Lost in Translation The Problem with Email
The crazy thing about email is that it was really invented as a productivity tool obviously and it's good for a lot of things. It's kind of shrunk the world a little bit. You can communicate with people halfway around the world. But it's actually a really bad communication tool. And the basic problem is that you can't read tone or body language in emails so things get lost in translation. And to me that's really the key phrase. You send someone an email that strikes you as incredibly simple and clear, something like saying the sky is.
Blue, the ocean is deep, but then you get this email back from the person that suggests they completely misinterpreted what you said. And then you might get your back up and sort of crack your knuckles and start typing a response that you're going to fire back at them. And this kind of stuff happens all the time and it can chew up a lot of time as well. And again, this is part of the irony, email is supposed to be this productivity tool but you can get into these disagreements over email that can chew up an entire afternoon,.
Whereas if you just walk down the hall talk to somebody in person you could probably solve whatever problem there is in two minutes and actually build a relationship. 'Cause if you think of culture as just kind of the sum total of the relationships that colleagues have with each other, the thing about email is it does literally nothing to build those relationships and is more likely to actually damage what ever connective tissue is there in the first place. And we've seen this behavior all the time in all our own.
Jobs where people start these CC loops going and then suddenly you've got people like picking sides on an issue. One CEO had a great line, she said that email taps into a really bad part of our brain, which is the part that always wants to have the last word in a discussion and I'm sure a lot of people have seen that. So, I've talked to a lot of leaders who have established very clear rules about email in their organization such as you're not allowed to argue over email. You might have one backandforth.
In which two people are disagreeing about something, but after that he said you've got to get on Skype, pick up the phone or walk down the hall because again things can spiral out of control. Jeff Wiener of LinkedIn had a good line. He said, If you want to get fewer emails, because that's what a lot of people say it's like how can I not work on email, I get so many of them But he says, If you want to get fewer emails there's a very simple way to do it, send fewer emails. The fewer you send that's going to avoid those.
Key Peele Text Message Confusion Uncensored
BEEN TRYING TO REACH OUT TO YOU ALL DAY. ARE WE ON FOR TONIGHT sighs JEEZ. WHAT YOU CAN'T CATCH ME. YOU CAN'T CATCH ME. I'M LANCE MOORE. TOUCHDOWN, BITCH. WHAT PAUSE. phone chimes OH, SHOOT. KEEGAN'S BEEN TEXTING ME. SORRY, DUDE, MISSED YOUR TEXTS. I ASSUMED WE'D MEET AT THE BAR. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE. phone chimes SORRY, DUDE, MISSED YOUR TEXTS. I ASSUMED WE'D MEET AT THE BAR. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE WHAT THE FUCK IS HIS PROBLEM DO YOU EVEN WANT TO HANG OUT.
DO YOU EVEN WANT TO HANG OUT OH, THAT'S CONSIDERATE. LIKE I SAID, WHATEVER. LIKE I SAID, WHATEVER FUCK THIS GUY. JESUS, YOU. ARE FUCKING PRICELESS. AWW. YOU'RE THE. ONE WHO'S FUCKING PRICELESS THIS M THIS MOTHERFUCKER HERE. OH, HE WANTS TO OKAY, MMHMM. MMHMM. OKAY. YOU WANT TO GO. RIGHT NOW HMM. GUESS I COULD DO THAT. clears throat OKAY. OKAY, LET'S GO HE SAID OKA OKAY, LET'S GO ALL RIGHT, YOU KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO REALLY. DO THIS NOW KEEGAN, YOU NUT.
YOU'RE NOT PUTTING ME OUT. FUCK YEAH, LET'S DO IT OH, YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE! FIRST ROUND'S MINE. OH, NO! OH, NO! THERE AIN'T GONNA BE NO ROUNDS, ASSHOLE! IT'S GONNA BE A FUCKING STREET FIGHT! THIS SON OF A 'CAUSE TONIGHT WE GONNA PARTY AND THE PARTY DON'T STOP YOU! BUDDY! LIKE I SAID, FIRST ROUND'S MINE. A BEER AND A GIMLET FOR MY PARTNER RIGHT WHAT'S THAT UH, II GOT YOU A BASEBALL BAT WITH NAILS IN IT. FOR MY POSTAPOCALYPTIC JACKIE ROBINSON COSTUME.
Relationship problems, marriage therapy with hypnotherapist at Marlborough House Therapy Centre
The subject as relationships causes people a great deal of pain now human beings are social creatures and relationships are important to them whether this is real personal relationship work relationships family relationships it all matters. Yes to some extent some people will find their happy home coordinating, getting right but many people do suffer so at divorce with the divorce rate near about 40 percent and in surveys of financially successful couples showing that the equally unhappy if not more so. Anything you read in the press saying that happy relationships are based on finance are.
Utter nonsense. Happy relationships are based on treating each other in the right way and yet, why is it that intelligent people in the relationship will have an utterly miserable time. I'd put forward that a lot of people are utterly clueless about what a relationship means and this is not due to the rational components of the mind but the fact is that we operate from the emotional level and we are very often quite unconscious of our bejeweled behaviors so over the years we found rather than the regular marriage counseling type.
Approach which has limited success we've used hypnotherapy an coaching to help people get a better understanding of themselves and what they want in a relationship. Its a fact that some relationships do need to end there's no doubt about that, but people are just not suited and not willing but what has puzzled many many people is why do people who are perfectly capable of learning and excel in many areas of their life why do they carry on repeating the same mistakes in relationship simple question worth asking because very often couples will leave the situation get worse and worse.
Knowing that it isn't working, but they sit there hope that it gets better, that's not how a relationship improves, it takes understanding and it does take effort and we have the expertise to help you in that process and we offer a free initial assessment so please consider coming in to talk to us before you leave it and then too much resentment too much pain ends up finishing your relationship. We're here to help We're a team of experts we understand how you feel and we are very ethical in our approach, thank you.
Men Watch Porn With Porn Stars
I'm sweating and it's not even that hot in here, I just think I'm so nervous. laughs Hi, I'm Paris Kennedy. I'm Danny Wylde, and I am a porn star. My name's Zack, and I'm definitely not a porn star. I'm about to watch some porn with Allie Haze, that she stars in. I'm a straight guy, and I'm about to watch some gay porn. I don't really watch straight porn that often. I don't know if this is the point where I admit.
That like I feel like I've almost definitely seen a porn with you in it before. My expectations are pretty high. This is a really old scene. Oh, excuses, here come excuses. both laugh I do act quite a bit in this. It's broken down as Intro, Blow Job, Sex 1, Sex 2. I also just noticed, this is one take, that's insane, that's like Birdman. No kissing You just going for it girl. Just go for it. I'm sorry, I just keep getting distracted by this frame,.
It's just kind of like flesh. We went from just nice kissing to there's a peepee. I think it's awesome that porn stars say peepee. Little spank. It's getting good. Do they direct you to do the spank or was that just like, nah, I'm in it, I'm feeling it. It was in the script. Weiner's out you guys. Do you like it when they talk to you Yeah, I do. Like, hey baby. You're like really good at sucking dick.
Thank you, oh my god, that means a lot. I'm impressed. Oh, there's three guys here. Yes. There's so many just like, appendages. That's a really big penis. This is amazing, all you guys have beautiful penises. Thank you. How much time do you guys sit before and like draw this out like a football play It's up to the camera guy really. Your abs must be killer. Like your core strength, holy shit. You're in the gym just like, yeah.
That's a typical one. Look at how much you're sweating, holy crap. The roller skates are making me taller, so he has to be on his tippy toes. Are you being spitroasted I don't have a dick in my butt. Are most porn stars like circumcised or not circumcised, is that I'm actually not circumcised. I could tell, I did. That is something I was able to tell very quickly. Oh wow, oh my god! laughs We are really going for it right now.
How well do you know these, these guys I just met them. That's seems very professional. Oh, that I just met them and And you just dive right in. Yeah, totally. I would be nervous if I had to do like a kissing scene. Girl, does that not hurt It doesn't take a toll on you physically I know my body well enough that when I'm ready to be done, I'm like, timeout. You do this, clapping and I'll just wet slapping.
That's basically what's happening in our ears right now. And then like some moans. Do you have to like do that to your coochycat No, it's kinda just for the visual, for the viewer. Like are you enjoying this Let's freeze on this closeup of your testicles. This is almost like abstract art. I could see that like hung up in some old persons apartment and they don't even know what it is. It's not my, my style. But I appreciate it. laughs I get it.
I'm pretty familiar with all the equipment that you guys are working with. You know he's about to cum, laughs It's true. Cause they do a little fade. It's totally true. It'll show it like five times, like in slow motion. Okay. He's gonna cum on the roller skates. He's cumming laughs Oh, wow. All right, well that was a thing we did. I think it's really interesting, like to hear like, how these actually get put together. You know it's not as awkward as I thought it would be.
He's a normal guy, he's just a dude. I commend you for actually sitting here, and doing that, cause I couldn't sit next to somebody and be like, watch me have sex. laughs I would be worried they'd be like, you like it like that, that's what you do I'm not gonna lie, I have a little like softie. Oh wow. That's like such a big compliment from a gay guy, like I wanna cry right now. I'm glad my first time watching was with you.
Counseling Laguna Hills 714 '01652 Four Signs Your Marriage Is In Trouble
Hi. Robyn D'Angelo here, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Relationship Specialist. Today I'm talking to you about four signs that your marriage could be in trouble. So, research shows that people in longterm, committed, unhappy relationships actually have lower selfesteem. They struggle with things like depression and anxiety. And they even have a higher chance of illness. So this really speaks to the severity of being in an unhappy relationship and how it can negatively impact, so not only, you know, mentally and emotionally, but also physically. So, there are four basic behaviors that are considered relationship.
Killers. And the first one is criticism. So, what this looks like is when you blame or put fault on your partner in a way that you're putting negative remarks out there of them. So that's like, You're just so lazy. Or, You never listen to me. Things like that. What happens when you consistently do this over time is you chip away at that love and that trust in your relationship. So, that's the first sign. The second sign is defensiveness. Defensiveness is basically when you're not taking any responsibility for your behaviors.
Or it's when you verbally attack or get kind of verbally aggressive with your partner in a response to any feedback from them. And what happens is this just melts away the connection between you and your partner. And, the third thing is contempt. So, when you have a contemptuous attitude toward your partner, you are kind of doing what we call like kind of zingers or kind of sticks with really negative comments to them. And that looks like namecalling. It can even look like kind of scoffing at them or mocking them. Because when you are contemptuous,.
You're basically saying, I'm superior to you and you're defective. That's the message that you're sending to your partner. So you can see how this can really negatively impact a relationship. And the fourth sign is something called stonewalling. And so this is when you purposely withdraw from a conversation, whether you're in conflict or it's just uncomfortable, with the intent to stop all communication. And this can look like, say you're on the phone with your partner in a heated conversation and they hang up on you or you hang up on.
Them. Or, it can look like you're having a conversation with your partner and it's one of those Fine, whatever, forget it. That's stonewalling. That's cutting off the communication. It can be really, really negatively impactful on your relationship. So, these four signsthese are actually what Drs. Julie and John Gottman call the four horsemen of the apocalypse. And they sound just awful and that's because they are. So, if you're seeing some of these come up in your relationship and you'd like more help on how to eliminate these, give.
Couples Who Met Online Revisit Their First Conversations
Light music I describe it to my friends and stuff. It's like a freaky Tinderella story and it's never I never believe in that fucking bullshit. light music His username was pensivehumor laughs light music When we first started talking, I didn't have any romantic interest in Matt. I actually was just really Thanks. I didn't. light music Pat's profile was very creative. He listed himself almost like an apartment. I think your profile and the way that you represented yourself, I was surprised how easy going and laid back you were.
This guy looks and sounds normal and then all of a sudden you go to the end, he's like a creep on this little Asian girl. I almost didn't go on a date with you. I don't know. I thought I looked good in the photo. I really didn't see the nipple until after posting it. Yeah, you look like you're cold. We were about to start college together. The profile picture drew me in immediately. I think you were in Central Park. You, it was like your senior picture.
It was my senior picture. He looked really cute but I think you were doing that fake lean. I was like, oh this is kind of cute. light music I was like, it's easier just if you texted me so I gave him my number immediately and then we were off. She was such an easy Tinder. laughing I go, hey it's Mallory. Looking forward to Monday. both Smiley face. Sweet, yeah I can't wait. I'll be putting my thinking cap on for a good place.
Let me know if you come across something interesting, too. Have a good day. laughing Exclamation point. You were such a nice little goober. Hey there. Was totally going to crack some joke about catching grapes in my mouth but then I thought, hold on that seems way too sexual for the first message and then instead of writing you a witty opening line, I decided it was a better idea to compose my inner monologue to you and now we both know why I'm on this damn site.
She responded, hahaha hi. Perfect first message by the way. A bit weird but way better than a lot of the fair that you get. So this is like the day of the date. I said, I just got here but I'm listening to serial in the car. Hahaha. laughing What is that I'm in my car listening to Chiddy Bang. And then I said, I have to pee. laughing And that's when I met the real Mallory. Hi Allyson, I saw you're in COM.
Way to go with print journalism. I'm really interested in that, too. Wow that sounds so archaic. What other interests slash hobbies do you have What has your Summer consisted of He's like interviewing me. Hey Matt. I love watching movies, going for early morning bike rides, going to the beach, playing with my dog, Russell Crowe of course. The way I phrased things sounds really funny. It's like I'm trying really hard to be impressive. It's weird I wasn't weirded out by all the information he knew about me.
The third hang out I text again. Hey. Any plans tonight I'm about to do a hike in the OC. Tinder date. I can grab you What laughing What the fuck I didn't know that. Ew, bitch. light music I had high hopes for her. Online dating is a way to kind of cut through the clutter. And then I found you. Looking back on it, I had so many Tinder failures and I think the moment I met Mallory, I was like wow, this could be.
Finally someone I can see something with. We really did connect quickly and established a really good friendship and to see the way that that's evolved in the ten years since those messages took place. And that friendship has formed something that's become I think the greatest relationship either of us is ever going to end up having so that's really special. I'm glad he stalked me on Facebook, too. Join Tinder. Yeah. It'll bring you lots of joy. And maybe a lot of sex, too.
Still Face Experiment Dr. Edward Tronick
Gtgt Babies this young are extremely responsive to the emotions and the reactivity and the social interaction that they get from the world around them. This is something that we started studying 30, 40 years ago when people didn't think that infants could engage in social interaction. In the still face experiment, what the mother did was she sits down and she's playing with her baby who is about a year of age. gtgt Are you my good girl Oh, yes. gtgt Tronick, voiceover And she gives a greeting to the baby,.
The baby gives a greeting back to her. gtgt Dah! gtgt Tronick, voiceover This baby starts pointing at different places in the world and the mother is trying to engage her and play with her. They're working to coordinate their emotions and their intentions, what they want to do in the world. And that's really what the baby is used to. And then, we asked the mother to not respond to the baby. The baby very quickly picks up on this, and then she uses all of her abilities to try.
And get the mother back. She smiles at the mother. She points because she's used to the mother looking where she points. gtgt Dah! gtgt Tronick, voiceover The baby puts both hands up in front of her and says, What's happening here baby whining She makes that screechy sound at the mother, like, Come on! Why aren't we doing this baby screaming Even in this two minutes when they don't get the normal reaction, they react with negative emotions, they turn away, they feel the stress of it. They actually lose control of their posture.
Because of the stress that they are experiencing. baby crying gtgt Okay. Maggie. I'm here. And what are you doing Oh, yes oh, what a big girl. gtgt It's a little like the good, the bad, and the ugly. The good is that normal stuff that goes on, that we all do with our kids. The bad is when something bad happens but the infant can overcome it. After all, when you stop the still face, the mother and the baby start to play again. The ugly is when you don't give the child any chance.
People Read Their First Email
Do you remember your first email Of course you don't, that's why we're walking around the office today and asking people to share their very first email with us, come on. cheerful music What was your very first email address KingD89. BlueShine92. CornerInhabitanthotmail. DarkAngel. Dark Angel! What was the first email you ever sent It says, My name is Faustino, I want to be your pal too, tell me more about you See you. That's it. Your thumbnail that you use is super mysterious.
It's just your face in profile, like this. Super creepy. laughing Me and Jim. Me and Jim, that's my favorite high school teacher. Pull it up. This is safe, hopefully. laughs It is. Hopefully. Mr. JJ! How's your summer I miss Bio 170! Square smiley face. How's your summer Any fun things The square smiley face is kinda this smiley face. My brother was studying abroad in Hong Kong. I put, Hi Kevin, how is the weather It is totally hot!.
Oh, mom is coming. laughs Mom says that you should call home in the morning. Also remember to call collect. laughs This was an email from a boy that I would eventually date. I sent him a message saying, This is my number, please call me, basically. Oh yay! I'm not doing anything at all next week and I'd love to have an excuse to get out of the house for a while, especially to see you. And then, dances. How does it feel to flash back and see this on camera.
It was a great time, a lot of friends, a lot of girlfriends. laughs I can't imagine myself as a kid typing this. Really Yeah, I don't know, it's just like, it sounds like this is happening. I'm glad I'm not this person anymore. I'm glad that my flirting game has intensified. I still use square smileys. No more lowercase sigh, I graduated from a four year university, so I'm good with grammar now. Get ready for SAT or ACT, the Princeton review. laughs Yeah, and then I have some pole dancing.
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