Dont Stay in School
I wasn't taught how to get a job but I can remember dissecting a frog I wasn't taught how to pay tax but I know loads about Shakespeare's classics I was never taught how to vote they devoted that time to defining isotopes I wasn't taught how to look after my health but mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell Never spent a lesson on current events instead I studied The Old American West I was never taught what laws there are. I was never taught what laws there are!!! Let me repeat I was not taught the laws for the country I live in,.
But I know how Henry the VIII killed his women. Divorced beheaded died, divorced beheaded survived glad that's in my head instead of financial advice I was shown the wavelengths of different hues of light but I was never taught my human rights Apparently there's 30, do you know them I don't Why the hell can't we both recite them by rote! I know igneous, metamorphic and sedimentary rocks Yet I don't know squat about trading stocks Or how money works at all where does it come from How does the thing that motivates the world function.
Not taught how to budget and disburse my earnings I was too busy rehearsing cursive. Didn't learn how much it costs to raise a kid or what an affidavit is but I spent days on what the quadratic equation is negative b plus or minus the square root of b squared minus 4ac over 2a That's insane, that's absolutely insane. They made me learn that over basic first aid How to recognise the most deadly Mental disorders or diseases with preventable causes. How to buy a house with a mortgage if I could afford it.
Cause abstract maths was deemed more important than advice that would literally save thousands of lives but it's cool, cause now I could tell you if the number of unnecessary deaths caused by that choice was prime. Never taught present day practical medicines, but I was told what the ancient hippocratic method is I've got a headache, the pain is ceaseless what should I take umm. maybe try some leeches Could we discuss domestic abuse and get the facts or how to help my depressed friend with their mental state Ummm. no but learn mental maths.
Because you won't have a calculator with you every day! They say it's not the kids, the parents are the problem Then if you taught the kids to parent that's the problem solved then! All this advice about using a condom but none for when you actually have a kid when you want one I'm only fluent in this language, for serious The rest of the world speaks two, do you think I'm an idiot They chose the solar over the political system So like a typical citizen now I don't know what I'm voting on.
When My Parents Got Divorced
Simple acoustic music I was 3 years old when my parents came to me and told me they were getting divorced. I've actually been through two divorces in my life. My parents separated when I was about 6. My parents got divorced simply because they didn't get along anymore. I was 2 years old when my parents first got divorced. My parents have been married for 40 years and they're getting divorced this year. The first divorce, that was like my dad, that was the guy that, ya know,.
I'm half of and not seeing him the way that I saw him growing up was really strange. I thought like my dad wasn't my dad anymore. When my mom told me that my dad was moving out, I was in disbelief. It was almost like I put up this wall of denial. My dad didn't live at home. He moved to Miami. Most of our conversations from that point on were on the telephone. You recognize that something's different and then you're confused about what's happening and then you go OK..
Like you're trying to figure something out and maybe you still haven't figured it out but you're angry about it because it's different and then you're wondering, like, is this different bad or is it good, and you're not sure. But then you're wondering if you had something to do with it. It wasn't just about them getting divorced. It was about my whole family being broken up. Mom talked about Dad a lot. Couldn't stand it. I think I was like a young teenager at the time and ya know, my advice, if that's happening,.
Is to respectfully ask your parents not to discuss the other person in front of you. Because a it's not healthy, b it makes you feel like shit. I felt different, in terms of putting myself out there with men. I am a humongous commitmentphobe because of my dad. I find it incredibly hard to get close to a guy. Every day I fight, it's a struggle, to not become like my dad and follow into those footsteps and those decisions. And I feel like you can, too.
You can better yourself and you can wake up every day and make a conscious decision to be a better person and be who you want to be. So we all have these ideas of what we're supposed to be doing, and I think that only exacerbated the feeling of my family is different or there's something missing from my experience growing up because my parents aren't together. Through the winding road of life I've realized that. divorce is not so great. So if I can prevent that in my own life.
Loving and Being Loved
Confusingly, we speak of love as one thing, rather than discerning the 2 very different varieties that lie beneath the single word. Being loved, and loving. We can only make a relationship work when we're ready to do the latter and are aware of our unnatural, immature fixation on the former. We start knowing only about being loved. It comes to seem, very wrongly, like the norm. To the child it feels as if the parent is simply spontaneously on hand to comfort, guide, tame, feed, clear up, and will remain almost always warm and cheerful.
Parents don't reveal how often they've bitten their tongue, fought back the tears, and been too tired to take off their clothes after a day of child care. The relationship is almost always entirely nonreciprocal, the parent loves but they don't expect the favor to be returned in any significant way the parent doesn't get upset when the child doesn't notice the new haircut, asks carefully calibrated questions about how the meeting at work went, or suggests that they go upstairs and take a nap. Parent and child may both love, but each party is on a very different end of the axis, unbeknownst to the child.
This is why adulthood, when we first say we long for love , what we predominantly mean is that we want to be loved as we are once loved by a parent. We want a recreation in adulthood of what it felt like to be administered to and indulged. In a secret part of our minds, we picture someone who will understand our needs, bring us what we want, to be immensely patient and sympathetic to us, act selflessly, and make it all better. This is, naturally, a disaster for any relationship to work.
Best ADVICE, TIPS How to stop being a victim and live an empowered life. Lisa Mohr Self Help
If you tell the story of your life, are you the victim Or are you empowered I recently had a client come to me and tell me a story about how she had been cheated on, and she had been betrayed, and that her husband left her. Halfway throughout the session, and this had all happened 10 years before, she revealed to me that it was actually her idea to file for divorce, and she was the one that actually left her husband, and that she boded OK financially from the divorce.
I asked her, Can I ask you a question Why would you pitch it the first 45 minutes that you were a victim, that he betrayed you, that you got screwed, and then tell me that it was actually your idea, and that you boded OK at the end of it I said to her, Let me ask you a question. You have 2 people in front of you. One who tells you a pity party story about how they were betrayed, and lost their butt in a divorce, and their husband.
Was the bad guy, or somebody else that said, You know, I knew he was cheating, and it hurt like hell, but I took action and I got my butt out of there. Who do you want to hang around Who are you hanging around How do you pitch your story to the world We have this habit, I think it's taught from tv, because you know what We're drama addicts, we love tv, we love drama. I think we like to lead with embellishing our victimization to the world. The problem with that is a couple things. You start to.
Attract things like that, because you're conditioning that from people. When you go around waving to the world, I'm a victim, I get screwed all the time, people step on me, you're your first presentation to the world. You're giving a sign to the world that says, Step on me, kick me, screw me, because I'm a victim. What kind of sign do you think I have to the world It's not like that. It says that I'm important, that I have value, that I matter, so people treat me like that. The way you.
Feel about yourself, and the stories that you tell, define you to the people around you. If you think about it, nobody wants to hear about your pain. They want to hear how you transcended out of the pain. When you're sharing your story, be sure that there's a happy ending to it. There's a couple reasons for this also. When we dump on people, we end up draining them, so when you're telling these victim sad stories, pay attention to your audience. Are they doing this Because you're draining them, you're actually flooding them. There's.
Divorce Myths FAQs About Legal Separation
A common myth is that celebrities can get a divorce much quicker much quicker then Joe Public. Clients often ask, if you have more money, can you get a divorce quicker The answer is no. The divorce procedure takes between four to six months regardless of who you are. It can take longer if a financial settlement is yet to be achieved. A question often asked by clients is if I am separated and I've met somebody else and we've had a sexual relationship could that be cited in a divorce as adultery.
The answer is yes it can. Is there any such thing as the common law wife We've all heard rumors that if you live together for six weeks, or even two years, that you have common law rights. You are in essence a commonlaw spouse. It's rubbish. There's no such thing as a commonlaw spouse. Another question often asked is that do women get more on a divorce The most important thing to remember is the law is not discriminatory. Just historically, men have earned more than women. We never used to hear cases of women paying maintenance to men.
That was a sign of the times. Things have now changed. In a lot of relationships and marriages the women are the breadwinner. The most important thing is the courts start on an equal division of the assets and we look at fairness. Does one party need more money than the other A question that I'm often asked is that if I leave the family home do I lose my legal entitlement Do I lose my claim to a share The answer to that question is no. Whether you should leave the family home is very much a question that you have to answer personally.
Sometimes it is better to leave the family home as there is tension and hostility that is not healthy for anybody. Sometimes leaving the family home is going to put you under too much financial pressure. It may not be able to be afforded. Rent and paying a mortgage. But the most important thing to remember is that you will not lose your interest regardless. Very often people believe that when they've done a divorce online when they have a decree absolute. That the financial claims have been dismissed and their partner can no longer come and claim against their assets.
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