I’m joe cuenco with family resources, today we’re going to be talking about signals of the kind you don’t want to get. Specifically, signs your wife is cheating on you. The challenge is if you have this intuition it’s said to say, most of the time you are right. If you feel like your wife is cheating on you, then it’s a matter of you picking up on some of the subtle or direct changes in their behavior that signal to you that something is indeed wrong. Is she doting on you? Giving you a lot more affection, perhaps asking for sex.
A lot more often or maybe the opposite, you may have had sex three times a week and now it’s done to zero or once every month or so. There are some subtle signs as well. Maybe she is buying you flowers, maybe she is buying things for the children and trying to really actually deflect some behavior. But recognize that the subtle things need to be paid attention to and there are also some very overt things that are taking place as well. For example, is she buying new underwear? Is she trying to make herself over with a new hairdo, new.
Clothes, perhaps going to the gym more often, perhaps dieting. so you need to be aware of these things that are taking place. A very offensive technique is also maybe putting the blame on you saying that perhaps you’re cheating or you’re paying attention to your secretary or girlfriends and so these are kind of deflection techniques or she maybe introducing some type of anger animosity into the relationship so that she doesn’t feel bad about what she’s doing. So you can go to the extremes of monitoring her phones,.
Voice mails, emails and follow her at work or where she’s going after work, electronic surveillance, there’s even a television show Cheaters that if you qualify, you may be able to have that all documented on camera if that’s what you want to do. But you need to understand that in all relationship, there is joint responsibility, nobody’s 100% at fault and nobody is at 0% at fault either. So you need to have responsibility. If all this else fails, try the direct approach, have you asked her? And watch for behavior. Is she nervous? Will she avert your eyes?.
5 Signs your Partner is Cheating and is having Extra Marital Affair
5 signs your partner is cheating is having extramarital affair We are living in the age of Social Networking, Financial Freedom and Easy Availability. If your partner has a roving eye and does not mind instant gratification then your partner is more prone to having an affair or extramarital sex. So how do you know whether you are being cheated upon? Here is a list of some changes in behavior that could mean hes looking for love and.
Comfort elsewhere. No Eye Contact Eyes are the doors to the soul. If there is an element of guilt in your partners conscience because of the extramarital affair, he would avoid emotional and physical intimacy with you as he has betrayed your trust. Going further, you must check if your spouse.
Also avoids being alone with you. these signs confirm that he emotionally wants to cut his feelings of affection for you, as he is feeling guilty due to his proximity with the new partner. He has suddenly become inaccessible This stage is much more advanced stage Your spouse may suddenly make himself very unavailable. Whenever at home, he is busy on computer working on some project or report or an urgent presentation.
On holidays he doesnt stay at home because he is attending some training program or visiting a friend in . Similarly when you call him at his office, you are told by his Secretary or colleagues at he is in a meeting with the boss or is attending to the client. Did you ever wonder why he is perpetually busy? He could be spending more and more time away from home with another woman. This is your second clue to the ongoing extramarital.
Affair. Sudden changes in his appearance Just check if your husband has drastically changed his clothing style, hair do or appearance for no apparent need. He may be trying to impress the other woman. If your partner goes in for a makeover so that he can look younger or more energetic it may be more than a change of fashion sense, be warned.
Changes in his life style If your lazy spouse who is fond of football watching on TV has suddenly become a morning person and a regular to gym, please take it that it may not be you that hes trying to impress. He may be trying to look good to his new love interest especially if she is a much younger woman. Secretive Nature.
Did you notice that your spouse gets startled when you catch him unawares on computer or on mobile chatting or texting? Often you find him chatting in whispers over phone and on noticing you, he tells the other person Ill call you back and disconnects. It is because you are not part of his other world as he has been hiding it from you. This behavior can be characterized as secretive, unusual or unexplained. This should alert you about the possibility of your partner cheating on you.