Counseling Laguna Hills 714 '01652 Four Signs Your Marriage Is In Trouble
Hi. Robyn D'Angelo here, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Relationship Specialist. Today I'm talking to you about four signs that your marriage could be in trouble. So, research shows that people in longterm, committed, unhappy relationships actually have lower selfesteem. They struggle with things like depression and anxiety. And they even have a higher chance of illness. So this really speaks to the severity of being in an unhappy relationship and how it can negatively impact, so not only, you know, mentally and emotionally, but also physically. So, there are four basic behaviors that are considered relationship.
Killers. And the first one is criticism. So, what this looks like is when you blame or put fault on your partner in a way that you're putting negative remarks out there of them. So that's like, You're just so lazy. Or, You never listen to me. Things like that. What happens when you consistently do this over time is you chip away at that love and that trust in your relationship. So, that's the first sign. The second sign is defensiveness. Defensiveness is basically when you're not taking any responsibility for your behaviors.
Or it's when you verbally attack or get kind of verbally aggressive with your partner in a response to any feedback from them. And what happens is this just melts away the connection between you and your partner. And, the third thing is contempt. So, when you have a contemptuous attitude toward your partner, you are kind of doing what we call like kind of zingers or kind of sticks with really negative comments to them. And that looks like namecalling. It can even look like kind of scoffing at them or mocking them. Because when you are contemptuous,.
You're basically saying, I'm superior to you and you're defective. That's the message that you're sending to your partner. So you can see how this can really negatively impact a relationship. And the fourth sign is something called stonewalling. And so this is when you purposely withdraw from a conversation, whether you're in conflict or it's just uncomfortable, with the intent to stop all communication. And this can look like, say you're on the phone with your partner in a heated conversation and they hang up on you or you hang up on.
Them. Or, it can look like you're having a conversation with your partner and it's one of those Fine, whatever, forget it. That's stonewalling. That's cutting off the communication. It can be really, really negatively impactful on your relationship. So, these four signsthese are actually what Drs. Julie and John Gottman call the four horsemen of the apocalypse. And they sound just awful and that's because they are. So, if you're seeing some of these come up in your relationship and you'd like more help on how to eliminate these, give.
Marriage and Divorce
MUSIC We live in a world in which the whole concept of marriage is in peril and where divorce is commonplace. Some even refer to a first marriage as a starter marriage, like a small home one uses for awhile before moving on. There are many good people who have been divorced. I speak first to them. We know that many of you are innocent victims whose former spouses persistently betrayed sacred covenants or abandoned or refused to perform marriage responsibilities for an extended period. Those who have experienced such abuse have firsthand.
Knowledge of circumstances worse than divorce. When a marriage is dead and beyond hope of resuscitation, it is needful to have a means to end it. All who have been through divorce know the pain and need the healing power and hope that comes from the Atonement. That healing power and that hope are there for them and also for their children. Now I speak to married people, especially to any who may be considering divorce. I strongly urge you and those who advise you to face up to the reality that for most marriage problems, the remedy.
Is not divorce but repentance. Often the cause is not incompatibility but selfishness. The first step is not separation but reformation. Divorce is not an allpurpose solution, and it often creates longterm heartache. If you are already descending into the low state of marriageinnameonly, please join hands, kneel together, and prayerfully plead for the help and the healing power of the Atonement. Your humble and united pleadings will bring you closer to the Lord and to each other and will help you in the hard climb back to marital harmony. Whatever the outcome and no matter how difficult your.
Marriage Relationship Advice Finding Help for a Troubled Relationship
Hi, I'm Patti German and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we're going to talk about finding help for a troubled relationship. The best place to start is of course to find a qualified professional person who is able to deal with relationship work. Relationship is about two people together. It's not just for her or for him, or for two guys or two girls. It's about the relationship. So I highly recommend a person who is qualified to work with relationships and understands the dynamics that each person.
Retrouvaille at Marygrove 2013
Retrouvaille for Troubled Marriages, Marygrove Retreat Center, June 79, 2013 Fr. Jamie Ziminski Thank you for your interest in the Retrouvaille weekend for troubled marriages. I'm Father Jamie Ziminski, the director here at Marygrove. I'll be glad to tell you about this weekend. Retrouvaille is a weekend program for deeply troubled marriages. It's conducted by a priest and 3 couples who present their stories of disillusionment and eventual healing. Attending couples are provided techniques that may enable them to see their spouses in a new light and start them on a path.
To rebuild and restore their marriage. The weekend begins on Friday evening after supper, so plan to arrive sometime between 78PM Eastern time. The weekend ends on Sunday after lunch, about 430 in the afternoon. During the weekend, the team gives a series of presentations and shares a technique of communication that enables participants to take a good look at most of the areas of their marital relationship. The team does not provide marriage advice. The team provides practical tools for improving marriage. After each presentation, participants will have the chance.
To discuss it in complete privacy with his or her spouse. The best thing about Retrouvaille is the privacy. When couples arrive on Friday night, the husband is asked to introduce his wife, and the wife is asked to introduce her husband. And that's it. They are not asked to divulge any information about their problems to anyone else. If the couple wants to talk to the team members or a priest, they certainly can, but they don't have to. There are no small groups or expected counseling sessions. The husband talks to his wife,.
And the wife talks to her husband, and that's that. During the postweekend sessions, the techniques learned on the weekend are further developed and used to explore additional areas of the marital relationship. The cost of the Retrouvaille weekend is yet to be determined, however, no couple is ever denied the chance to heal and renew their marriage because of lack of funds. This year, the Retrouvaille weekend will be June 79. For more information, just go to the Retrouvaille website at retrouvaille. Or call the Retrouvaille coordinators at 18004702230. Although Retrouvaille is not a miracle cure,.
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