RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FOR MEN THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR MAN BY DAVID DEIDA ANIMATED BOOK REVIEW
Your purpose must come before your relationship. If a woman who has an abundance of men in her life picks you, it’s probably because you have some kind of purpose, some kind of direction in your life. Now what’s going to happen is you’re going to get into a relationship with this woman, and then at some point it’s time for you to go to the gym, it’s time for you to practice your craft, but you’re going to sit down with her and say, quot;You know, you’re so beautiful. You’re just the most beautiful girl in the world. I was going to go do all those things, but I love you more than anything.quot; And what’s going to happen is she’s going to look at you and say, quot;Oh, that’s really sweet!!quot; And then lose attraction for you.
And leave you. You want to think of yourself as a roller coaster. So she comes into the park, and she sees all these different roller coasters and then she sees you. She looks at the path and she says, quot;Wow, that’s going to be a fun path to go on.quot; She comes up, she gets in, and instead of going on the journey and taking her with you, you say, quot;You know what, no, I’m going to sit here. I’ll spend time with you. You’re my number one priority.quot; And again, what’s going to happen? She’s going to get up and find a new roller coaster to ride. Literally. Don’t force the feminine to make decisions. The feminine does not like to make decisions. Again, this doesn’t have to do with it being a guy or a girl, the feminine.
Does not like to make decisions, but it’s most likely going to be the girl. It’s probably her coming in and saying, quot;Hey, should I wear black or red today? Which one honey? Which one?quot; Instead of you doing that to her. So when she does that, what do most guys do. It’s like, quot;Uh, I don’t know. They both look really good. Um, I don’t know. Just pick whichever one you want.quot; And again, you’re not making decisions. Now if you’re playing the masculine part in the relationship, that is your responsibility and she’s going to get turned off by it. Now why do most guys not make that decision? First of all, it’s like, there’s the right decision and the wrong decision. Realize that most of the time there is no right or wrong decision.
And the second part is being indifferent. It doesn’t matter, pick something arbitrarily. Don’t put the responsibility on the feminine cause the feminine will start to resent you for it. What she wants is not what she says. So imagine you go shopping with one of your guy friends and leave the store and you forgot something. And you ask, quot;Hey, should we go back in and grab it?quot; If he says, quot;No, that’s going to take too much time,quot; that probably means quot;No, that’s going to take too much time.quot; Now if you take your girlfriend with you and the same thing happens and she says, quot;No, it’s going to take too much time,quot; that can mean, quot;Yes, I want to go in there.quot; It can also mean no, but it can also mean yes. And.
As the guy, it is your responsibility to know what she means when. Now how do you cultivate that? You do it through experience, you do it through being more attuned to her, you do it through educating yourself, but ultimately, that is your responsibility. Now with that, some guys still get angry and say, quot;Well, why can’t she just tell me?!quot; And the reason is because it’s not as attractive. She won’t feel that masculinity penetrate her. Just like if you were working and she came up to you and gave you a playful kiss and said something, that would be the feminine energy that you crave and you would absolutely love it. Now imagine if you had to tell her that for her to do it. That would be the only way she would.
Do it. She would say, quot;Oh, thanks for telling me. Now I know exactly what to do.quot; It’s not as attractive. You are responsible for the growth and intimacy. One of the most common problems in this category is sex. A lot of guys get into a relationship and then the sex isn’t as good after a while. And what are they going to do? quot;Well, she’s not as fun anymore. She’s not attractive anymore.quot; Putting all the blame on her. And again, it’s like, are you reading books on sexual psychology? Are you trying to improve the sex? Are you introducing the new things required for the sex life to improve? quot;No, I would never read a book. I mean from another guy telling me how to have sex?! That would massively affect.
My ego! Plus I’ve been watching all this porn lately, so I know exactly what I’m doing!quot; And again, what are you doing with that? You’re putting all the blame on her and not taking the responsibility. You are the one that’s responsible for the growth and intimacy. All you have to do is hold her hand and lead her. If you do that, she will follow you. She will do crazy things with you, the things that you thought were not even possible. She will do all those things, but as a man, you have to hold her hand and lead her. Unless she’s masculine, she’s not going to hold your hand and lead you.
Tonny Robbins Relationship Advice For Lovers Tony Robbins 2016
Yeah this is your checklist for the rest of your life if something’s not working in your relationship this is the first place you go five disciplines of love and three of passion these five disciplines what the game is all about the first discipline we call the discipline of unconditional love and compassion the discipline what are called discipline because you don’t always feel unconditionally loving you always feel compassionate if your triggers get fired if something triggers your masculine or feminine you know.
Animal in you that survival instinct in you based on something going on you may not show up so you know unconditional love and compassion what this really means put it one phrase put your lover what it’s not about you that’s the law you put your lover first if you are having problems in your relationship i can promise you that the problem having right now is you’re feeling pain right now it’s because you’re focused on yourself not your partner you’re focusing on what you’re not getting your focus on what your partner’s not giving you your focus on something that’s not happening there.
This is the number one claw you want to have an extraordinary relationship therapy enrolls make this your number one rule number one goal is whatever comes first my number one rule is if you love you put their feelings and needs before your own second discipline real quick the discipline of absolute courage and vulnerability absolute courage and vulnerability this is learning to love no matter what I mean truly no matter what know how many people are going to do that not many not many people get an extraordinary relationship but what i mean by this is if you have courage vulnerability that means you tell the.
Truth that means you open up most people out of a lack of courage holdback their gift this idea that you’re going to get pain to somebody you love you’re going to punish them that takes no courage that takes no vulnerability that’s just stupidity so the more vulnerable you are the more power you have because love penetrates all third law the law positive intent the discipline should say positive intent by the way discipline weighs $OPERAND ounces regret waste time discipline weighs $OPERAND ounces regret wait times you don’t follow these.
Disciplines you’re going to grab right that’s the discipline their commitments that things are going to do no matter what this one means even if it’s not easy you still do it right discipline is it’s a habit that’s what discipline is a habit the discipline of positive 10 you know the deeper truth that this is a no blame game you know that when something happens no matter what it was like when I said that to her micro she and I made a decision early on i decided this decision i encourage you to make if you haven’t made it or make it a new if you haven’t made it in.
Years i decided i knew this woman’s soul this woman’s soul was his pure as anything I could ever dream of my life I knew that I loved this woman her soul is pure somebody what happened I would serve her and I’m gonna want to happen what she said her what she did I would know even if I couldn’t figure out how the intent was pure the intent was want to get closer it looks mean but she’s scared it looks vicious but she’s just freaked out you know and same thing with me he looks like he’s unconscious asshole he just doesn’t know it looks like he.
Doesn’t give a shit he’s actually a masculine male and this is what they do right we shifted the meaning to always there’s an empowering meeting because there is never negative intent no matter what it looks like no matter what was said and by having that along with that just want a possum tip in snow blame game we immediately apologized it doesn’t matter what could happen if there’s any argument we have it’s a playful argument which is I’m taking responsibility and she take responsible and honey was my fault that was my fault and it’s like and we mean.