Wedding Proposal Marriage Advice Share Household Responsibilities in Marriage
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco, marriage researcher and writer. Today we're going to talk about household planning. Specifically how do we manage responsibilities for household management. You know just as a company needs a CEO to strategically manage the company and workers to fulfill the obligations and decisions made about who does what. The same has to happen with a family. Basically the responsibilities need to be allocated, they need to be agreed to and therefore people need to have an understanding of what is expected of them. That happens in a business and it's.
Also something that has to happen at the household level because a dictatorship barely works. The cooperative planning approach is basically the one that works the best. So basically what a couple needs to decide is what are we best at What strengths do we have and what's the best way for us to allocate these tasks. For example, one may be better at budgeting. One may be better at the mechanical side. One may be better at making the purchasing decisions or doing the financial planning. You just need to determine what your good.
At an allocate the task based upon your skills. Now you need to be fair in the allocation responsibilities because if your wife is not Danica Patrick, then don't expect her to change the oil, the plugs and do the trannie rebuild. So it really needs to be a fair allocation based upon your skills. What you need to do is figure out what responsibilities your going to take individual responsibility for and what your going to do together. A lot of couples like to do outside work together. They like to work in the yard. One does planting. One.
Does the rose pruning. One does the weeding and we need to understand that these things need to all be done in balance. For example, if your wife has the responsibility of making the meals, the husband shouldn't expect that at 502, there's a problem if the meals not done. Similarly, if the lawn is not cut at 1204 pm on a Saturday, sometimes flexibility needs to be there to understand that these things will get done in time. So you need to stick to a plan, be supportive of one another and understand that this is all part of a.
Wedding Proposal Marriage Advice Remain Attractive in a Marriage
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco, marriage researcher and writer and today we're going to be talking about what happens if you've lost that spark. Well, specifically what is it that we can do to remain attractive to our spouse One of the things that we can do to be attractive to our husband or to our wife, well the first thing that we need to understand is are the foundation fundamentals there Love, trust, respect, communication, friendship, if these things aren't there then they really need to be focused on before you can be attractive.
To your spouse. Now, remember that beauty is only skin deep, attraction is a matter of function of what we look like, but it's who we are and what physical presentation that we have, because there's going to be a point in your life when you're eighty plus, or ninety plus years old where if you don't have the friendship, the fundamentals there, and you haven't developed that deep relationship, then it's going to be tough to remain attractive to your spouse. Now, the things that you can do basically is make sure that you are living.
A healthy lifestyle, you're eating right, you're exercising, you're doing the right things to maintain your health, and you don't have any bad habits such as chewing tobacco, something like that is not very attractive to anybody. And, also maintain yourself spiritually and mentally, of you're not growing then you're going the opposite way, so it's important that we build our confidence, build up our mental facilities, our spiritual facilities, as well. What can you do to create excitement in your household What can you do to do the special things for each other, to make sure that they understand you still love them,.
And you would be the primary choice if you had to do it all over again It's part of communication, make sure that you're talking about how much you love one another and that you understand. Ask the questions about what would you like me to do What can I do differently So, stay tuned to each other's needs, the rest will follow, but it really boils down to, are you taking care of yourself to be the best that you can be for your spouse, and show that attention to each other That's how you can stay married for life, I'm Joe.
Marriage Counseling How to Take Care Of Your Wife While She Is Pregnant
Hi I'm Joe Cuenco with family resources and today we are going to be talking about how to build upon marital relationships. Specifically how do we take care of our wife when she is pregnant. Well just exactly what are the things that we need to do to take care of our wife while she is pregnant. The first thing you are going to need to do is be empathetic. Understand exactly what she is going through, both physically, mentally, and emotionally, this could be one of the most difficult times in her life that a woman can go through. It.
Depends upon the pregnancy. Some can be easy, and some can be very difficult. So you really need to be empathetic. But the most important thing that you can do is take loads and stress off of her. Be prepared to help out and do much more of the household responsibilities, you're going to need to be helpful with the household chores, cooking, cleaning, perhaps going to the grocery store. Being more active in helping out with the other children if that's the case, where you got a larger family. You need to give her and allow her the specific.
Times that she needs to rest. She needs her proper diet, she needs her exercise, she needs to be taken to the doctors at certain intervals. Make sure that all these things are attended to. Also be prepared that she may not be feeling very well. Some pregnancies are very difficult. There's a lot of morning sickness, and other sickness and some women get very, very tired. So you need to be really be empathetic and understanding this can take place. And be also prepared that the hormones can sometimes be out of control and off the Richter scale.
And you're going to need to be very empathetic and understand that these behaviors are going to cause a little bit more stress in your life. You need to be very actively involved in the planning process, key, but also let her know that she's loved, she is still beautiful in your eyes and that you are happy that she is going to be part of a broader family. And that's how you take care of your wife while she is pregnant. I'm Joe Cuenco with family resources, relationships for life.
Marriage Counseling How to Be a Good Husband.
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today we're going to be talking about how to improve our marriage relationship, specifically by how to learn how to become a good husband. Just how do we become a good husband, or how does a man become a good husband. Where it really starts is the conversation with your wife. Every woman has specific things that she likes or dislikes, but it really starts by finding out what your wife likes you to do, or what your wife doesn't like you to do. If you're familiar with the TV series,.
Everybody Loves Raymond, there was one shot in there where Debra was watching Ray vacuuming, and she told him that she had never seen him sexier than that. Well, so that was something that was really important to Debra, having Ray do household chores. It might be the fact that the husband cooks the wife a special meal, or helps out with laundry or other things in the house, but really there are specifically big things you can do and there are also little things that you can do as a husband to make your wife feel special. For example, when.
Is the last time you bought her roses When was the last time you can buy her other flowers, chocolates, things of that nature, rubbed her back, rubbed her feet, put gas in her car. These are little things that go a significant long way. The other important thing is, you know, sometimes we have frayed relationships with our wives families, and so it's important that, you know, a harmonious familial relationship is important to your being a good husband to your wife. Doctor John Gray who wrote Mars and Venus, actually has some good advice in.
Marriage help tips Compliment your spouse
BjbjLULU Hi, I'm Shawn with the Odd Couple Blog. Ron I are the Odd Couple and while we aren't exactly what most Americans think of when you say the Odd Couple the personalities of the characters fit us. We have been married for 27 years and my heart breaks when I see the marriages of our friends and family struggle and at times not make it. So, we came up with the idea of giving some marriage tips to help and give ideas to couples who are in trouble or just want to keep their marriages growing. Now, its important for me to tell you, I don't.
Have marriage counceling degrees or any degree that gives me more knowledge in this field except for on the job training. Like I mentioned earlier after being married for 27 years I hope that there are enough little hints and tips that I have learned to pass on to you. These will be short little tidbits I know you don't have half an hour or even 15 minutes to sit. So these will be 1 to 2 minutes long. There will always be an action plan for each tip. After all the tip is only as good as the action behind it. And here is my first.
Tip. Compliment your spouse. Most of us spend a lot of time with strangers and coworkers talking to them with respect and give pats on the back to them. But when was the last time you complimented your mate It doesn't have to be a big thing simple household chores that have to be done but show gratitude toward your love one and you will make their day. Did he take the trash out Thank him for it. Did she cook dinner Give her a wink and compliment her meatloaf. Nobody can make it as good as she can. You might give a strange look especially.
Marriage Counseling How to Stop Nagging Your Husband
Hi, my name is Reka Morvay, I'm a psychologist and I'm going to talk to you about how to stop nagging your husband. Nagging is a very, very annoying behavior that probably gets on the nerves of most men and many women do it, not on purpose, not because we want to annoy our husbands, but because we ask for something and then it simply doesn't get done. Now, how do you deal with this situation Let's sit down and talk to our husbands about why we need to nag. Obviously something that we asked for is not happening. So we need.
To sit down and talk about why our requests were not being respected. It is important to find out whether it is realistic to expect our husband to fulfill that request that we keep nagging about is it something the toilet seat, is it something about finances, is it something about any other household chore In that case we should probably sit down and discuss the whole entire system of family chores, see who does what, try to come to a mutual agreement that everybody agrees to about how things need to be done and how often.
Men If You Want More Intimacy Pick Up The Vacume.mov
Bjbjlt Hi I m Dr. Liz Hale Marriage and Family Therapist with HusbandandWife and RomanticMarriages We have one goal and that is to help you form and sustain a healthy, lasting, loving marriage! So men, rev up the vacuum, pull out the duster, and push that wet mop across the kitchen floor.if you want a happier more amorous wife. Housewives across America are applauding the latest research but does it sound too good to be true Dr. John Gottman is one of the main marital researchers on the benefit of household chores. Here is his conclusion.
The men who do housework are not only happier in their marriages but also have lower heart rates and better overall health. These men also reported less stress even four years following the initial research and were less likely to have been ill. Perhaps it's just the resolve of this marital issue that reduces conflict at home, which in turn reduces stress on the individual partners. But in the research coming out of the University of Kentucky, when BOTH husbands and wiv th parties reported overall marital happiness. At the same time,.
We can not just say that housework has curative powers housework is not necessarily the key to fabulous relationships. While housework was tested as a separate factor in the study, cleaning the commode was really not the issue. The husband who pitches in tends to be viewed as a supportive and cooperative. The meaning of we are in this together, is what leads to a good marriage where there is greater physical intimacy. BOTTOM LINE It turns out that while women may rightfully demand equal pay for equal work outside the home, the demands.
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Womens leadership expert promotes female empowerment in Korea
We hear many success stories of female leaders breaking the glass ceiling but even in this day and age, we also making loud noises is the issue of gender discrimination. Kim Minji had a chance to sit down with one leadership expert. Her name is Claudia Chan, take a look. Women worldwide are making strides to break down walls and create social equality, change and a more positive environment for women. Claudia Chan, the CEO of SHE Globl Media a media and education company is one of them. Shes in Seoul to share her insights and empower young women so that they too can make.
Change. Theres absolutely a womens revolution happening right now across the world. Ive seen unprecedented amounts of organizations, activists and businesses that have been speaking up for women rights. Being a women is incredible and it brings a diversity to society feminine traits are incredible qualities of collaboration and communication, empathy and vulnerability that the world needs right now. What improvements are needed to foster more female leaders It cant be just women fighting for women. We need to have the private sector. They need to create programs to get women into higher level positions. Media is a huge vehicle as.
Well because you have a microphone that speaks to so many women and to share stories like this. And media creates consciousness and this is what leads to change. A report by the WEF showed that Korea ranks 117th among 142 countries when it comes to gender equality. What does Korea need to do to reduce this discrepancy and foster more women leaders needs more initiatives that help young women coming out of college get jobs. Its very difficult more difficult for a woman to get a job than a man. It needs to institutionalize career programs, sponsorship programs, internship.
Programs at universities and corporations. Theres also a huge fertility issue here in Korea and thats not good for the society or women so there needs to be a lot of programs and initiatives around that. Any word of advice for aspiring young women The number one glass ceiling to break before anything else is the one in your mind. Having inner confidence is really important and changing the voice in your mind instead of being constantly critical of yourself we need to be more loving, kind to ourselves so that our voice is giving.
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