It's printed that way so you could see it. No. The toilet paper goes under so that the cats don't get at it. That makes no sense. What do you want to get for dinner I don't really care. The just pick something. You choose. Told ya! Shut up. I don't see why I have to put the utensils face down Because when they're sticking up like that, if someone trips and falls, they're going to impail themselves and die. That's literally the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
I'm not playing this game where I list every single thing and you shoot it all down. I'm not doing this again. Well then I don't know what to tell you. Oh my gosh watch this! This is the best line. Did you watch this without me You weren't home! mug clanks Seriously! 6 more inches and it's in the sink. Well then put it in 6 more inches. heavy sigh Get it I get it. Anything will be fine. Fine. Fine! Alright! We're gonna get. pizza It's food. Anything but pizza. phone slams on table.
What do you wanna eat That is Bill Paxton! It is Bill Pullman. Bill Paxton was in Aliens.That is Bill Paxton. That is him. Game over, man. That is that man right there. Why am I gonna put them away I'm wearing them tomorrow morning. I don't care if you're wearing them tomorrow morning. I don't want them just sitting by my side of the bed all night. Why do you do this! You squeeze from the bottom. The next person doesn't have to squeeze then. It's toothpaste. It's not like it's hard to squeeze it from a new area on the tube.
Why are we fighting about this Why are we fighting about this Why are we fighting about this!. I'm sorry. I shouldn't have. made you make the decision. With that being said, I think your original call of pizza is fine. Just no pepperoni. cheery strings music What do you want on it then Anything other than pepperoni. Oh my God! I'm going to murder you and when the pizza guy gets here, he's going to help me bury your body and then we're going to get married. No, he won't 'cause he'll probably be like Yeah I feel you, bro..
Key Peele Text Message Confusion Uncensored
BEEN TRYING TO REACH OUT TO YOU ALL DAY. ARE WE ON FOR TONIGHT sighs JEEZ. WHAT YOU CAN'T CATCH ME. YOU CAN'T CATCH ME. I'M LANCE MOORE. TOUCHDOWN, BITCH. WHAT PAUSE. phone chimes OH, SHOOT. KEEGAN'S BEEN TEXTING ME. SORRY, DUDE, MISSED YOUR TEXTS. I ASSUMED WE'D MEET AT THE BAR. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE. phone chimes SORRY, DUDE, MISSED YOUR TEXTS. I ASSUMED WE'D MEET AT THE BAR. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE WHAT THE FUCK IS HIS PROBLEM DO YOU EVEN WANT TO HANG OUT.
DO YOU EVEN WANT TO HANG OUT OH, THAT'S CONSIDERATE. LIKE I SAID, WHATEVER. LIKE I SAID, WHATEVER FUCK THIS GUY. JESUS, YOU. ARE FUCKING PRICELESS. AWW. YOU'RE THE. ONE WHO'S FUCKING PRICELESS THIS M THIS MOTHERFUCKER HERE. OH, HE WANTS TO OKAY, MMHMM. MMHMM. OKAY. YOU WANT TO GO. RIGHT NOW HMM. GUESS I COULD DO THAT. clears throat OKAY. OKAY, LET'S GO HE SAID OKA OKAY, LET'S GO ALL RIGHT, YOU KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO REALLY. DO THIS NOW KEEGAN, YOU NUT.
YOU'RE NOT PUTTING ME OUT. FUCK YEAH, LET'S DO IT OH, YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE! FIRST ROUND'S MINE. OH, NO! OH, NO! THERE AIN'T GONNA BE NO ROUNDS, ASSHOLE! IT'S GONNA BE A FUCKING STREET FIGHT! THIS SON OF A 'CAUSE TONIGHT WE GONNA PARTY AND THE PARTY DON'T STOP YOU! BUDDY! LIKE I SAID, FIRST ROUND'S MINE. A BEER AND A GIMLET FOR MY PARTNER RIGHT WHAT'S THAT UH, II GOT YOU A BASEBALL BAT WITH NAILS IN IT. FOR MY POSTAPOCALYPTIC JACKIE ROBINSON COSTUME.
Marriage Divorce Letting Go of a Relationship
I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today, we're going to be talking about when it's time to make a new start specifically letting go of a relationship. In order to determine if it's time to let go of the relationship really need to do the math. You really need to have the pluses and minuses of what you're getting out of the relationship. Is it friendship that you're getting out of the relationship or is it some type of sexual satisfaction or are you building and working towards something long term and you really need to consider.
If you see this partnership going together going on for a couple of years or even longer term. So, you really need to the math and comparison and have an honest evaluation about rather you have to write compatibility for this long term relationship. Of course the fundamentals have to be there. If love, trust, respect, friendship and communication are not there, then you really have not much of a chance or a diminish chance for success if these things can't built upon. You need to weigh facts against the emotions and really.
Take that hard look at the relationship what you're putting into it and what you're getting out of it and if it doesn't work out, then you really need to respectful of the other person. Don't berate the other person and just recognize that you're two different people. It just didn't work out and perhaps you can actually be friends. I don't want to sound clicheish but realistically people who can't be lovers and friends often times be supportive as friends. So, recognize that you may have the ability to run in the same circles. You.
Key Peele Office Homophobe
Rhythmic bass beat, sensual moans LATRELL WHAT'S UP, BABY GIRL CAN YOU PLEASE TURN THAT OFF WHY, YOU DON'T LIKE MY MUSIC IS IT MUSIC BECAUSE IT SOUNDS LIKE A BUNCH OF SEX NOISES OVER A BASS LINE. OH. I GET IT. YOU DON'T LIKE MY MUSIC 'CAUSE I'M GAY. YOU CAN'T HANDLE A GAY MAN'S MUSIC. NO, NO, NO. IT'SI'M TRYING TO WORK HERE, AND THAT MUSIC IS WEIRDLY SEXUAL. OH, I SEE. SO MY SEXUALITY IS WEIRD. YOU JUST CAN'T FATHOM A MAN BEING ATTRACTED.
TO ANOTHER MAN. I CAN FATHOM IT. IT'S CAN YOU JUST PLEASE LISTEN TO SOME OTHER GAY MUSIC, LIKE BARBRA STREISAND OR SOMETHING OH, I SEE, I SEE. OKAY. SO LISTENING TO BARBRA STREISAND IS GAY. STEREOTYPE MUCH keys clacking SO YOU SEEING ANYBODY LATELY YEAH, II MEAN, KIND OF. I THINK 'CAUSE I GOT IT GOOD LAST NIGHT. OH, IT WAS LIKE, DAMN! I MEAN, MY MAN WAS LIKE, BLOP! LIKE, HE HAD A BABY ARM HOLDING ON TO A APPLE. AW, DON'T CALL IT A BABY ARM.
AW. I SEE. SO YOU CAN'T HANDLE HEARING ABOUT HOW I'M GAY. I'M SORRY. YOU JUST REFERRED TO YOUR BOYFRIEND'S PENIS AS A BABY'S ARM HOLDING AN APPLE. WELL, THAT'S WHAT IT LOOKED LIKE. AND IT'S NOT MY BOYFRIEND, BY THE WAY. AND ANYWHATS, YOU'RE HOMOPHOBIC. NO, NO, NO. THAT'S NOT HOMOPHOBIC, OKAY YOU'RE EXPLICITLY TALKING ABOUT SEXUAL THINGS IN THE WORKPLACE. FINE. THERE'S PLENTY OF STUFF THAT WE CAN TALK ABOUT. YOU KNOW, UH, MY PENIS CUP, MY SCROTUM COZIES THAT I HAVE BEEN KNITTING RECENTLY.
OH, WITH THESE KNITTING NEEDLES THAT I HAVE JUST NOTICED LOOK LIKE LITTLE, SKINNY, PURPLE PENISES, ET CETERA AND ET CETERA. OH, MY GOD. CAN I SHOW YOU A PICTURE, AND THEN YOU TELL ME IF IT'S GOOD FOR FACEBOOK OKAY, I'M FAIRLY CERTAIN YOU'RE GOING TO SHOW ME SOMETHING OVERTLY SEXUAL. DON'T YOU PREJUDGE ME! HERE IT IS. AGH! bleep! THAT'S A CLOSEUP OF AN ANUS. OH, NO, THAT'S NOTltigt ANltigt ANUS. THAT'S MY ANUS, BABY GIRL. THAT'S DISGUSTING. OH, I SEE.
SO YOU DON'T WANT TO SEE A CLOSEUP PICTURE OF MY ANUS 'CAUSE YOU HATE GUY MEN. NO. I DON'T WANT TO LOOK AT A CLOSEUP PICTURE OF ANYONE'S ANUS. HOMOPHOBE. HOMOPHOBE. THERE'S A HOMOPHOBE RIGHT HERE. HO blows whistle HOMOPHOBE ALERT! highpitched voice HOMOPHOBE! imitating siren wailing HEY. HEY, BABY. HOW'S IT GOING GOOD. READY TO GO TO LUNCH YEAH. UH, LATRELL, THIS IS GAVIN. GAVIN, THIS IS LATRELL. THIS IS MY BOYFRIEND. HOW YOU DOING I'MI'M I'M DOING VERY WELL. HOWHOW ARE YOU DOING, GAVINGAVIN.
Key Peele Auction Block
ALL RIGHT, Y'ALL GATHER ROUND. GATHER ROUND. WELCOME, GENTLEMEN. WHAT A BEAUTIFUL AND BLESSED DAY FOR AN AUCTION. ALL RIGHT, Y'ALL, GET ON UP THERE. PUT THAT WHIP DOWN AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS, THOUGH. STRAIGHT UP. I DON'T CARE WHAT PLANTATION I END UP ON. I'M STRAIGHT STAGING A REVOLT IN THIS MOTHERbleep. HELLS YEAH. WE HAVE LOT A, LOT B, AND LOT C. UH, $3 ON LOT A. $4. 5! $5 GOING ONCE, TWICE, THREE TIMES, SOLD. LOT A GOES TO THE MAN IN THE BLACK HAT.
I MEAN, GOOD. YEAH. chuckles I'M GLAD I DIDN'T GET SOLD, 'CAUSE I DON'T WANT TO BE OWNED BY ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. WHOEVER BUYS ME, THEY BETTER KILL ME THE FIRST DAY, OR I'MA GO BUCKWILD ON THE WHOLE OPERATION. OKAAY NEXT ONE, GET UP ON UP THERE, NOW. OH, THISOKAY. both inhale $6 ON LOT A. $7! EIGHT. 9! $9 GOING ONCE, TWICE, THREE TIMES, SOLD! both exhale OKAY, WELL, YOU HAVE TO BUY THAT DUDE. IT'S A NOBRAINER. I MEAN, THAT GUY'S HUGE.
A MASSIVE INDIVIDUAL. THAT'S TWO OF ME. ANYBODY WOULD BUY HIM. I'D BUY THAT DUDE. MY QUESTION IS HOW'D THEY CATCH HIM NEXT! OKAY. OH, YEAH. YEAH. $2 ON LOT A. $2 GOING ONCE, TWICE, THREE TIMES, SOLD. SEE, NOW, THAT SURPRISES ME. THAT IS INTERESTING, TO SAY THE LEAST. I MEAN, WELL, IT JUST SEEMS LIKE AT A CERTAIN POINT, IT'S LIKE, DO THEY EVEN KNOW WHAT THEY'RE LOOKING FOR IT'S LIKE THE WHOLE CRITERIA SEEMS JUST A LITTLE INCONSISTENT.
I MEAN, AT SOME POINT, I WANT TO BE ON LOT A. YEAH, WHICH CAN A BROTHA GET ON LOT A NEXT. OH, HERE WE GO. HERE WE GO. BEEN A PLEASURE. GIVE 'EM HELL. ALL RIGHT. OKAY. $8 ON LOT A. GOING ONCE, TWICE, THREE TIMES, SOLD! HOW DOES THAT HAPPEN NOPE, NOT TRUE. HOW DOES IT HAPPEN WHAT YOU JUST SAID THAT'S GOBBLEDYGOOK. OKAY THAT CAN'T BE TRUE. 'CAUSE WHAT CAN THIS DUDE DO.
LOOK AT HIM. WHAT COULD HE PICK A COTTON PLANT IS, LIKE, THIS TALL. YES. I'M SAY NO OFFENSE, BROTHA, I'M JUST SAYING. OFFENSE TAKEN. WHAgasps AM I WRONG IS HE NOT SHORT HE'S SHORT. BUT YOU ARE ACTUALLY SHORT IN REAL LIFE, IN THE WORLD. YOU'RE GOOD, MAN. ENOUGH. I WILL NOT HAVE MY REPUTATION TAINTED, SELLIN' SUPERFICIAL, BIGOTED SLAVES. SUPERFICIAL DID THAT REALLY JUST COME OUT OF YOUR MOUTH THAT'S IT! THIS AUCTION'S OVER! AUCTION'S OVER WHOA, WHOA, WHOA.
NO, IT'SIT AIN'T OVER. IT'S NOT OVER! I'M STRONG, Y'ALL! I'M VERY STR I CAN SLEEP IN A BUCKET. I'M FAST, I GOT STAMINA, AND I KNOW MAGIC. MY WORST QUALITY IS THAT I'M A PERFECTIONIST. LET ME MEN HAVE I MENTIONED THIS DOCILE. I AM AGREEABLE TO A FAULT. YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN THE DUDE WHO ASKED ME TO GET ON THE BOAT WHEN WE CAME OVER HERE. NOT A VIOLENT BONE IN MY BODY. I JUST WALKED RIGHT ON, NO BIG DEAL. NEVER SEEN A BOAT IN MY LIFE.
Well, This Is A Really Creepy Way To Define Marriage
Tim Huelskamp is a scare a republican from Kansas and he's going to tell you against a equal rights for gay americans of course why because it's marriage which him I blow these guys that its marriage week so they didn't hourlong said a speeches on the floor the house against marriage now in the in their keys is gay marriage but they're not a problem as an essay like hey everybody out there get out there and get straight married yeah i right really know just don't get gay married he was out there with a buncha clouds.
Michele Bachmann of course and Ted Yoho he year euros on my new favorite Cesar bowled over Florida of course anyway let's go back to use camp because he's in the US a passing speech about who else is inside you mad you think it's just the to you in your wiper your husband know there's a third party about who is it recognize it even though the society even though hollywood will tell us it's all about you it's not its home about someone else it's all about that child here father they need a mother in.
No one can be perfect this week debate the definition of marriage marriage predates government we might like to redefine it in 1856 the Republican Party had a number things in their platform they also wanted a face numerous other things including the twin evils of slavery and barbarism they were talking about the issues irregular marriage and the issues have traditional marriage in how important it was and still is to society's it's just not you and your spouse there's a third person in your marriage and God would like to bless and protect that marriage.
He started out fairly rational senators kids about to that makes all the sense in the world only thing are you with that but in the end as you saw their all them got was in the middle there who already show up K is that kinda creepy I don't look I'm not religious auto I'm sorry for being an ass you folks who believe but do you really think I was in the bedroom with you they're like or in the kitchen work for me. I guess is omniscient and.
Omnipresent so I guess he's everywhere but the whole idea got being in you're in the middle if your marriage creeps me out I don't know he just like the white jury was over Holy Ghost party it but I don't think that I want to three way we've got get call me crazy right when all this is an excuse for hating gay people because then you get to the really crazy parts of his speech he says in 1856 the republican platform as yours 20 was a slavery in Barber's okay slavery okay a.
Are good the role in part it's this art out on the right side barbarism and he says oh barbarism uh cement gay people credit you get that from that slut bag joints made that up 3 I'm not actually says marriage predated government you know want to redefine it actually new redefined it married used to be just property rights and you get married 4 you know because is sometimes the case a royalty they want to make sure they had an alliance with a different country they want to protect their property they want to get more land and also even a.
Smaller level yes you did marriages so that you could get you know a link to that person's format center that's why there was dowries it was a financial arrangement you gotten redefined to one that was based on law but one that was based on religion and yes in the if you just read your Bible jittery the Bible when if to I mean all the different wives that everybody has abraham's having sex with is made his wife his wife sisters whites made and it's an interesting arrangement I'm.
What is the REAL problem in Your Marriage
Good morning today I'm going to talk about something difficult okay marriages! So many times we find ourselves caught up in the same perpetual pattern, right I just was talking to someone yesterday who is on his third marriage each and every time he found himself in the same situation the same kind of relationship the same kind of problem, obviously that was not partners problem it was his problem. Because what we do is we get into a situation where we end up separating from the person when what we really need to be doing is separating.
From the problem! So instead of getting rid of the spouse, consider getting rid of the problem. Looking at whats really underneath, and seeing what is inside of you that's causing the same situation to happen over and over again. And work on that problem, and then, resolve the issues between you and yourself, because generally speaking, your going to end up married the same person next time anyway or not married at least in a relationship with the same type person once again because you are dealing with the demons inside of.
You. So if you find yourself in a repetitive pattern, or you find yourself in a situation where you are young and married to someone and you are like, why am I here I don't what this kind of relationship. Well, its not the relationship that is the problem. Its perhaps something inside of you that is the problem. And if you would address that, then, you and your partner can work it out. I've seen it happen again and again. I've saved more marriages than I can count and marriages where other counselors had given up on them, because they.
Were dealing with trying to resolve the conflicts skills, or managing communication skills when really whats going on is something deeper. So if you need help with that, you can check out my book, its called Oh Wow this changes everything its a great place to start and also I'm available through Skype sessions, if you are not in the area, I'm available in Frisco, and in Richardson, for in person visits. So just let me know how I can help you. You can find out more about me at melodybrooke Talk to you later, bye!.
Marriage Relationship Advice How to Fix Communication Problems
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we are going to talk about how to fix communication problems. The most important part of communicating is to learn to be a very good listener. Part of what happens in relationships is people start yelling at each other and no one can hear anything when you are being yelled at. So, to understand what communication is, is to really hear what someone is talking about, and where it's coming from within them. Is it coming from a place of.
When You Date Your Best Friend
Lively music Oh, you suck! Voiceover Sorry, sorry. You started without me Oh, what did I miss You suck so bad. I'll pick up the dry cleaning and groceries if you'll pick up the car, then we can meet for dinner. How's that sound Voiceover How about we just do it together That works for me. Hey, come on! Ah! Voiceover Oh! Looks like we're walking. Voiceover Okay. Voiceover Haha! Whoo! Hahaha! How about we pour the maple syrup into the mix Voiceover No!.
I think we're on to something here. Voiceover That's gross. Oh! Oh, that's genius. Are you seriously eating a burrito with a fork and knife Voiceover Yes. Look at this! I just ruined my burrito. This is how you eat a burrito. Voiceover Oh, that's good. Oh, gross! What It was good. Voiceover No. Do not judge me. Hey, are your feet tired 'Cause you been running through my mind. Voiceover Boo! You think you're stronger than me Voiceover I am stronger than you.
Get down! Okay, okay, you're stronger than me. I have a confession to make. Voiceover Tell me. I have not worn underwear in a week. Me or Benedict Cumberbatch Do not Voiceover E even say Cumberbatch. Voiceover I was gonna say you. Stop, don't. Don't! Hahaha! Hey, what's wrong woman crying I'm here if you want to talk. You know what I'll be right back, alright I didn't know what flavor to get, woman laughing so I got them all. What do you think Voiceover Aw!.
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