Marriage Divorce Infidelity Warning Signs
I'm Joe Cuenco, with family resources. Today we're going to be talking about signals of the kind, you don't want to get. Specifically, what are infidelity warning signs. When it comes to recognizing infidelity warning signs, chances are, if you have this intuition, your intuition sadly, probably is right. Now there are several changes in behavior, and there are some pretty overt changes in behavior that you need to be aware of. Perhaps your partner is not looking you in the eye, when they're talking to you. Perhaps their depends or behavior have changed. It may be a question of, someone is telling you I love you a lot.
More often, buying you flowers, or even a more direct thing, you may be noticing that they have bought some, purchased some new underwear. They may be engaging in some behaviors to make themselves more attractive to the opposite sex. They may be going to the gym a lot more frequently, they may be giving, beginning a diet regimen, or they may be wearing their hair differently. So these are kind of the, overt, things that are happening. There also may be some very subtle things that are taking place. They may be actually,.
Challenging you, on a question of whether you have been faithful. Or they may be doing some things, such as, creating some strife, or disharmony in the household. More, deflection tactics, so that they feel, they don't feel as guilty about it, when they're cheating. Now, what can you do Well, you can go to the extremes of, monitoring their emails, their phone conversations, taking a look at where they are at work, when they go out. These are more extreme things, and there's also, electronic surveillance available. There is even a television program, Cheaters, but you have to be a qualified applicant before.
They will go ahead and put you on. But one of the things that you have to recognize is that many times, this is a two way street. There is some, culpability, or some responsibility, generally when a relationship goes through that type of thing. So, you need to be able to talk to yourself honestly, and evaluate whether that's something that's been taking place. If you are curious, and you really want to know directly, have you asked your partner directly, are you cheating on me And often times, sometimes, they'll be very.
Marriage Divorce Signs of a Cheating Husband
I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today we're going to be talking about some signals of the kind, you don't want to get. Specifically, what are the signs of a cheating husband Actually the signs of a cheating husband, if your intuition senses these things, the sad thing is that your intuition probably is going to be right. There are going to be some very subtle changes in behavior, or some overt changes in behavior that you need to be aware of. For example the subtle changes, is he buying you flowers more frequently.
Is he telling you how special you are How much he loves you Or, is he doing things like maybe going to the gym a lot more often Going on that crash diet Wearing his hair differently Wearing different clothes Or, are you finding some new underwear, or things like that Is he buying things for the kids You know, just trying to deflect and change a pattern of behavior so that things are being masked in the household. Or, there could be deflection tactics, he may be accusing you of some, some errant behavior, or cheating.
Behavior, or creating some animosity, some anger in a household so that he actually doesn't feel so bad, that he's been engaging in this bad behavior. Now, you can go through the process of trying to catch him, you know, taking a look at his emails, his text messages, his voice mails, or following him, using whatever electronic surveillance there is. There's even a program Cheater's, who will help you, if you qualify, and make that determination, if your husband has been cheating on you. But, you need to understand that there, you're.
Probably going to have some responsibility, it's always been a two way street. You know, couples, when couples deal with problems, no one is one hundred percent at fault, and the other one is faultless. But, so, you need to accept some responsibility, but not the blame. If you, if you really want to know, try the direct approach. Ask him. If he comes forward, and he's honest, then you know what type of person, what type of character he has. And, if he's in denial, then perhaps talking to his family or his friends, that.
What are the Signs of Financial Infidelity in a Marriage Orange County Divorce Mediation P3
Colleen, how do spouses even catch on to this double life The two most common ways that they end up finding out is when there's a death, because you know, finances are looked at that point, or obviously, when there's a divorce. If there was a hidden account that nobody knew about, how does that pop up Are there ways that other or hidden accounts all of a sudden pop up after a death certificate has been Well, a lot of times banks, especially bank accounts, have beneficiaries named. And so, you know, that could be a way that it could.
Become disclosed. So, what are the red flags that spouses should be looking for to prevent the problem from spiraling out of control and destroying their marriages. I would say keeping an eye out for missing documentation, and any type of money that's missing from the account, that seems weird and might be for an unusual expense that they're not aware of. And anything that's misdirected. If you see that they're getting mail from a different credit card company that you know you don't have a credit card with. It may not be junk mail. You may assume that's what.
It is but it could actually be a statement. So just keep an eye out and be alert. Another common situation, where maybe some of our listeners can even relate to it, is a situation where one of the parties let's just say for this case, it's the wife is giving funds to her parents on the side. And maybe they're struggling financially to make ends meet, and she doesn't want to tell her husband about it because she either thinks he won't be supportive or she's embarrassed to say that her parents are not doing well.
Enough. So she each month slowly gives a little bit of money, a little cash under the table, little things here and there, which end up accumulating over time. And all of a sudden, she finds that they're living paycheck to paycheck. And this particular case, she actually stopped paying the mortgage payments. The husband had no idea because she was in charge of all the finances. And the way he found out was that he came home from work one day and there was a bank notice on the front door saying that they were in jeopardy of foreclosure.
Wow! You know, the thing about the parents, I've actually heard about that quite a few times especially after the recent years where there was a lot of people that were struggling. And we've talked about it on the show a lot too. Kids, in this case, are really stuck sometimes in bad situations where they'd have to take care of their elderly parents, and their kids, and themselves. It could be a bad situation to be in especially if you're not talking to your spouse. And that's one thing that I would want everybody to hear.
Marriage Divorce Signs Your Wife Is Cheating
I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources, today we're going to be talking about signals of the kind you don't want to get. Specifically, signs your wife is cheating on you. The challenge is if you have this intuition it's said to say, most of the time you are right. If you feel like your wife is cheating on you, then it's a matter of you picking up on some of the subtle or direct changes in their behavior that signal to you that something is indeed wrong. Is she doting on you Giving you a lot more affection, perhaps asking for sex.
A lot more often or maybe the opposite, you may have had sex three times a week and now it's done to zero or once every month or so. There are some subtle signs as well. Maybe she is buying you flowers, maybe she is buying things for the children and trying to really actually deflect some behavior. But recognize that the subtle things need to be paid attention to and there are also some very overt things that are taking place as well. For example, is she buying new underwear Is she trying to make herself over with a new hairdo, new.
Clothes, perhaps going to the gym more often, perhaps dieting. So you need to be aware of these things that are taking place. A very offensive technique is also maybe putting the blame on you saying that perhaps you're cheating or you're paying attention to your secretary or girlfriends and so these are kind of deflection techniques or she maybe introducing some type of anger animosity into the relationship so that she doesn't feel bad about what she's doing. So you can go to the extremes of monitoring her phones, voice mails, emails and follow her at work or where she's going after work, electronic.
Surveillance, there's even a television show Cheaters that if you qualify, you may be able to have that all documented on camera if that's what you want to do. But you need to understand that in all relationship, there is joint responsibility, nobody's 100 at fault and nobody is at 0 at fault either. So you need to have responsibility. If all this else fails, try the direct approach, have you asked her And watch for behavior. Is she nervous Will she avert your eyes Avert looking at you So as a last resort you may want to talk to her friends, talk.
Relationship Advice Signs of an Abusive Relationship
Hi my name is Reka Morvay, I'm a psychologist and I'm going to talk to you today about signs of an abusive relationship. The most obvious sign of an abusive relationship is physical abuse. If you find yourself physically threatened, physically hurt, needing medical attention, especially, then this is one very clear, very obvious sign that you are in an abusive relationship. There is no reason, absolutely zero reason that you should be getting physically hurt in your relationship. Another sign of an abusive relationship is if you find yourself isolated.
From people that matter to you, your family, your friends, especially if this is an important point in your relationship, that you have to prioritize your relationship to the exclusion of your other relationships and your other social networks that might help you deal with problems. A third sign of an abusive relationship might be your own reaction to the situation. Do you feel happy, do you feel fulfilled. If you find that you are sliding into depression, if you are nervous, if you are tense, if the thought of your relationship fills you with.
Marriage Counseling How to Recognize Signs of an Extramarital Affair
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources and today we are going to be talking about how to deal with relationship issues, specifically how to recognize signs of an extramarital affair, and hopefully this is something that you will never have to deal with. Just how do you pick up on signs of an extramarital affair Well, unfortunately are intuition is right nine times out of ten, and if you're sensing that something is going wrong or eschew, chances are you are probably right. There are probably subtle signals that you're picking.
Up on, or there could be major things taking place as well. For example, is your partner or your spouse buying you an excessive amount of flowers Or, is this person saying I love you so much more It's like having a finely tuned automobile and once you're used to the sounds and the way the vibrations are something starts happening, starts missing, misfiring, you know that something is wrong. It's a subtle way to pick up on hints. Be careful of the deflection techniques. It could be, the person could be saying, accusing you of having an.
Affair, or using these things such as buying flowers to deflect attention to the fact that there's some bad behavior going on. So, you could go to extremes of monitoring the emails, the texts, the phone messages, and monitoring where they go. There's all types of electronic surveillance devices. But, do you really want to go to those extremes to find out if that type of behavior is going on This isn't really a slippery slope. Secondly, if that breach of trust has been broken, trust is the number on fundamental that successful couples have.
Said is paramount of importance, and friendship and all the other things really are subsequent, secondary to having that fundamental love. So, you also need to recognize, if something like this is happening, there's you need to be in a position to accept some responsibility, not blame, but accept responsibility. Have you ultimately asked your partner if something is going on and watch for a physical reaction because they may tell you the truth, or they may try to cover it up. So, lastly if you're not getting an answer, talk to their friends.
Relationship Advice Emotional Signs of Cheating
Hi my name is Reka Morvay, I'm a psychologist and I'm going to talk to you today about the emotional signs of cheating. If your partner suddenly becomes very distant, emotionally unresponsive, no longer affectionate, no longer showing you those small signs of courtesy and those small favors that used to be the hallmark of early courtship and in addition take an extended interest in grooming and looking good and looking really great. If they are unclear about where they've been if they are suddenly very hesitant to tell you where they go and who they are with and how long they will stay. If they are all of.
A sudden critical of your behavior. If they seem unhappy, if they seem stuck and would like to get out. All of these maybe, maybe signs of emotional cheating but it is very important to sit down and discuss your fears with your partner to make sure that you know what's going on. Because they may be other reasons for these kinds of behaviors as well. Any sudden changes in behavior that is different from what how your partner used to be, some more criticism about your appearance or more criticism about any other traits you might.
Marriage Relationship Advice Warning Signs of a Controlling Relationship
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we're going to talk about warning signs of a controlling relationship. It's very difficult to maintain a relationship when you're feeling very controlled by your partner. And the first indication is that you start to not feel safe, and you don't feel good about yourself when you are around your partner. Controlling is out of insecurity. So I think the first thing to understand is when you're starting to feel controlled by.
Your partner, that there may be something going on with him or her, and to maybe sit down and try to talk together as to what might be bothering your partner. Controlling is, again, it's about insecurity and the inability to let your partner just be free to be who they are for fear of being, of losing. Underneath, controlling is a really deep fear of being left alone. So the desire to hold on and control and tell somebody how to dress, how to act, how to be, overwhelms and takes over. This is Patti German in New York City.
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