What Its Like To Be In A Long Distance Relationship
I am currently in a long distance relationship. For two and a half years it was long distance. The first was two years and I am in one now. We've dated for two years. Then we dated a year long distance. Then we lived together for a year and then we did six months or so long distance before it ended. We were long distance for a year. What It's Like To Be In A Long Distance Relationship The hardest part is feeling that nobody else thinks.
That what you're doing is sustainable. You don't have to plan your day around it, but you definitely have to make extra effort. So there'd be a lot of issues as far as communication where I'm not willing to Skype for three hours. We still call each other Sometimes. like every three days, I'd say. You run out of things to say on the phone. How was your day It was fine. Like, Did anything happen It's like, No, not really, like, It was just like a normal day..
And so then there's silence. What was special about my day and how did it change me and how can I share that with the other person Even if you're just sitting in the car driving someplace in silence, you're together and you feel that. And you don't have that when you're in a long distance relationship and you're trying to artificially recreate it but silence over the phone is, I mean, it's nothing, right Silence in person means something. You fall in love and it's hard and it's like,.
Will I connect with someone like this again And is it worth it When you really like someone or even love someone, it makes it worth it. You're constantly asking yourself, Is it worth it And I feel like I learn something new every time I ask myself that question. I mean, it wasn't worth it, right Cause we broke up. So. But, we were never like, But. this is ending our relationship. Yeah. It was just, this sucks, that this is our relationship right now.
Really when it comes down to it any your relationship ends, when either one person stops caring about the other or both people give up. I think the key to doing a long distance relationship is having an end in sight. Like a date, she would move in, Mmhmm. we would move in together in July, so, we knew that. And then we did. We did. Woooo. You really learn about communication and how to stay open with someone. It made us also, like,.
Not dwell as much on, like, little arguments anymore, unless you forget to bring your girlfriend potatoes laughing from the German restaurant. She will drill it home for an hour at you. This happened last night. Waiting, you know, several days before you can even talk or Skype with the other person. Or waiting months before you can hug them again. It's hard giggling. It makes you appreciate loving someone when you can see them everyday. Aaaww. Mmhmm. So sweet. lips smacking Man I had some.
Weird Things All Couples Fight About
Cheery strings music play That's not how you fold the towels. It doesn't matter how you fold a towel. It does matter how you fold a towel. If you want it to fit in the closet, you have to roll it. loud crunch Oh my God could you chew any louder louder crunch This goes on here. It takes two seconds. Well.Then the next person who comes in will do it. That's not the point. Hey did you throw away my left overs No. I coulda swo ohh you bitch. What did you call me.
Nothing. The toilet paper goes over. It's printed that way so you could see it. No. The toilet paper goes under so that the cats don't get at it. That makes no sense. What do you want to get for dinner I don't really care. The just pick something. You choose. Told ya! Shut up. I don't see why I have to put the utensils face down Because when they're sticking up like that, if someone trips and falls, they're going to impail themselves and die. That's literally the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
I'm not playing this game where I list every single thing and you shoot it all down. I'm not doing this again. Well then I don't know what to tell you. Oh my gosh watch this! This is the best line. Did you watch this without me You weren't home! mug clanks Seriously! 6 more inches and it's in the sink. Well then put it in 6 more inches. heavy sigh Get it I get it. Anything will be fine. Fine. Fine! Alright! We're gonna get. pizza It's food. Anything but pizza. phone slams on table.
What do you wanna eat That is Bill Paxton! It is Bill Pullman. Bill Paxton was in Aliens.That is Bill Paxton. That is him. Game over, man. That is that man right there. Why am I gonna put them away I'm wearing them tomorrow morning. I don't care if you're wearing them tomorrow morning. I don't want them just sitting by my side of the bed all night. Why do you do this! You squeeze from the bottom. The next person doesn't have to squeeze then. It's toothpaste. It's not like it's hard to squeeze it from a new area on the tube.
Why are we fighting about this Why are we fighting about this Why are we fighting about this!. I'm sorry. I shouldn't have. made you make the decision. With that being said, I think your original call of pizza is fine. Just no pepperoni. cheery strings music What do you want on it then Anything other than pepperoni. Oh my God! I'm going to murder you and when the pizza guy gets here, he's going to help me bury your body and then we're going to get married. No, he won't 'cause he'll probably be like Yeah I feel you, bro..
Still Face Experiment Dr. Edward Tronick
Gtgt Babies this young are extremely responsive to the emotions and the reactivity and the social interaction that they get from the world around them. This is something that we started studying 30, 40 years ago when people didn't think that infants could engage in social interaction. In the still face experiment, what the mother did was she sits down and she's playing with her baby who is about a year of age. gtgt Are you my good girl Oh, yes. gtgt Tronick, voiceover And she gives a greeting to the baby,.
The baby gives a greeting back to her. gtgt Dah! gtgt Tronick, voiceover This baby starts pointing at different places in the world and the mother is trying to engage her and play with her. They're working to coordinate their emotions and their intentions, what they want to do in the world. And that's really what the baby is used to. And then, we asked the mother to not respond to the baby. The baby very quickly picks up on this, and then she uses all of her abilities to try.
And get the mother back. She smiles at the mother. She points because she's used to the mother looking where she points. gtgt Dah! gtgt Tronick, voiceover The baby puts both hands up in front of her and says, What's happening here baby whining She makes that screechy sound at the mother, like, Come on! Why aren't we doing this baby screaming Even in this two minutes when they don't get the normal reaction, they react with negative emotions, they turn away, they feel the stress of it. They actually lose control of their posture.
Because of the stress that they are experiencing. baby crying gtgt Okay. Maggie. I'm here. And what are you doing Oh, yes oh, what a big girl. gtgt It's a little like the good, the bad, and the ugly. The good is that normal stuff that goes on, that we all do with our kids. The bad is when something bad happens but the infant can overcome it. After all, when you stop the still face, the mother and the baby start to play again. The ugly is when you don't give the child any chance.
Emotional Abuse Is Far Worse Than You Think
A new study finds that emotional abuse is just as harmful as physical or sexual abuse so why is no one talking about this Hey guys, Tara here for Dnews and anyone who's not a complete monster knows just what kind of scars sexual and physical abuse can leave on a child. But something that's rarely, if ever talked about is psychological abuse. There are no laws against it, no billboards on the side of the highway. And yet the American Academy of Pediatrics says it's the most.
Challenging and prevalent form of child abuse and neglect. So why aren't we addressing this issue with the same fervency we give to other more, visible kinds of abuse Well, part of that may be a simple lack of awareness. Until now, most of the studies on this subject, have specifically looked at the longterm effects of sexual or physical abuse. But according to a new study, children who are emotionally abused or neglected can develop similar and sometimes even worse mental health problems than kids who are sexually or physically abused.
For this study, researchers analyzed data from 5,616 children with lifetime histories of physical abuse, sexual abuse, psychological maltreatment, or a combination thereof. Maltreatment in this case was defined as either abuse or neglect inflicted by a caretaker so things like bullying, threats, severe insults, isolation, etc. What they found, is that a staggering number of children 62 had a history of psychological maltreatment, and 24 of the cases they studied, were exclusively related to psychological maltreatment. They also found that children who were victims of psychological maltreatment, suffered from.
Anxiety, depression, low selfesteem, posttraumatic stress disorder, and suicidal tendencies at the same rate and in some cases, an even greater rate than children who were physically or sexually abused. Especially worrisome, is the fact that of the three kinds of abuse, psychological maltreatment specifically has the highest association with depression, anxiety, attachment issues, and substance abuse. So clearly, this is not an issue we should just be brushing off. According to the US Children's Bureau, nearly 3 million U.S. children experience some form of maltreatment every year. But as the lead author of this study, Joseph Spinazzola, points.
Out there are no physical wounds associated with psychological abuse. So child protective case workers have a particularly hard time recognizing it. He also brings up the point that emotional abuse just doesn't carry the same social taboo as physical or sexual abuse, even though it's equally, if not more, damaging to a child's mental health. As such, our primary goal, he says, should be to implement more public awareness initiatives to help people understand just how harmful psychological maltreatment is for children and adolescents. While we're on the topic of children, I wanna remind all of you guys watching this,.
Porn Star Problems with James Deen
I'm sorry sir, if you just go on. Hi, I have a cash deposit. Is it a big deposit Um, I mean, by who's standards Oh! I'm so sorry, I just saw in our system that everything's down. So I'm gonna need you to deposit it in the back. Okay, I have rent to pay, can you please just get this in my account Sure. Could you maybe deposit it. manually That's not how banks work, okay Take my money. Fine, but I thought you'd be a lot more fun.
Woman Hello James. Hi, thanks for taking the time. You got it. So I was just looking over your brief and you want to start an LLC Yeah. Doing the website thing. I figured I should come talk to an attorney. So I've looked over all of your paperwork and it seems like you've got some very important documents missing. That could be a huge problem. Unreported income is a crime Mr. Deen. It's a crime that I have to report. But fortunately. there are ways that I can get around that.
I'm gonna go. Okay, so James, what brings you in today I have a growth on my back. I was just hoping you could take a quick look. Yeah, well I'm looking at your xrays and I'm a bit more concerned about the growth between your legs. So I'm gonna need you to strip naked and I'll do a full exam. Okay, this is just a mole and it's right there, and there's a halo around it, so I'm pretty concerned. If you want my help,.
How can I improve my relationship with my mom or dad
How can I improve my relationship with my mother or father, my mama or daddy Alright, first and foremost, you gotta forgive them. I know it's a little weird or something, but you have to forgive them for being human, for not always doing what was in your best interest. And not because they asked for your forgiveness or because you're outwardly giving them forgiveness. This is an internal thing. This is for you. If you're holding on to resentment, if you're holding on to pain, if you're holding on to ughh, like they didn't do this or.
They should've done this, you're the one sitting with the pain. And so, the most important way for you to actually get clear is to forgive them for not knowing any better. And even if they did know better, for being weak and not being able to be better, because forgiveness is for you, it's not for them. And so, beyond just forgiving them, it's learning how to accept them for who they are, and stop hoping that they're gonna be somebody that they aren't, and expecting them to be different. Cause the more that you're willing to just come.
Parents Teach You About DatingRelationships Ask NYC
Hello! This is Jerry. I'm in central park and I will ask people what their parents taught them about dating when they were young let's check it out parents taught me nothing nothing nothing Did your parents teach you anything about dating when you were young No your mom didn't teach you anything Not enough Not enough not at all Not at all ha.I wish. Or maybe I'm glad they didn't, actually. Father was Japanese, very private man, so we never discussed those things Don't judge, that was the main thing.
Oh.that's good advice That the guy should be respectful open the car door He needs to come to the door my father told me all women are nuts dating was not allowed until marriage just be careful No, not really. They didn't tell you anything No dad always said you have to marry somebody that's better than he is Which is.a hard thing, because I've got a pretty great dad. we never get to this conversations I think she should have taught me more. My dad just said, if you're going to have a kid, make share that.it's with the right girl.
Oh my God In fifth grade Yes. Oh my goodness I think it was in fourthgrade In fourth grade Eww. Do you think boys are cute Do you think they're yucky What do you think I don't know. You don't know. Find a rich man Find a rich man.did you find the one Yes Okay.so it worked out! my parents were very handsoff so no advice at all.you just have to figure it out Don't give me any grandchildren before it's time My mother's advice was, you know, go out and find a nice girl.
Easier said than done My mom was just like, If you ever have a boyfriend or anything.she's just like make sure you tell me everything. my mother taught me tolerance because she tolerated my dad So she said.patience. Compromise.she did teach me that, a little bit, indirectly by her own.by example Do you think you figured it out eventually Uh.no Okay It's still a work in progress Okay, me too.me too My personal experience, I could tell you be very careful with who you have children with in life my first girlfriend got pregnant right away.
And we got married right away.and I was 17 Too young That's why I treat him like a king because my mom treated my dad like a king, no matter what Do you think one day you will marry a girl Yes Yes So when you started dating, you just had to figure it out yourself Yes Do you like loud girls No so you like quiet girls I.I'm a loud girl! you're a loud girl Learning by doing. just learning by doing Yeah, learning by doing did your parents encourage you to go learn by doing.
Not really, I think. So what are you. did your parents teach you anything So you had to figure it out too He reminded me of one of my parents. And it was comfortable And I was attracted to that.and I think that without even a word being said. that.the message is.part of it is the comfort level that that you have with your own parents, you might look for that in a future. True Now I'm very uncomfortable with my parents, so in that case I'm gonna have I'm going to have to. yeah.
I am going to have to reinvent. find someone that's completely different from my parents if you ever have kids, do you think you'll talk to them a little bit about guys or girls depending on what your kid's gender is I think I'll try.I think I'll try. You know what they say experience is the best teacher in life so you gotta live it to know it Take a photo of her also I'm taking photo too captioned by Jerry Liu JerryLiuFilms song Rondo All Turca music from Audiomicro thanks for watching!.
Psycho Girlfriend Breaks iPad
Hey guys! I just turned the camera on because Jeffrey's girlfriend Kate is FREAKING OUT right now. You can hear her throughout the whole entire house. Dude. I swear they are going to break up any second. So I kind of want to get some revenge footage here. Do not judge me. If it is not this, it is fucking Playstation. Or it is Xbox. Hey, Boobs. Or something else fucking as equally dumb. God forbid I want to unwind when I get home from work too. It is beyond unwinding for you. It is your entire fucking life.
It is not my entire fucking life. Yeah, you cannot even have a fucking relationship. Because this is all that your life is. You cannot even have a fucking conversation. Hey, are you guys alright Yeah, we are fine. Yeah, Jess. Get that fucking camera out of here! Woah, dude. Dude. I was just concerned that you guys were fighting. Yeah and God forbid anybody sits here and does anything that Jeff does. Yeah, actually. Yeah, no. I can film whatever the Hell I want. Because you give me so.Oh, what you cannot take it.
Turn this into all the time. You do this bullshit constantly. You are such a fucking hypocrite. I was just sitting here on my iPad. You sit here and make fun of Jesse for the bullshit all the time. For the gaming and everything. Look at you! Look at your relationship! Do you want to play a fun fucking game Let us play a fun fucking game. Let us play the When is the last time we went out on a date game Oh, I remember that game. Okay. Because it was October.
It is February now. Yeah, we got in an argument at dinner. Remember that shit Yeah, I do.because you were fucking checking your phone CONSTANTLY! You cannot even have a good connection. What the fuck are you doing Just tell me! I am just chatting with fucking Carl. Jesus! Yeah, chatting to Carl Yeah, you are talking to girls You are looking at porn. Let us be honest. I am not looking at iSnatch Gimme that. Gimme this fucking thing. Sit the fuck down! You can take several fucking seats. Give me that fucking iPad. Are you kidding me.
Give me my fucking iPad back right now. Oh, okay. Yeah. And I am controlling And I am not going to let you do shit, right Well, case and point right here, right That is kind of shit that you tell your friends about me Just give me my fucking iPad back. That is really fucking nice. No. Just learn how to be a fucking adult. Calm the fuck down. I AM FUCKING CALMED DOWN. This is ridiculous! You are being fucking ridiculous! You cannot even have a fucking conversation, Jeff!.
This is insane! You are being crazy! I AM BEING FUCKING CRAZY! I AM BEING FUCKING CRAZY! FUCK YOU, JEFF! FUCK YOU! Calm down. iSmash. Holy crap! JESUS CHRISTMAS! HOLY SHIT! Fuck you, Jeff! This is fucking ridiculous! Get your fucking shit straight! Get your fucking priorities together! THIS IS INSANE! That cost me half a fucking grand! I do not fucking care! It is going to cost you a lot more in the fucking lost relationships. By the time everybody fucking leaves you because you cannot even have a fucking girlfriend!.
How low is that Why the fuck did you do that. Just calm the fuck down. You cannot control your fucking emotions! Yeah, I am the one who cannot control my fucking emotions. You are the one who cannot put any fucking thing down. I am done, Jeff. I am fucking over this. Are you fucking kidding me. This is fucking ridiculous! You act like a fucking child constantly. And then I am the fucking bad guy. Oh, crap! What the hell is going on Kate just smashed Jeffrey's iPad. Nervous Laugh.
She is crazy. Leave them alone. You are not trying! That is the whole point! You are NEVER fucking trying! Do you get that! This is ridiculous. I am so fucking over this. Holy shit. You do not even fucking get it. STILL. Holy shit. I do not know if I am going to put this on , guys. Because that I am shaking right now. I literally feel sick to my stomach. That was uh. I wasn't expecting that but uh. I guess it was good footage. Gahummm. Wow. I expected revenge to feel better than that.
Awkward Moments Only Asians Understand
Cheese. Oh my God, you guys are so Asian right now. I'm gonna be Asian too. camera click jaunty string music So where are you from I'm from Texas. No, I mean like where are your parents from You know, you're pretty tall for an Asian. Oh, they're from Korea. Where are your parents from Michigan. No, where are you parents' ancestors from I don't know, like Europe I just wanted to introduce you to Eugene over here. Eugene, say hi to Stacy.
Hi Stacy. Yeah, well Stacy's really into Asian guys so I figured it'd be a nice. It is so nice to finally meet your girlfriend! Yeah, so me and my friend were at 99 Ranch and What's 99 Ranch Actually, I'm his sister. Yeah, this is my girlfriend. You don't know what 99 Ranch is Oh, it's that new bar, right Oh, such a banana. So anyways, yeah. speaking Chinese Um, I don't speak Min, do you No, sorry.
So you're Chinese. Taiwanese, actually. You speak Cantonese. Mandarin. You know my cousin's wife is Oriental. Ah, so she's a rug. Are you North or South Korean South. How can you tell Because I'm not trapped in North Korea. No, she's from the Orient. The Orient, ah, so we're in the 1950's right now. I'd be the Red Ranger. I'd be the Blue Ranger. You're the Yellow Ranger! How do I change this setting Are you serious.
Yeah, I just got this phone. You're like a bad Asian. So my mom was like with Asian accent Eugene Why are you so skinny You can say that That feels like a little bit racist. I mean it's Were your parents upset that you wanted to go into entertainment Of course 'cause I'm Asian you think that my parents want me to be a doctor or a lawyer or engineer. OK, that's like a little racist, but it's cool. So she was like with Asian accent oh, Eugene.
No, no, you can't do it though. Oh, OK, fair. Oh, I wasn't tryin' to be offensive, it's good that they're cool with it, though. Nah, they wanted me to be a doctor. Take a selfie with me. Yeah Mom, that was my new girlfriend. Uh no, she's not Korean. I'm so glad I have minority friends. All my pictures are with White people. Uh, you know, technically Asians are the majority. There are literally billions of us in the world. Oh, OK, smile!.
Click Oh my God, I love that new HBO show. It's so diverse. Yeah, there are no Asians on it. Hey Eugene, what's 28 times 72 Yeah, but there are two Black people! And an Asian receptionist. I don't know, it's like 1,500. OK, thanks. Are we all in the frame Voiceover Yeah, you're on, you're all in. I just had this thought. If we had a baby together, it would be the most beautiful halfAsian baby in the entire world. Right.
Voiceover Yes, definitely. It would totally be half Asian. Dude, in general halfAsian people are the most beautiful. Oh my God, I had the best pho last night. You mean pho. Yeah, pho. Hey Eugene, I saw your Awkward Moments Only Asians Understand vid. As an Indian, where was the rest of Asia I went with my girlfriend Tammy Nguyen, do you know her Nguyen I don't know, I think probably around eight o'clock. So, you might wanna think about that next time.
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