Its Not About The Nail
It's just There's all this pressure. You know And sometimes it feels like it's right up on me. And. I can just feel it like literally feel it in my head. And it's relentless, and. I don't know if it's gonna stop. I mean, that's the thing that scares me the most, is that I don't know if it's ever gonna stop. Yeah. Well. you do have a nail. in your head. It is not about the nail. Are you sure, because, I mean, I'll bet, if we got that out of there.
Stop trying to fix it! No, I'm not trying to fix it! I'm just pointing out, that maybe the nail is causing You always do this! You always try to fix things when I really need is for you just listen! See, I don't think that is what you need. I think what you need is to get the nail out See, you're not even listening now! OK, fine. I will listen. Fine. It's just sometimes, it's like, there's this achy. I don't know what it is. And I'm not sleeping very well at all.
Relationship Problems The Rebel Developing Effective Communication
Music begins Morgan Sontag BreakFreeTherapy dot com Appearing as The Rebel gtgt FEMALE NARRATOR Do you ever feel like the world is against you Or that life is often unfair Like at home, when the cable company hikes up your bill one too many times. gtgt FEMALE CABLE CUSTOMER I'll show them! I'm cancelling right now! gtgt FEMALE NARRATOR At your job. Your boss always telling you what to do. gtgt MALE EMPLOYEE I'll show her! I do what I want, when I want! gtgt FEMALE NARRATOR In your relationships, when your spouse does something that you find.
Really upsetting. gtgt FEMALE SPOUSE I'll show him! sniffling I'm not speaking to him anymore! noseblow gtgt FEMALE NARRATOR Hey! You just want what's fair, what's right. You just want to be heard! But, what do you end up with No cable. gtgt CROWD Aw! TV white noise gtgt FEMALE NARRATOR No job. gtgt FEMALE BOSS Uh, you're fired! gtgt FEMALE NARRATOR And, no spouse gtgt MALE SPOUSE Bye bye! gtgt FEMALE NARRATOR Could there be a better way to handle things The Rebel has its origins in childhood, when kids are molded and coerced into doing things.
Weird Things All Couples Fight About
Cheery strings music play That's not how you fold the towels. It doesn't matter how you fold a towel. It does matter how you fold a towel. If you want it to fit in the closet, you have to roll it. loud crunch Oh my God could you chew any louder louder crunch This goes on here. It takes two seconds. Well.Then the next person who comes in will do it. That's not the point. Hey did you throw away my left overs No. I coulda swo ohh you bitch. What did you call me.
Nothing. The toilet paper goes over. It's printed that way so you could see it. No. The toilet paper goes under so that the cats don't get at it. That makes no sense. What do you want to get for dinner I don't really care. The just pick something. You choose. Told ya! Shut up. I don't see why I have to put the utensils face down Because when they're sticking up like that, if someone trips and falls, they're going to impail themselves and die. That's literally the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
I'm not playing this game where I list every single thing and you shoot it all down. I'm not doing this again. Well then I don't know what to tell you. Oh my gosh watch this! This is the best line. Did you watch this without me You weren't home! mug clanks Seriously! 6 more inches and it's in the sink. Well then put it in 6 more inches. heavy sigh Get it I get it. Anything will be fine. Fine. Fine! Alright! We're gonna get. pizza It's food. Anything but pizza. phone slams on table.
What do you wanna eat That is Bill Paxton! It is Bill Pullman. Bill Paxton was in Aliens.That is Bill Paxton. That is him. Game over, man. That is that man right there. Why am I gonna put them away I'm wearing them tomorrow morning. I don't care if you're wearing them tomorrow morning. I don't want them just sitting by my side of the bed all night. Why do you do this! You squeeze from the bottom. The next person doesn't have to squeeze then. It's toothpaste. It's not like it's hard to squeeze it from a new area on the tube.
Why are we fighting about this Why are we fighting about this Why are we fighting about this!. I'm sorry. I shouldn't have. made you make the decision. With that being said, I think your original call of pizza is fine. Just no pepperoni. cheery strings music What do you want on it then Anything other than pepperoni. Oh my God! I'm going to murder you and when the pizza guy gets here, he's going to help me bury your body and then we're going to get married. No, he won't 'cause he'll probably be like Yeah I feel you, bro..
Relationship Communication Problems Relationship Communication Problems Egos Defensiveness
Okay the next big barrier to communication is putting all the focus on ourselves. My sister has a philosophy that everybody in the world walks around like these teeny tiny robots going What about me.what about me.what about me.what about me And I think there's a little bit of truth to it. And the what about me concept can get you into trouble, it can be a barrier. And what happens when we're focusing solely on ourselves are these things. Sometimes defensiveness can occur, Well why did you pick on me, why did you.
Say that about me, well that's not my fault, well I don't know what you're talking about. Defensiveness because we're thinking about ourselves. We can also have a superiority, Oh well, I'm better than that anyway, I'm better than you, okay, I'm the best. Also a sense of entitlement and a sense of entitlement is You owe me, so do it, okay This can create a barrier. And ultimately the ego can get in the way when we're constantly thinking about ourselves because we're focusing on every aspect of how the relationship affects.
What Its Like To Be In A Long Distance Relationship
I am currently in a long distance relationship. For two and a half years it was long distance. The first was two years and I am in one now. We've dated for two years. Then we dated a year long distance. Then we lived together for a year and then we did six months or so long distance before it ended. We were long distance for a year. What It's Like To Be In A Long Distance Relationship The hardest part is feeling that nobody else thinks.
That what you're doing is sustainable. You don't have to plan your day around it, but you definitely have to make extra effort. So there'd be a lot of issues as far as communication where I'm not willing to Skype for three hours. We still call each other Sometimes. like every three days, I'd say. You run out of things to say on the phone. How was your day It was fine. Like, Did anything happen It's like, No, not really, like, It was just like a normal day..
And so then there's silence. What was special about my day and how did it change me and how can I share that with the other person Even if you're just sitting in the car driving someplace in silence, you're together and you feel that. And you don't have that when you're in a long distance relationship and you're trying to artificially recreate it but silence over the phone is, I mean, it's nothing, right Silence in person means something. You fall in love and it's hard and it's like,.
Will I connect with someone like this again And is it worth it When you really like someone or even love someone, it makes it worth it. You're constantly asking yourself, Is it worth it And I feel like I learn something new every time I ask myself that question. I mean, it wasn't worth it, right Cause we broke up. So. But, we were never like, But. this is ending our relationship. Yeah. It was just, this sucks, that this is our relationship right now.
Really when it comes down to it any your relationship ends, when either one person stops caring about the other or both people give up. I think the key to doing a long distance relationship is having an end in sight. Like a date, she would move in, Mmhmm. we would move in together in July, so, we knew that. And then we did. We did. Woooo. You really learn about communication and how to stay open with someone. It made us also, like,.
Not dwell as much on, like, little arguments anymore, unless you forget to bring your girlfriend potatoes laughing from the German restaurant. She will drill it home for an hour at you. This happened last night. Waiting, you know, several days before you can even talk or Skype with the other person. Or waiting months before you can hug them again. It's hard giggling. It makes you appreciate loving someone when you can see them everyday. Aaaww. Mmhmm. So sweet. lips smacking Man I had some.
Key Peele Text Message Confusion Uncensored
BEEN TRYING TO REACH OUT TO YOU ALL DAY. ARE WE ON FOR TONIGHT sighs JEEZ. WHAT YOU CAN'T CATCH ME. YOU CAN'T CATCH ME. I'M LANCE MOORE. TOUCHDOWN, BITCH. WHAT PAUSE. phone chimes OH, SHOOT. KEEGAN'S BEEN TEXTING ME. SORRY, DUDE, MISSED YOUR TEXTS. I ASSUMED WE'D MEET AT THE BAR. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE. phone chimes SORRY, DUDE, MISSED YOUR TEXTS. I ASSUMED WE'D MEET AT THE BAR. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE WHAT THE FUCK IS HIS PROBLEM DO YOU EVEN WANT TO HANG OUT.
DO YOU EVEN WANT TO HANG OUT OH, THAT'S CONSIDERATE. LIKE I SAID, WHATEVER. LIKE I SAID, WHATEVER FUCK THIS GUY. JESUS, YOU. ARE FUCKING PRICELESS. AWW. YOU'RE THE. ONE WHO'S FUCKING PRICELESS THIS M THIS MOTHERFUCKER HERE. OH, HE WANTS TO OKAY, MMHMM. MMHMM. OKAY. YOU WANT TO GO. RIGHT NOW HMM. GUESS I COULD DO THAT. clears throat OKAY. OKAY, LET'S GO HE SAID OKA OKAY, LET'S GO ALL RIGHT, YOU KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO REALLY. DO THIS NOW KEEGAN, YOU NUT.
YOU'RE NOT PUTTING ME OUT. FUCK YEAH, LET'S DO IT OH, YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE! FIRST ROUND'S MINE. OH, NO! OH, NO! THERE AIN'T GONNA BE NO ROUNDS, ASSHOLE! IT'S GONNA BE A FUCKING STREET FIGHT! THIS SON OF A 'CAUSE TONIGHT WE GONNA PARTY AND THE PARTY DON'T STOP YOU! BUDDY! LIKE I SAID, FIRST ROUND'S MINE. A BEER AND A GIMLET FOR MY PARTNER RIGHT WHAT'S THAT UH, II GOT YOU A BASEBALL BAT WITH NAILS IN IT. FOR MY POSTAPOCALYPTIC JACKIE ROBINSON COSTUME.
Marriage Relationship Advice When to Get Marriage Counseling
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip we are going to talk about when to get or seek marriage counseling. I think when your relationship reaches a point where you really can't talk to each other any more or there's been an affair or a problem, a deeper problem or it could even be a death of a loved one. It's important to seek marriage counseling to help understand what each other is going through. And finding a safe haven a safe room to be able to talk openly and.
Recognize Relationship Problems Causes Reasons Relationships Fail Money
Alright, we're talking about reasons why relationships deteriorate. As I promised in the last clip, now we're ready to talk about money. I'm sure you'd know this, but if you don't I want to let you know that the major reason research studies have shown that relationships deteriorate is over money. Why is that Well, money equals power and whoever makes the most money has the most power. That's one of the major reasons that money causes so many problems, but there's other problems related to money. Many men have major issues with the wife making more.
Money. That can be a huge problem in relationships, but it can also be something as I'll use the word trivial, but I mean it in the sense of smaller, like you can't agree on how to spend the money or perhaps one person is very frugal with money, very likes to keep savings, like to have, you know, a nest egg. The other person spends all the money, is just very frivolous with their money. So many, many things, many different things occur with money. But, that's one of those major things that you really need to define the terms of money.
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