TDOR Unite! 2013 Reflection by Carter Brown
Hi, I'm Carter Brown. And I am proud to be a Black man. I'm proud of the immense advancements that the black community has accomplished with unity and resilience. AfricanAmerican history is built on unifying in the face of injustice to bring about progress and equality. From the time our ancestors were brought to American to the current day if there's an injustice against some black people ,we rely on our black leaders to stand up and speak out to be a voice for us all. We may call on Al Sharpton if a young black brother has been shot or murdered by.
Someone of a different race. Or we will will call on Jesse Jackson if a black sister has been unlawfully imprisoned. We called on Martin Luther King Jr and other leaders, when black people were being lynched or denied service or our churches were being burned. And as a community we've shown visible and vocal support of black pastors accused of infidelity, black athletes accused of rape or even murder. Whatever the case, we are sure to show up to defend our brothers and sisters. But sadly that is not the case transgender people in the black community.
You see, it's painfully apparent that the AfricanAmerican community and our leaders are either ignoring or ignorant to the discrimination being inflicted on a large group of brothers and sisters on a daily basis. Just last year, there were over a dozen black transgender women who were reported murdered by such horrific means as multiple gunshot wounds, strangulation, or even burned to death and the number of women killed in this way continues to rise. Yet after years of this ongoing discrimination and hate being inflicted on our own people,.
We have not heard from one of our socalled black leaders. To the AfricanAmerican community, I ask on what scale must a person's life be considered valued or worthy of your protection and support or at least acknowledged. Must I be a pastor of a megachurch or star professional athelete to be worthy of you to fight for me Am I not worthy of your protection and support Why can't you walk with me Every year, the transgender community and its allies gathers to memorialize the precious lives taken so brutally and senselessly. As a leader and a community organizer,.
I ask that you show your support this November 20th by showing up at your local Transgender Day of Remembrance event. We need your help to fight this deplorable injustice being done to our own community. Give a voice to all of our children killed unjustly, because all of our lives are valuable. Give hope to all of our brothers and sisters that are in jeopardy of death or violence just because they're different Give a damn about what about brothers and sisters because all our lives are valuable. Our lives are.
How To Get Your Ex Back After Cheating And Get Them To Forgive You
This tutorial is all about how to get your ex back if you cheated on them. My name's Brad Browning. I'm a relationship coach and the author of the Ex Factor, a comprehensive guide to winning back an ex. Since you're watching this tutorial right now, I doubt I have to explain to you why cheating on the person you love is a bad idea in the first place and that it can have serious consequences. You already know that, so I won't preach about why you shouldn't cheat on your boyfriend or girlfriend. In reality, we're all human and we all make.
Mistakes from time to time. Now that you've accepted the fact that your infidelity caused you the person you love, it's time to talk about how to get him or her back and start over. First thing, don't deny it or fight your ex about the cheating. After you cheated on your partner, he or she is going to feel incredibly betrayed. They're going to see you differently and they're going to have a hard time loving you at the moment. Accept that this is the case and don't fight with your ex about.
Why you cheated, or who it was with, or how much you're sorry. If he or she broke up with you, you'll need to accept it and begin thinking about how to get them back. Once you've accepted their feelings of betrayal and anger, cut off communication with your ex for a while. Your ex needs time to put the cheating behind you and to forget some of the hatred that your ex is probably feeling right now. Also try to ignore your gut instinct to say sorry a million times and beg for forgiveness. Even if you're truly sorry, and hopefully.
You are, telling it to your ex again and again won't help. Once you've done it once, a few times, that's enough. Men, give your ex time and space while he or she begins to miss you. Next, be patient with your ex and wait until he or she is ready. Let's be realistic. It's going to take a long time to get back together with your ex after you've cheated on him or her. It isn't like any other breakup, it's not as simple as other breakups, and the time required for your ex to miss you.
And want to be with you again could be longer than it would in other situations. So patience is key here. After this potentially lengthy period of your ex being angry and bitter at you, chances are your ex will actually start to miss you. Accept full responsibility for cheating on him or her. Your ex may attempt to punish you by seeing other guys or girls, by trying to make you jealous, etc. don't get angry, don't give in, just accept the punishment for what it is and keep going. If your ex doesn't know who you cheated.
On him or her with, that's ideal. Don't give your ex any more details than are absolutely necessary even if they ask for them. Now about starting over with your ex, after one partner cheats on another, their relationship will never be the same. The trust has been broken and although trust is something that can be built back up, it's almost impossible to bring it back to the same level than it once was at. If your ex chooses to forgive you and being a new relationship with you, it should be a fresh start and a new relationship.
Wiping the slate clean and starting with a strong new foundation is the only healthy way to begin dating your ex again. Promise each other that you're going to move forward without looking back. Your future relationship will always be marred by the scars of the past and that's not good. If your partner is going to dig at those old wounds whenever he or she feels the need to get back at you for something, chances are the two of you aren't going to work out in the long run. So best of luck during this difficult process.
Don't get discouraged and keep at it until you finally have your ex back in your arms. If you need help with your situation or you want to talk to me about the specifics of a unique scenario you're facing, leave a comment below this tutorial and I'll do my best to get back to you or visit my website BreakupBrad to get my contact info. And finally if you found this tutorial helpful, please do me a big favour and click the like button just below the tutorial. I'm also releasing new tutorials every week, so if you subscribe.
Relationship Advice How to Get Over Being Cheated On
Hi, my name is Reka Morvay. I'm a psychologist, and I'm going to talk to you today about how to deal with being cheated on. Now, being cheated on in a relationship is one of the most painful experiences that can happen, and one of the two direct effects of being cheated on is a loss of trust in your partner, and a loss of romance in your relationship. It is very difficult to trust a partner again who violated probably the most basic principle of your relationship, which was that you are together and there's nobody else in this relationship,.
And it's also very difficult to feel romantic and feel loving toward somebody who caused you that kind of hurt. So, those are the two issues that you need to focus on when you want to deal with the aftermath of cheating. The first thing you should do is probably to sit down and to discuss why it happened, how it happened, and what you need in order to move forward, so you need to resolve the cheating situation first. Is this something that was just a one night stand, something that just happened once, or was it an ongoing,.
An an ongoing affair Both of those are different situations, and they might have different meanings for your particular relationship so you need to be clear on what exactly this cheating entailed. But what's even more important is you need to come to an agreement on how to fix the situation, and how to continue your relationship afterwards. Now, if you come to the decision that the cheating will stop and your relationship will continue you still need to deal with the issues that were brought up by the cheating itself, so you.
Need to deal with this loss of trust. Now, the you as the person who was cheated on needs to figure out what kind of behavior it is from your partner that you need for that person to rebuild trust. They have to come to you and they have to be willing to play by your rules in order to make sure that they can regain your trust. And the next thing is you need to figure out how to bring romance back, and how to bring those loving feelings back.
The Dream Of Life Alan Watts
Music plays Alan Watts If you awaken from this illusion and you understand that black implies white self implies other life implies death or shall I say death implies life you can feel yourself. Not as a stranger in the world. Not as something here on probation. Not as something that has arrived here by fluke. But you can begin to feel your own existence as absolutely fundamental. music plays I'm not trying to sell you on this idea in the sense of converting you to it. I want you to play with it.
I want you to think of its possiblities. I'm not trying to prove it I'm just putting it forward as a possibility of life to think about So then. Let's suppose that you were able every night, to dream any dream you wanted to dream. And that you could for example have the power within one night to dream seventy five years of time. Or any length of time you wanted to have. And you would naturally, as you began on this adventure of dreams, you would fulfill all your wishes.
You would have every kind of pleasure. And after several nights of seventy five years of total pleasure each, you would say Well that was pretty great! But now let's let's have a surprise. Let's have a dream which isn't under control. Where something is going to happen to me but I don't what it's going to be. music plays And you would dig that And come out of that you'd say Wow that was a close shave wasn't it Then you would get more and more adventurous and you would make further and further gambles.
To what you would dream. Finally you would dream where you are now. You would dream the dream of living the life that you are actually living today. That would be within the infinite multiplicity of choices that you would have. Of playing that you weren't God. Because the whole nature of the God in you according to this idea, is to play that he's not. So in this idea then, everybody is fundamentally the ultimate reality, not God in a politically kingly sense, but God in the sense of being the self.
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Lets Talk About Sex Sexual health advice from Dr. Vanessa Cullins
My name is a Vanessa Cullins. I'm vice president of medical affairs for Planned Parenthood Federation of America I know what I know about sexuality and sexual health because I'm a trained obstetrician gynecologist, and I'm a sexually active individual. The purpose of this column is for us to become more explicit and concrete when talking about sex. Conversation is going to be necessary whether you think this is a relationship that's going to end up in marriage or one that's gonna end up as a one night stand. In terms of sexually transmitted diseases, expect to have HPV once you become sexually intimate.
All of us get it. Yet know that it's important to get the HPV vaccine, and have cervical cancer screenings. Another STD, chlamydia, is running rampant in the African American and Latino communities. The issue with chlamydia is that it's often silent in the beginning, but if untreated it can lead to infertility and chronic pelvic pain in women. But my best advice for staying healthy is to admit that you're sexually active individual, like most of us, and that you're going to have sex and that you need to take precautions.
Sex Addict or Just a Cheater
People cheat, they do. Some people go to a strip club, some people may see a prostitute. Someone might have a one night stand with an old girlfriend, someone might go off on a conference and have some kind of sexual encounter and that might even happen a couple of times during the course of a long term relationship. I can't say that it's right or wrong or good or bad. I can just say that it happens. But just because that happens, that doesn't mean the person is a sex addict. Sex addicts are people that engage in longterm.
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