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Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we are going to talk about how to fix a bad relationship. Best place to start on is to understand what the problem is. For instance, if there are constant fighting we have to understand what's underneath the fighting. There are four indicators of whether a marriage can really go on or a relationship is in trouble. One is if there is constant criticizing, if there is contempt, if there is defending, and if there is stonewalling. So we look at.
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Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we are going to talk about how to fix communication problems. The most important part of communicating is to learn to be a very good listener. Part of what happens in relationships is people start yelling at each other and no one can hear anything when you are being yelled at. So, to understand what communication is, is to really hear what someone is talking about, and where it's coming from within them. Is it coming from a place of.
Kenya Moore Learns Her Millionaire Boyfriend Is Married BOSSIP REPORT
Unlucky in love Or just full of Shit Hi guys! Its Janee with bossip and i wanna talk to you about Kenya Moore Now you may recall a few weeks ago Kenny Moore revealed she was in love with a young man she met on Millionaire Matchmaker. Well the news just broke James Freeman demand that Kenya's said was her Prince Charming actually made another woman his queen. Just a week after the episode aired! Yes that's right Freeman had his wedding just a week after the episode aired and now Kenya is the laughing stock of the internet yet again.
You may recall on her first season of the Housewives of Atlanta Kenya got put on blast by Walter who says that she paid him to pretend to be her boyfriend now of course people are already saying yet again that Kenya's just been fakin the funk for the rest of the world but she is professing that she had absolutely no idea. She took to her Instagram to say that she was devastated and astounded to discover via social media that the man she fell in love with on Millionaire Matchmaker had married.
Marriage Divorce Letting Go of a Relationship
I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today, we're going to be talking about when it's time to make a new start specifically letting go of a relationship. In order to determine if it's time to let go of the relationship really need to do the math. You really need to have the pluses and minuses of what you're getting out of the relationship. Is it friendship that you're getting out of the relationship or is it some type of sexual satisfaction or are you building and working towards something long term and you really need to consider.
If you see this partnership going together going on for a couple of years or even longer term. So, you really need to the math and comparison and have an honest evaluation about rather you have to write compatibility for this long term relationship. Of course the fundamentals have to be there. If love, trust, respect, friendship and communication are not there, then you really have not much of a chance or a diminish chance for success if these things can't built upon. You need to weigh facts against the emotions and really.
Take that hard look at the relationship what you're putting into it and what you're getting out of it and if it doesn't work out, then you really need to respectful of the other person. Don't berate the other person and just recognize that you're two different people. It just didn't work out and perhaps you can actually be friends. I don't want to sound clicheish but realistically people who can't be lovers and friends often times be supportive as friends. So, recognize that you may have the ability to run in the same circles. You.
How to fix a relationship problems Relationship Advice Marriage Counseling
You know our finances were stressing out her marriage so bad How to fix a relationship problems you know it was like the wrong and wrong job I hated and are weird it just wasn't working before we found this program is needed really find something that was gonna work ass only 12 marriage counselor actually most wanted nothing really works out my husband Paul discord were at the n are certainly give this one last shot yeah it was the most amazing thing up and you know actually found each other again so don't hesitate.
Relationship Advice How to Know If You Should Fix a Broken Friendship
I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today we're going to be answering the question, when is the time to bring Tim the Toolman in to fix a friendship Specifically, how do we know if we should fix a broken friendship Friendships are living and breathing things. They require attention, nurturing and care. And friendship is actually a two way street. It requires give and take and it's something that is built for mutual benefit. Other friendships can involve the best situation is when you have a lover and that is your best friend.
That typically will build towards a long term relationship and perhaps a marriage. But there are other types of friendships. Could be a workplace relationship, or it could be a friendship of necessity. Where you're maybe not soul mates, or real deep friends, but you have to be together a certain perspective. Or it could be political. You may have a friendship because there have to be agendas to be served. But you need to think about what you are actually getting out of the relationship. It is a two way street. True friendships exist if you.
Can count true friendships you've had in your life, on one hand, and most people can, it really becomes something that you really can treasure, if you can count that many. These are people that will be there at any time for you, at any location, and hopefully you will do the same for them, 'cause that's really the measure of a true friendship. But if you've gone down the path and you've had a relationship like this and you're trying to mend that, you've got to evaluate what actually was the catalyst for breaking down the friendship.
Work to resolve the issues, have a communication, have a dialogue and try to get back on track. Recognize there are folks that you don't need in your life that really only want to take, and it's a one way street where friendship is a two way street, and if you've got somebody that you honestly can work towards and build a mutual friendship relationship for a long term, then that typically is something that will last a lifetime. True friendship will last and survive any issue and any geography and any time. So it may not be an easy decision.
Love and Marriage Husband and Wife Relationship Advice
Hi I'M Dr. John Lund author of How to Hug a Porcupine. The problem is never that people don't love each other folks it's not about that. When people get divorced it wasn't because there wasn't a time when they didn't love each other. It was their inability to resolve their conflicts in healthy ways. That was the heart and core of 99.999 percent of all those relationships that either terminate or if they stay together they stay together in a roommate kind of a capacity not really emotionally married or committed but nevertheless.
In the relationship. Now how do we avoid that How can we stay connected Well we are talking about criticism and I had mentioned that the way my wife wants to be approached is to have me write it down and then I give it to her, she processes it and gets back to me. There are only one of three responses. One, I thought about what you are going to say I want you to know that I have thought about it and I am going to make this change.
Another is, I hear your criticism I have read it, I've thought about it and I think you need some more information from me because I don t think you have the complete picture here. Or thirdly, Listen I thought about it and I ain't going to change no matter what so you better learn to live with it. Well that certainly is another alternative right Well and those are the three reactions. Now the way I want to be approached is I want to know on a scale of one to ten either a two or a nine as to how painful it is going.
To be and then secondly if it's a nine I need time to prepare myself and I have said to my wife that, Honey you can give me a little time to prepare and I promise to get back to you in the next two or three hours We have a limit of about three hours and so unless you are on a plain or some other foreign circumstance that wouldn't be conducive to that but other than that other than that what I am talking about is I will get.
Back to her and then I sit and then she gives me the criticism what ever it may be and my first response is to listen, the first response. Now the reason I'm talking this threw with you very carefully is that we need to develop replacement skills, that is that whatever you learned growing up in your own family and your interaction in the family that you were raised in if it's not functional if it's not working if it's not leading for the two of you getting closer together and helping you become your highest best selves,.
Than we have to replace that behavior with another behavior. And the behavior I am talking about right now is criticism and we need to learn to give that criticism and there is an art to doing it. So with my wife for example when she says, I have got a 9! Then I get myself ready, I sit there I listen to her and this is the replacement skill I say. Okay to whatever the criticism was. I repeat it back to her and then she confirms that, that indeed was what her concern was and now I know what it is. I can't always respond.
Instantly and so we have agreed that there will be a little period of time where I can think about and process that and I will get back to her. Now most of the issues that we are going to deal with in marriage or other relationships are not the child is playing in the freeway right now and you need 3 hours to get ready for this Most of the time we are going to be dealing with issues that we are upset about at the moment and probably the least capable of dealing with at that moment and so its really really wise to give.
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