Marriage Relationship Advice How to Marry a Millionaire
We're working on our relationships today and we're actually going to learn how to find that perfect person. How to marry a millionaire. My name is Joe Cuenco, I'm with Family Resources and today we're going to look at a profile of how we can actually find that person who is the millionaire. And not on Gilligan's Island either. You know that they say that money can't buy happiness but money can buy a jet ski and you rarely see people on a jet ski with a frown. But outside of that, if you want to be within a millionaires circle.
You really have to think like a millionaire and think about what they like to do. Where they recreate, where they entertain themselves, where they work, where they socialize and then actually be involved in that circle. You may want to become a member of the yacht clubs, of tennis clubs, of ski clubs, body clubs, polo clubs. Attend fund raisers, Charity events get to be where the board members are. Wine tastings, high end restaurants. You really need to be in the millionaires circle. I mean you're typically not going.
To find this person at a bowling alley so you may need to adjust some of your habits, life styles or you or actually are visible at. And basically the Pretty Woman concept is really again just Hollywood stuff. From a tactical perspective you can look up who these people are in the who's who data base. There are actually some list services that can tell you where, by zip code where people have at least a six figure income. And so if you're thinking about neighborhoods to where to target to hang out you may want to.
Use that as a resource. But again thinking about where you might run into a millionaire, think about where they actually participate. It may be fund raisers, charity events. Things that, that board members would be involved in and actually either volunteer, participate or actually try and meet these people at these events. The other things that you need to be aware of are there are various associations. There are CEO associations, young business entrepreneur associations, adventure capitalist firms. You really need to follow the money trail if this is what you're looking for. Remember money is not the only objective in,.
In life. The other thing you need to do is basically dress for success. You need to have culture. You, you need to walk the talk. But basically a millionaire is not going to want to engage with somebody that, that talks like they just came from the latest bowling alley. You need to be cultured. You need to have, be engaging to where a millionaire would be interested in, in you. So again, put yourself in the right circles. Act, act the act and also make sure that your engaging enough, attractive enough and also that you have a.
Wedding Proposal Marriage Advice How to Ask Your Girlfriends Father for Her Hand in Marriage
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today we're working in on relationship communication. Specifically, how do we ask our girlfriend's father for her hand in marriage That is a very interesting question and basically, whoever is asking this question is somewhat of a traditionalist, and out of a person, and which is, which is a excellent thing to be, doesn't happen very often nowadays, but it's a very honorable way to approach the marriage and relationship. Basically, the first thing you need to do is take a selfinventory of what you are bringing.
To the table, bring to your girlfriend's, your fiancee's father and that family. So take, take a, an inventory of what you're bringing to the table the skills and the dimensions that you bring. The first thing you need to do is call him up, set an appointment, talk with him at, preferably at his, at his location, some place that his comfortable in. Tell him that you've got some good news, something that you like to talk with him about and get his opinion on. First start the discussion about what strengths that you bring to the.
Table and things, and talk about how positive your relationship has been with your daughter, how happy she has been and basically, that this is a relationship, that he should be proud of and happy of. Hopefully you've already sealed the deal with, with his daughter, she's already agreed to take your hand in marriage. But, if you haven't done that, then, you can do that very quickly. But the important thing is to stress in this dialogue that you are a person of character, your thinking long term, you're going to make his daughter, his.
Baby very happy and that you're willing to step up to the table and make a commitment to do so. So effectively, what you're doing is, you're really working on your sales proposal and basically, all you want to do is get him to agree that, that you're a good person, you've got a lot of skills, you have a lot of resources to bring to the marriage and also, the fact that your, his daughter is very happy, so, it's just matter of, he's already agreed to all these things, it's just a matter of getting him to say yes , you.
Marriage Advice From A Divorce Attorney Laura Wasser, Family Law Attorney
Communication is my advice for somebody considering getting married. I actually believe that communication is important if you are thinking about taking the relationship to the next level and moving in together. I know a lot of people have prenuptial agreements, I think they are great but in young marriages or marriages where the parties don't have a ton of money, it may not be necessary. What I do believe is necessary is determining what the expectation of each of the parties are, determining what the deal if you will is. Every relationship has a contract,.
And when you enter into a marriage contract, you are being governed by the state where you live and even if it's an easy divorce, when you go through divorce, you have to file paper work and pay fees, and fill out forms that means that getting into this should be a little more difficult. You should discuss, Do we want to have kids What religion is our family going to be How much are we going to put away for savings Are you going to continue working after we have kids Are we going to a family vacation every year If.
My mom turns 80 and has a stroke can she come live in our back house Obviously, you can address every single thing that's going to happen every single course of your hopefully very long marriage, but there are certain things, particularly financial things, that are not very sexy or romantic to discuss but I highly advised having this conversation with either a priest or a rabi or a good friend, somebody that you both respect that's had a little life experience, a mental health professional again and maybe taking some notes.
And jotting things down. There will be times in your relationship when you will have to renegotiate the terms, things have changed, one of us is working more now, one of us is making more money, we re buying a home my mother did end up coming to live with us. Things need to be discussed and you need to have good communication about what the deal points are even if it may not sound like the most romantic, it will save your relationship time and time again, and if you start doing it before you get married, it will be easier.
Marriage Relationship Advice How to Be a Good Husband
Working our relationship skills. Specifically we're going to learn today. How to be a good husband. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. What is the best way to become a good husband. Basically you're going to have to tell your, this conversation and have it with your wife because it's really going to be particular to her personalty. There may be some things that she really likes or wants that are special to her. That makes her feel good as a individual. For example she may want you to cook dinner for her one day a week. She may want you to.
Manage all the household finances or help out with the children. You know on particular days. Give her an evening out with her friends or just give her some quiet time. So you really need to understand those. Those interaction fundamentals that are really key for her. In addition the five key attributes dimensions of relationship. Love, trust, respect, friendship, communication all those are real key and if you really need to understand those more deeply. Then I would suggest that you attend a Family Resources or similar workshop, marriage education.
Actually Dr. John Gray has some good advice here. You may recall him from The Venus and Mars books. Very worthwhile. There are some little things that you could be doing also. To help spice up the relationship. Are you buying your wife chocolates From time to time. Are you buying her flowers Are you sending her a text message at work I miss you. I need you. Rubbing her feet. Putting gas in her car. These are all things that say. Hey, I'm with you I'm paying attention. Your the most important person in my life.
I love you. But you also have to come to is some agreements and compromise. For example you know in the bedroom. You may have to have the conversation that we're going to have less sex than I'm use to and probably a lot more than you use to. But we need to come to an agreement. So it really becomes an issue of communicating. Not compromising but on agreeing how to share some of these relationship dimensions. That are really important and key. You need to be prepared to give but if you give you'll ultimately will receive. There.
Marriage Relationship Advice How to Love Your Wife
We're working on our relationship essentials today and today we're going to be talking about how to love your wife. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources and we're going to be talking about just the best way to love your wife. You really need to understand your wife at a grass root level, to understand what it is she wants that makes her feel special. And this is a conversation that you needed to have with her and ask her because her answer may be different than another female. She may want you to do some different things for.
Her to make her feel special. It might be cooking a meal for her once in a while. It may be making sure that her car is taken care of. She's got gas in her car. Or it may be a thing of making sure that you are good with her family. You can pick your family, you can pick your friends but not your family. And sometimes, there are relationship issues that deal with family. So, you really need to have the conversation around what makes my wife feel special and then do those things and make her feel special. In addition to.
The real relationship essentials, of love, trust, respect, friendship and communication, you know, are you aligned on other things Do you have common goals Do you have common interests where you can build relationship, fun and continue that friendship So, all of these are very important things to show your wife that she's special. She's still the most important person in your life and, if you had to, you'd make that choice all over again. And, show her that by doing some special things for her, sending her a text every once in a while at work, I love you. You're the most important person in my life..
Balance an agreement, you know, be open to some compromise, making sure that you understand and put her needs first. And, sometimes, that takes a bit of giving. Couples need to be open to giving a little more. It's not a 5050 relationship. Sometimes you have to be open to giving more. Because, when you do that, you're in a position to receive more. Workshops and marriage education classes help people understand some of the ways that they can deal with some of the difficulties and also the ways they can deal with the more positive.
Wedding Proposal Marriage Advice How to Get Him to Propose
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today we're going to be talking about how to get him to step up to the table. In particular, how to get him to propose and make a wedding proposal. Well the first question that you really going to ask is, what type of relationship progression have you been making is as a couple. Have you talked about long term commitments and talked about marriage and talked about families Are the foundation fundamentals there Is there love, trust, respect, friendship and communication 'Cause these things have.
To be there before you make an actual next step. You really need to understand each other and really need to have a dialogue open. Is there love, is there trust there, is there, the dialogue is taking place to where you can have that type of intimacy to where it's just a natural progression to say, well, what's the next step for us as a couple. Many couples choose to live together, many couples decide that rather than doing that, they want a more traditional approach of moving in together, buying a home or whatever, after.
They, after they get married. Now sometimes, one way to do this is to drop subtle hints, send him cards, emails, something subtle talking about, living happily forever with you, wanted to be with you for the rest of my life, of our life. Or, if the subtle approach doesn't work, because sometimes guys are pretty thick headed, sometimes a direct approach. When you're popping the question So have communication, have dialogue. But if you have the foundation fundamentals, and the relationship is making the right progression, there really should be a natural next step. Now that's not to say that saving your engagements, having,.
Michael J. Fox Gives Marriage Advice
YOU HAVE JUST COME BACK FROM VACATION OR WHEN DID YOU TAKE YOUR FAMILY ON VACATION WELL, WE WENT OVER THE WINTER BREAK, THE HOLIDAY BREAK, AND WE WENT TO ST. BARTS, WHICH SOUNDS GREAT. AND THERE'S BEAUTIFUL ISLANDS LIKE PROVENCE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE CARIBBEAN. BUT THERE'S A LOT OF PHOTOGRAPHERS THERE, AND SO MY WHOLE MISSION BECAME TO NOT GET MY WHITE FISH BELLY PHOTOGRAPHED. THEY DIDN'T GET ME, SO OH, THEY DID GET YOU. YOU HAVEN'T SEEN THE PICTURE OH, NO. OH, MY GOD, YOU HAVEN'T SEEN THIS.
IT'S AMAZING. cheers and applause laughing NO WONDER I'VE BEEN MARRIED 25 YEARS. laughing YEAH, YOU HAVE. THAT'S A BEAUTIFUL THING. YOU JUST CELEBRATED YOUR 25TH ANNIVERSARY. YEAH. cheers and applause AND I WOULD IMAGINE, SINCE YOU GO TO ST. BARTS JUST FOR CHRISTMAS, FOR A 25 ANNIVERSARY, YOU WOULD DO SOMETHING BIG. WENT TO BROOKLYN, HAD PIZZA. OH, YEAH. YEAH, WE DID, WE WENT TO BROOKLYN AND HAD PIZZA ON OUR 25TH ANNIVERSARY. IT WAS GREAT. I MEAN, THE COOL THING ABOUT THE 25TH ANNIVERSARY.
WAS THAT WE KIND OF WOKE UP AND SAID, WELL, I GUESS THIS WORKED. UHHUH. SIGN UP FOR ANOTHER 25. SO WE DID. AND WE HAVE. AND WE CEMENTED IT WITH PIZZA IN BROOKLYN. THAT'S BEAUTIFUL. AND WHAT DO YOU DO THAT BUGS HER, AND WHAT DOES SHE DO THAT BUGS YOU WELL, SHE CLAIMS THAT I SPEAK IN A TONE THAT CAN ONLY BE HEARD BY DOGS AND. AND S.A.S. LISTENING DEVICES. I MUMBLE AND I SPEAK AND I SPEAK IN A KIND OF A MONOTONE RUMBLE,.
AND SHE CAN'T HEAR ME. AND SO SHE'LL SAY, WHAT ARE YOU TELLING ME I TOLD YOUI GAVE YOU A WHOLE SPEECH ABOUT IT. SHE'LL SAY, I DIDN'T HEAR YOU. SPEAK UP. SO THAT BUGS HER. WHATI WOULDN'T SAY WHAT BUGS ME, BUT I'M A OPTIMIST. I'M KIND OF FAMOUS FOR MY POSITIVE OUTLOOK, AND I EXPECT THE BEST THINGS TO HAPPEN. TRACY IS A REALIST AND A BIT OF A PESSIMIST AND A BIT OF A HYPOCHONDRIAC. laughing SO SHE GETS A BLISTER ON HER TOE, THE FOOT'S COMING OFF.
AND SO I'M ALWAYS AND THAT BUGS HER, TOO, 'CAUSE I'LL AND THE THING THAT I SAY TO HER THAT BUGS HER SO MUCH IS WHEN I GO, OH, WELL. SHE SAYS, DON'T SAY, OH, WELL. I SAY, OH, WELL, WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO THAT'S THE WAY IT GOES. SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HEAR THAT. YEAH. NO, SHE WANTS YOU TO SAY, THAT'S HORRIBLE. LET ME LOOK AT THAT CAN I TAKE CARE OF IT YEAH, I'M NOT GONNA DO THAT. OH. laughs ALL RIGHT, WELL WHATEVER YOU'RE DOING, IT'S WORKING.
Wedding Proposal Marriage Advice How to Propose Marriage to a Woman
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources, today we're going to be talking about how to help a man pop that big question. Specifically, how to propose marriage to a woman With just what is the best way to propose marriage to a woman Before we answer that question, let's talk about what's the barometer of your relationship. Are you at a point to where you should be making marriage proposal Are the foundation fundamentals there, of love, trust, respect, friendship and communication Because, if they don't exist solidly, then you really.
Need to wonder and think about, is the timing appropriate for you to make that marriage proposal to your girlfriend and fiancee. So let's talk about have you talked about relationship goals, your long term goals, where you want to ultimately be. Have you talked about, about family Have you talked about retirement Have you talked about what you want to do ultimately as man and woman And if, if you've had these long term goals, then it really becomes a manner of what's the timing of asking a question. And when you ask the question.
It can be indirect, or it can be direct. Guys are good in being indirect, but, there are ways to do this by sending cards saying, I'd love to spend the rest of my life with you. I want to be with you forever. I want to love you the rest of my life and be there for you. Things of that nature in cards, emails, text, she'll get the message. Or, the most direct way is to say, dear, I love for you to be my wife. Will you marry me.
Make sure if you do that, you get on your knee. But, also you want to prepare the great venue. You want to make this most memorable experience of her life to date. And, so prepare a nice, romantic venue, location, dinner, meal, take her out of town, and really becomes of matter of what's, what can you afford to make that special for her. And if it's a lowbudget, just be creative as possible, and make that as memorable as possible for her. So, so the key is if you need some help there are workshops available. You maybe able to find some information.
Wedding Proposal Marriage Advice How to Propose
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources and today we're going to talk about how to pop that big question, specifically how to propose. Well, just how does one purpose marriage Well, before we put our caps on and actually go through the proposal, the important thing is to understand what's the barometer of our relationship. Are we ready to take that next big step What's a healthy relationship Are the foundation fundamentals there Is there love, trust, respect, friendship, communication Because if those things aren't there, then these things need to be attended to and worked on before you progress to the next step. Have.
You talked about long term goals, marriage, family, living together, a future together, retirement, etc And, if you have, then how to propose, just becomes the very next step. Then it really becomes a question of the execution. What is it that you want to do Do you want to be indirect, or do you want to be direct For example there may be ways to drop hints, sending cards, emails, little messages, saying I'd love to spend the rest of my life with you. I want to be with you forever, or the opposite way, the direct way, is when will.
You pop the question Or, when would you like to get married Just talk about, you know, dates and more tactics, but you have to decide that things are right for you before you make that next step in a relationship progression. Next consideration will be that since this will be the most memorable event in your life, perhaps, you want it to be a very special and unique occurrence, nice dinner, romantic, or a nice venue, perhaps you go out of town, take her to her favorite location, so make this a nice event and it can be low key, low.
Budget, or you can do something more grandiose. There's lots of information on the internet about how to make your proposal grandiose, but the real key is that you know, you're directing the communication that this is something that you both want to do, and it's just a matter of timing. John Van Epp has done some good work on timing of relationship, and there are work shops available within resources, and other marriage education to help you with this actual proposal process and making sure you're ready. That's how we propose, I'm Joe.
Wedding Proposal Marriage Advice How to Make a Clever Marriage Proposal
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco, with Family Resources. Today, we're going to be talking about how to get creative in our relationships. Specifically, how to make a clever marriage proposal. Well, how do we go about making a clever marriage proposal Well, before we go, and put our creative thinking caps on. First of all, we need to make sure that we get a gauge, a good barometer of where we are in a relationship, that we're actually ready to make that proposal. We need to make sure that the foundation fundamentals there, love, trust, respect, friendship, and.
Communication exist, before we can actually take that plunge, because if we're getting ready to make this level of commitment, it's important that we address these things, which are going to be keys, the key dimensions to making our lives together successful, so then once we get to that point, it really becomes a question of with any production, what is your budget so what is it that you want to do Do you want to have a marriage proposal in sky writing Do you want to have it on the Jumbotron at a football game Do you want.
To have it on a biplane banner Perhaps you want to have something written on a cake, delivered at a restaurant, so there are many creative things that you can do, but if you want to go low budget, then just determine for yourself, how much money you're going to be able to spend, so it could be as creative, as maybe even making your own direct mail piece, sending it individually to her, or you may be going to your favorite restaurant, where they have a band. Have the band actually make the proposal to her, surprise her. Put.
That creative thinking cap on. You can go on the internet, google it. There's many instances, or many examples of how to make it a creative wedding proposal. It's really kind of limited by your imagination, and limited again, by your budget. Maybe doing something as corny as putting the engagement ring in her spaghetti dinner, but the whole point is that, be creative enough to where it's something that she'll remember, she'll appreciate. This is the most important thing, the most important news that she'll ever hear. That's how we make a clever.
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