Marriage Relationship Advice How to Fix Communication Problems
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we are going to talk about how to fix communication problems. The most important part of communicating is to learn to be a very good listener. Part of what happens in relationships is people start yelling at each other and no one can hear anything when you are being yelled at. So, to understand what communication is, is to really hear what someone is talking about, and where it's coming from within them. Is it coming from a place of.
Communication Understanding Others How to End a Marriage
Hi, my name is Reka Morvay. I'm a psychologist, and I'm going to talk to you today about how to end your marriage. If you've come to a decision that this relationship is not going to work out, and that it will being more heartache to you and more difficulties for maybe your children and for your spouse than getting a divorce then it is time to end your marriage. When you come to this decision make sure that you communicate it effectively to your spouse. Be calm and be kind. Remember how you would feel if you were in the same situation if.
The situation was reversed. Try to be calm and respectful, because this is probably going to be a very drawn out, and a very emotional process going through the divorce, deciding about your assets, deciding about your previous life together. If you have any children then deciding about their fate, the visitation. It is best to try to maintain a working and friendly relationship with your spouse throughout this process, because it's going to be very difficult for everybody involved. Also, remember that before you come to a decision to end.
Communication Understanding Others How to Fix Your Marriage
Hi, my name is Reka Morvay. I'm a psychologist, and I'm going to talk to you today about how to fix your marriage. Now, if you've reached a point where you have to seriously think about how to fix your marriage that, of course, implies that there is something broken, so the first thing to do is try to determine what exactly it is that is broken in your relationship. What fundamental need is it that isn't being met, or what fundamental boundary is it that's being crossed all the time Try this tactic for a month try to.
Marriage Relationship Advice Why Marriages Fail
Hi, I'm Patti German. And I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip we're going to talk about why marriages fail. Marriages basically fail because people stop communicating with each other. They start to live separate lives. And, and they the fighting becomes very very. It goes one out of two ways, wither there's fighting all the time or there's no talking to each other. So marriages fail because people are not communicating. One of the basic human needs is to be in a reciprocal relationship.
Marriage Relationship Advice How to Be a Good Husband
Working our relationship skills. Specifically we're going to learn today. How to be a good husband. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. What is the best way to become a good husband. Basically you're going to have to tell your, this conversation and have it with your wife because it's really going to be particular to her personalty. There may be some things that she really likes or wants that are special to her. That makes her feel good as a individual. For example she may want you to cook dinner for her one day a week. She may want you to.
Manage all the household finances or help out with the children. You know on particular days. Give her an evening out with her friends or just give her some quiet time. So you really need to understand those. Those interaction fundamentals that are really key for her. In addition the five key attributes dimensions of relationship. Love, trust, respect, friendship, communication all those are real key and if you really need to understand those more deeply. Then I would suggest that you attend a Family Resources or similar workshop, marriage education.
Actually Dr. John Gray has some good advice here. You may recall him from The Venus and Mars books. Very worthwhile. There are some little things that you could be doing also. To help spice up the relationship. Are you buying your wife chocolates From time to time. Are you buying her flowers Are you sending her a text message at work I miss you. I need you. Rubbing her feet. Putting gas in her car. These are all things that say. Hey, I'm with you I'm paying attention. Your the most important person in my life.
I love you. But you also have to come to is some agreements and compromise. For example you know in the bedroom. You may have to have the conversation that we're going to have less sex than I'm use to and probably a lot more than you use to. But we need to come to an agreement. So it really becomes an issue of communicating. Not compromising but on agreeing how to share some of these relationship dimensions. That are really important and key. You need to be prepared to give but if you give you'll ultimately will receive. There.
Its Not About The Nail
It's just There's all this pressure. You know And sometimes it feels like it's right up on me. And. I can just feel it like literally feel it in my head. And it's relentless, and. I don't know if it's gonna stop. I mean, that's the thing that scares me the most, is that I don't know if it's ever gonna stop. Yeah. Well. you do have a nail. in your head. It is not about the nail. Are you sure, because, I mean, I'll bet, if we got that out of there.
Stop trying to fix it! No, I'm not trying to fix it! I'm just pointing out, that maybe the nail is causing You always do this! You always try to fix things when I really need is for you just listen! See, I don't think that is what you need. I think what you need is to get the nail out See, you're not even listening now! OK, fine. I will listen. Fine. It's just sometimes, it's like, there's this achy. I don't know what it is. And I'm not sleeping very well at all.
Marriage Relationship Advice How to Fix a Bad Relationship
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we are going to talk about how to fix a bad relationship. Best place to start on is to understand what the problem is. For instance, if there are constant fighting we have to understand what's underneath the fighting. There are four indicators of whether a marriage can really go on or a relationship is in trouble. One is if there is constant criticizing, if there is contempt, if there is defending, and if there is stonewalling. So we look at.
Marriage Counseling How to Communicate Better With Your Wife
Hello, my name is Reka Morvay. I'm a psychologist, and I'm going to talk to you, about how to better communicate with your wife. Now, a fact of communication in a relationship, is very, very important, because we cannot be expected to read the other person's mind. It is very important for us to be able to use a language, that the other person understands. Not everything has to be verbally communicated. You can communicate many things by physical touch, physical contact, by a smile, a look, but when it comes to verbal communication,.
And when it comes to problem solving through verbal communication, it is very important to use nonconfrontational language, so this is what we call using I language, instead of you language. What this means, is that you say to your wife, I am very upset that this and this has happened, instead of, It's your fault, and I'm very upset, so try to focus on how the situation makes you feel, rather than placing blame on your spouse. Another effective communication tool, is making clear how you feel, and what you mean. Do.
Wedding Proposal Marriage Advice Marriage Work Life Balance
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco, marriage researcher and writer. Today we're going to talk about marital planning. Specifically, how do we balance the work life relationship at home and keep that harmony You know, in today's environment, in today's economy, it becomes a very difficult thing to manage. Work demands are extreme, there are some sixty, seventy, eighty hour weeks, on top of it there's a transition to four day work weeks. So achieving that balance is very difficult, and something that a couple really needs to sit down and plan and communicate.
About. Communication is the real key. There needs to be good communication about schedules, there needs to be schedule, communication about events and things that need to be taken care of that might not be able to be addressed with somebody who's working or on a business trip out of town. So, so real communication is the key. You really need to sit down and talk about one another's needs as well, because if you're putting in a lot of time at work, then perhaps there's other needs that are not getting satisfied. Meaning company, discommunication,.
Physical aspects of the relationship are very important. And also there's other dimensions. Paying bills, somebody to take care of the lawn, making sure the groceries are purchased, laundry taken care of, etc. So realistically, real tight planning, communication needs to take place because the last thing that you want to happen is win the war at work and lose the battle at home. So real balance needs to take place here and that's real key. Also your individual health and well being of the family is going to be an important thing,.
Because if you're out of kilter at work, then what's happening to you health wise The marriage itself has its own health. It's its own breathing entity and needs attention. So these things are all needs to be addressed and balanced. If you're spending a lot of time away from home, perhaps it might be time to ask your spouse, hey, ask me out on a date. I miss you, I want to do this. Saturday night we're going on a date or Saturday and Sunday we're going out of town and we're going to take some very special time for one another. So.
Communication Understanding Others How to Discuss Marriage With Him
Hi, my name is Reka Morvay. I'm a psychologist, and I'm going to talk to you about how to discuss marriage with him. If you've been living together with your boyfriend for a while, or you've been going out for a long time, and you have marriage on your mind you may be wondering how to best bring up this subject with your boyfriend. First of all, if you've been together for a while then probably you already know how he feels about marriage in general, but in case you don't, then quietly try to sneak in the topic during conversations.
About maybe friends who are married, or maybe a TV show that you watch together that features a married couple, or what marriage means to you in general. These are all issues that you might want to bring up just quietly, just indirectly, and see how he responds to it. Now, if you think that he responds to it positively then you can start talking about your feelings, and it this will give you grounds for a discussion about this topic. If you want to have a more direct conversation this is a more sensitive area because you might be perceived as too.
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