Marriage Relationship Advice What Makes a Married Man Cheat
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we're going to talk about what makes a married man cheat. Well, cheating is about, excitement, about the spontaneity of something and it's pretty common for anyone to have the desire to cheat. But the problem is when it gets acted out. There's, it's an indication that there's something missing in a relationship, and the feelings of the excitement of someone new, of someone exciting, of someone different, is what really is underneath.
Marriage Relationship Advice How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed family therapist here in New York City. In this clip we're going to talk about how to handle a cheating girlfriend. The first part in understanding that your girlfriend is cheating on you is to get professional help. I really don't believe that you can handle this on your own. There are many many reasons why a person is not staying loyal in a relationship. And the excitement of someone else enters into it. So I highly recommend that you seek counseling, marriage counseling at this point because to to stop.
The the pain at that point, a professional person can help understand, help you understand what's underneath the cheating. What's underneath the not staying loyal. What's underneath the betray. And it takes a little bit of time but it's a true indication that a relationship has problems. So to clarify, it's important that you go to a marriage councilor whether you're married or not, to help understand what's happening in a relationship. Marriage councilors work with relationships whether people are married or not. There's some indication that there's a problem in the relationship and if it goes forward it's only going to.
Marriage Divorce Signs of a Cheating Husband
I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today we're going to be talking about some signals of the kind, you don't want to get. Specifically, what are the signs of a cheating husband Actually the signs of a cheating husband, if your intuition senses these things, the sad thing is that your intuition probably is going to be right. There are going to be some very subtle changes in behavior, or some overt changes in behavior that you need to be aware of. For example the subtle changes, is he buying you flowers more frequently.
Is he telling you how special you are How much he loves you Or, is he doing things like maybe going to the gym a lot more often Going on that crash diet Wearing his hair differently Wearing different clothes Or, are you finding some new underwear, or things like that Is he buying things for the kids You know, just trying to deflect and change a pattern of behavior so that things are being masked in the household. Or, there could be deflection tactics, he may be accusing you of some, some errant behavior, or cheating.
Behavior, or creating some animosity, some anger in a household so that he actually doesn't feel so bad, that he's been engaging in this bad behavior. Now, you can go through the process of trying to catch him, you know, taking a look at his emails, his text messages, his voice mails, or following him, using whatever electronic surveillance there is. There's even a program Cheater's, who will help you, if you qualify, and make that determination, if your husband has been cheating on you. But, you need to understand that there, you're.
Probably going to have some responsibility, it's always been a two way street. You know, couples, when couples deal with problems, no one is one hundred percent at fault, and the other one is faultless. But, so, you need to accept some responsibility, but not the blame. If you, if you really want to know, try the direct approach. Ask him. If he comes forward, and he's honest, then you know what type of person, what type of character he has. And, if he's in denial, then perhaps talking to his family or his friends, that.
Marriage Divorce Signs Your Wife Is Cheating
I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources, today we're going to be talking about signals of the kind you don't want to get. Specifically, signs your wife is cheating on you. The challenge is if you have this intuition it's said to say, most of the time you are right. If you feel like your wife is cheating on you, then it's a matter of you picking up on some of the subtle or direct changes in their behavior that signal to you that something is indeed wrong. Is she doting on you Giving you a lot more affection, perhaps asking for sex.
A lot more often or maybe the opposite, you may have had sex three times a week and now it's done to zero or once every month or so. There are some subtle signs as well. Maybe she is buying you flowers, maybe she is buying things for the children and trying to really actually deflect some behavior. But recognize that the subtle things need to be paid attention to and there are also some very overt things that are taking place as well. For example, is she buying new underwear Is she trying to make herself over with a new hairdo, new.
Clothes, perhaps going to the gym more often, perhaps dieting. So you need to be aware of these things that are taking place. A very offensive technique is also maybe putting the blame on you saying that perhaps you're cheating or you're paying attention to your secretary or girlfriends and so these are kind of deflection techniques or she maybe introducing some type of anger animosity into the relationship so that she doesn't feel bad about what she's doing. So you can go to the extremes of monitoring her phones, voice mails, emails and follow her at work or where she's going after work, electronic.
Surveillance, there's even a television show Cheaters that if you qualify, you may be able to have that all documented on camera if that's what you want to do. But you need to understand that in all relationship, there is joint responsibility, nobody's 100 at fault and nobody is at 0 at fault either. So you need to have responsibility. If all this else fails, try the direct approach, have you asked her And watch for behavior. Is she nervous Will she avert your eyes Avert looking at you So as a last resort you may want to talk to her friends, talk.
Marriage Relationship Advice What to Do When You Suspect Your Man Is Cheating
Hi, I'm Patty German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we're going to talk about what to do when you suspect that your man is cheating. Well, whether you're married or not, cheating is a very hurtful experience to have to feel and explore together. I think when you first think that your partner is cheating, it's not to accuse. It's to sit down and try to talk about it. This is very hard because initially, there will be a denial of it. But the indication is to let your partner know that you're suspecting.
Relationship Advice Breaking Up How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend
We're talking about our relationship skills today, in particular how to deal and handle a cheating boyfriend. My name is Joe Cuenco, I'm with Family Resources and what actually is the best way to handle a cheating boyfriend My question would be, why would you want to But if you're going to, you need to understand what really is the root cause of this behavior. And you need to take an introspective look because, is he cheating because he's not getting satisfying sex Is he not being physical enough and is there not enough physicality in your.
Relationship together You need to communicate, talk about it. If he's got an issue of a low selfesteem or a low self confidence, then he needs help, he needs professional help. There's nothing that you're going to be able to help him from that view point. Or, could it be that there's some excessive drinking, some drug use or some issues going on to where he's getting involve and feeling need to cheat. If you feel like you need to keep him out of harm's way, let him stay away from strip clubs and bars and places where he might have.
The opportunity to cheat. But realistically, why would you want to I mean, this is really a slippery slope and it's a bad situation with very few good and positive outcomes because it really displays a lot of deep respect, trust and trust according to relationship experts is the paramount issue. So realistically, how do you deal with a cheating boyfriend or handle a cheating boyfriend Realistically, it don't. You look for somebody whose going to treat you with trust, respect, love and commitment. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources Relationships For Life.
Relationship Advice Breaking Up How to Catch a Cheating Boyfriend
We're fine tuning our relationships and how to be a private eye, specifically how to catch a cheating boyfriend. I'm Joe Cuenco, I'm with family resources and today we're going to be talking about just how do you catch that cheating boyfriend. First of all, if you suspect something, probably your intuition is probably right. After you spend a good bit of time with somebody and you suspect that he or she is cheating, in this case he, you're probably right. But, how do you actually go and actually produce evidence and catch.
This person Well, you're probably going to have to go to some extremes. You may be monitoring his emails, you may be monitoring his texts, his phone calls, his phone records, watching where he goes, who he's with at what time. If you want to go to a real extreme there are many electronic surveillance options available to you. GPS you can track where his car is at any point in time. But, realistically why would you want to do that It's not a situation, this is your boyfriend it's not your husband. If it's your husband you may be considering.
A divorce option where a lawyer will tell you 'why would you want to live this way looking over your shoulder'. So, if it's a boyfriend, really examine your position and why you want to put up with a cheating boyfriend. But, if you have to track him down, do that. You may just want to confront him and say 'How are we doing What's happening here I had this intuition.' and go from there. There are extremes you can go through, communication is key, and also recognize that relationships are finite. They have beginnings and they.
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Marriage Relationship Advice How to Get Past Infidelity
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip we're going to talk about how to get past infidelity. Infidelity is one of the hardest problems in a relationship, and it may not even be getting past it. It's understanding, number one, whether you want to stay in the relationship. And if that is important, then we have to understand together what happened to cause infidelity. What caused the partner to stray What responsibility does each person have in it The person who.
Was betrayed is the one who's hurt, and we have to listen to what that hurt feels like. And the person who is not loyal has to be able to understand how deeply the hurt goes in betraying the relationship and has to listen to what their partner is saying about what it did to them to hear how, how hurtful this was. This is, staying loyal in a relationship is what a marriage is really about. So when this gets violated, it's very, very hard to get past it very quickly. It takes a long time to work through the hurt. And again,.
Marriage Divorce Is a Cheater Always a Cheater
I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today we're talking about if a cheater is to be or not to be. Specifically, is a cheater always a cheater. This is really a tough question to answer because it really depends upon the character of the individual and the situation that the individual's in. Many people can get caught up in a situation and have a one time affair or cheat and really be done with it. It's really something that they hadn't planned. People cheat for different reasons and have a different rationale. But in a net,.
Net the affect is the same on the partner who understands what has happened. Now a person of integrity generally will be very honest about what has happened and be open in the relationship and talk about, well, I messed up, this is what happened and it's not going to happen again. And so when you have somebody that's respectful like that who knows that they breeched trust and wants to rebuild the trust, then typically you can respect that person as a person of their word, integrity, even though they made a mistake, this is something.
That they want to work on to rebuild the relationship. On the other hand, some cheating requires an investment and plan. And when you have somebody who's actually working a plan to cheat then it's a different situation. This person is probably going to be selfish, really thinking about things, well, what's in it for me and what can I get, how can I take advantage of the situation And typically this type of person will be prone to these bad behaviors and will continue this line of action and something that you really want.
To stray away from. So once you recognize that cheating is there, the trust is destroyed, and trust is something that takes a long time to rebuild if ever. Because sometimes that level of trust can never be attained. And trust is equivalent to love and importance according to some surveys of some very very successfully married couples. So, recognizing it takes time and years perhaps to rebuild the relationship and trust, you really need to go with your gut. What type of individual is this that you are with Can you build something.
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